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takenbyjohnr07 -> RE: Do you ever (1/8/2008 11:35:43 AM)

Read my lips. i posted about the person looking for cheap labor, taking advantage of someone eho is a sub or slave. This thread is not about how a sub or slave feels or what they like. It is about the people who try to scam them and take advantage of them without their knowledge. It has nothing to do with a person's kink. It is about being dishonest to someone who thinks you really want them as a sdub or slave. i don't know how else i can make this thread any clearer.




sweetwenchie -> RE: Do you ever (1/8/2008 11:38:22 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Kalista07

OMG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! THE HORROR OF IT ALL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  Okay....Okay....i can do this....ahem...uhmm...My name is Kali, and this weekend i......well....i cleaned someone's house for $50.00......He's completely vanilla...Damn it!! i should probably go back and offer to give him a blow job.



At the very least you might want to give him a hand job [;)]




lauren0221 -> RE: Do you ever (1/8/2008 11:45:04 AM)

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ORIGINAL: takenbyjohnr07

Read my lips. i posted about the person looking for cheap labor, taking advantage of someone eho is a sub or slave. This thread is not about how a sub or slave feels or what they like. It is about the people who try to scam them and take advantage of them without their knowledge. It has nothing to do with a person's kink. It is about being dishonest to someone who thinks you really want them as a sdub or slave. i don't know how else i can make this thread any clearer.


How do you scam someone and take advantage of them without their knowledge? Sooner or later, I think they will notice. If someone decides to serve someone who is looking exclusively for cleaning services, is that not their choice? If I choose to be "taken advantage of" in this manner, that would be my choice?

(Disclaimer - I am truly awful at cleaning, so this would not be my kink)




Poppygirl -> RE: Do you ever (1/8/2008 11:46:07 AM)

i thought thats what no strings house work is about?




Midgie -> RE: Do you ever (1/8/2008 11:56:37 AM)

If someone wants, for their own pleasure, to come in and clean. I could really use the help!

I understand what the OP is saying, but honestly, if that's what someone is looking for (a maid basically) and someone responds and they work something out, no matter how little other services are involved, how is there a "scam"?




YourhandMyAss -> RE: Do you ever (1/8/2008 12:00:10 PM)

Where could I get myself one of these service only slaves, I have the perfect use for them lol.

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ORIGINAL: MissMagnolia

Yes, I have service only slaves. They like it, I like it, whats your problem with it?




YourhandMyAss -> RE: Do you ever (1/8/2008 12:08:12 PM)

and perhaps you should get off your high and mighty horse and stop coming across as a snob. Not posting FR isn't being rude .
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ORIGINAL: swtnsparkling

Ah,, then Perhaps next time you might reply to the Person who asked the question then or even place a FR in your response . No need to be Rude


The End




takenbyjohnr07 -> RE: Do you ever (1/8/2008 12:13:43 PM)

Forgive me for changing the subject for a minute, but i just had to tell you how much i love your screen name. i wish i thought of it. Have a great day!




KyttynTheMynx -> RE: Do you ever (1/8/2008 12:39:03 PM)

Takenbyjohnr07, what you see as someone being taken advantage of, is what another sees as their dream position.  Your kink isnt my kink, isnt Bob's kink, isnt Sheila's kink and so forth.  My best friend sees my submission as me letting a man take advantage of me.  I don't. (And neither does my ex, or other friends I have who are in the lifestyle)




Missokyst -> RE: Do you ever (1/8/2008 12:49:17 PM)

Ok.. my question to you is then, how do you know what is in their head?  How do you know that the people wanting a housekeeper are not getting wet at the idea and bonking their brains out after the work is done?  How do you know that they only want free labor?  How can you label it as dishonest if you haven't talked to these people?
Kyst
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ORIGINAL: takenbyjohnr07

Read my lips. i posted about the person looking for cheap labor, taking advantage of someone eho is a sub or slave. This thread is not about how a sub or slave feels or what they like. It is about the people who try to scam them and take advantage of them without their knowledge. It has nothing to do with a person's kink. It is about being dishonest to someone who thinks you really want them as a sdub or slave. i don't know how else i can make this thread any clearer.




takenbyjohnr07 -> RE: Do you ever (1/8/2008 1:21:19 PM)

As my thread states very clearly. i am only referring to people who advertise on these sites only for the purpose of  scaming others. i don't understand why everyone cannot grasp that.




takenbyjohnr07 -> RE: Do you ever (1/8/2008 1:24:32 PM)

Please read my thread over again. You will see that i was referring to "some" people and not to everyone.




