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catize -> RE: All play and no substance (1/8/2008 5:27:45 AM)
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Casual encounters can certainly be fulfilling, a means to gain experience and develop friendships that include play as well as D/s.
There are a certain percentage of people, myself included, who are not capable of, or at least have never found a deeply abiding ‘love’ connection with another. Monogamy, 24/7 is not everyone’s goal. I would, however, define the bond I do have with the two dominants in my life as much more than casual and not just sport.
I am quite content with the way my life is, I am more than satisfied to participate in wiitwd part time. These two men have helped me reach within myself to find joy in submitting to them. I have discovered deep wells of giving that I did not know I possessed. Whenever I am in the presence of one of them, they then have power over all that I am; they own that fountain of service.
And when we part, we are smiling.
My life is a jig saw puzzle, the picture of who I am and the people in my life emerge from the interlocking solid pieces. Each piece is substantial on its own but creates the whole.
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