AquaticSub -> RE: Do you ever (1/8/2008 1:36:48 PM)

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ORIGINAL: takenbyjohnr07

As my thread states very clearly. i am only referring to people who advertise on these sites only for the purpose of  scaming others. i don't understand why everyone cannot grasp that.


What are you defining as scamming though? The fact that they want NSA housework? You said "without their knowledge" but as your OP says, it's pretty clear that they just want housework. That isn't scamming someone.




BitaTruble -> RE: Do you ever (1/8/2008 1:48:59 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: takenbyjohnr07

Read my lips. i posted about the person looking for cheap labor, taking advantage of someone eho is a sub or slave. This thread is not about how a sub or slave feels or what they like. It is about the people who try to scam them and take advantage of them without their knowledge. It has nothing to do with a person's kink. It is about being dishonest to someone who thinks you really want them as a sdub or slave. i don't know how else i can make this thread any clearer.


How is it a scam and dishonest if it's right there in the profile for any potential submissive to read? If you got that impression, why do you think someone else would be scammed and not get the same impression?  

Celeste




Rushemery -> RE: Do you ever (1/8/2008 2:29:13 PM)

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ORIGINAL: ghitaPVH

but really...if I could find a live in maid who would work for beatings and food Id be happy....feel free to send me a cmail...hehe...



me too ecpt ill be expecting sex as well




CalifChick -> RE: Do you ever (1/8/2008 2:40:10 PM)

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ORIGINAL: takenbyjohnr07

As my thread states very clearly. i am only referring to people who advertise on these sites only for the purpose of  scaming others. i don't understand why everyone cannot grasp that.


Well perhaps you could point us to this magic list so we will all know.  Is there a code word?  Does it say right there in their profile... "I'm going to promise you the world in exchange for cleaning my house, but I have no intention of following through."

Cali




Missokyst -> RE: Do you ever (1/8/2008 4:14:19 PM)

Exactly!
Are these "some people" stating that they are only interested in free housecleaning?  If so, how is that dishonest if they are stating what they seek?
Kyst
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ORIGINAL: CalifChick

quote:

ORIGINAL: takenbyjohnr07

As my thread states very clearly. i am only referring to people who advertise on these sites only for the purpose of  scaming others. i don't understand why everyone cannot grasp that.


Well perhaps you could point us to this magic list so we will all know.  Is there a code word?  Does it say right there in their profile... "I'm going to promise you the world in exchange for cleaning my house, but I have no intention of following through."

Cali





camille65 -> RE: Do you ever (1/8/2008 4:16:38 PM)

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ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

quote:

ORIGINAL: takenbyjohnr07

As my thread states very clearly. i am only referring to people who advertise on these sites only for the purpose of  scaming others. i don't understand why everyone cannot grasp that.


What are you defining as scamming though? The fact that they want NSA housework? You said "without their knowledge" but as your OP says, it's pretty clear that they just want housework. That isn't scamming someone.
   takenbyjohn, I think you have some misunderstandings going on. Having read a lot of your posts I think you need to come to the understanding that the way you live is NOT the way everyone lives. Nor is it the way that everyone wants to live.




slavegirljoy -> RE: Do you ever (1/8/2008 4:27:52 PM)

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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

Absolutely.  And some subs want that also.

The difference is the ones who are open and direct about it and the ones who aren't.

Very true.  Before i found my Master, i advertised on Yahoo to be a live-in housekeeper, in exchange for room and board and for 2 1/2 years i was the live-in housekeeper, laundress, cook, groundskeeper, personal assistant, etc., with no sex, to an older, disabled man, in exchange for free room and board and nothing more.  He didn't pay me.  It worked out great and gave me time to find a wonderful Master, without any pressure or hurry.
 
slave joy
Owned property of Master David




swtnsparkling -> RE: Do you ever (1/8/2008 6:01:55 PM)

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  Yourhandmyass
and perhaps you should get off your high and mighty horse and stop coming across as a snob. 
Not posting FR isn't being rude
       < no it is'nt being rude I never said it was
What bug crawled your butt?  why don't you go back and reread all my posts on the topic.
Maybe you'll understand what I wrote.  Wont have to jump in with insults




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