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RE: New public circle of friends, pros and cons - 1/7/2008 8:42:43 PM   
dawntreader


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ORIGINAL: Lordandmaster

I'm withholding judgment until I can determine whether it nets me more or less pussy than before.


You are so profound and systematic.  Kind of like the scientific method of kink.

~ giggles ~

ROFL!!!!!!!!!!
i was thinking the same thing!
i will ofcourse be expecting a public report on the findings!
 
As to my thoughts on the public circle of friends, i have added a few people...several i know and have served or played with - others i know from here and would like to meet - i think it will be an interesting feature! As to whether it is a deterent to someone interested in me because i have friends posted...not too worried about THAT. my profile tends to screen out most anyway regardless. Not too many people looking for hippy chicks! ROFLMAO!

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RE: New public circle of friends, pros and cons - 1/7/2008 9:48:06 PM   
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Just remember the old saying... "Friends help you move, real friends help you move bodies". Don't waste your time with people who don't own power tools or large automobiles

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RE: New public circle of friends, pros and cons - 1/7/2008 10:42:05 PM   
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RE: New public circle of friends, pros and cons - 1/7/2008 11:10:58 PM   
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Status: offline 		i was surprised when i got the first request but gladly it was someone who i have met in person....i will be keeping my friend's list to the people i know in r/t or atleast those that i chat with regularly enough to have made a decent judgement of them....Also, most likely any of the forum users who i "know" from here...i know where most of the regulars stand on alot of stuff so i would consider adding them.

On one site i visit (a swingers site), they suggest only adding ppl to your list that you know in r/t or that are verfied. When i first saw the word "public" i thought that was what it meant. Not a bad idea if it could be used for some sort of verification.


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RE: New public circle of friends, pros and cons - 1/7/2008 11:13:15 PM   
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Status: offline 		Oh gosh, as if real life wasn't stressful enough..now I have to worry that I have no friends on my list?!  Luckily, I won't have to see the faces of the people who randomly view me .  I wont have to see the pity in their eyes when they see my blank friend list.   Just know everyone I am hanging my head in shame..shame I tell you !
* winks*

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RE: New public circle of friends, pros and cons - 1/7/2008 11:14:22 PM   
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RE: New public circle of friends, pros and cons - 1/7/2008 11:19:27 PM   
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ORIGINAL: daddyncherry

i was surprised when i got the first request but gladly it was someone who i have met in person....i will be keeping my friend's list to the people i know in r/t or atleast those that i chat with regularly enough to have made a decent judgement of them....Also, most likely any of the forum users who i "know" from here...i know where most of the regulars stand on alot of stuff so i would consider adding them.


I have the exact same viewpoint.  Otherwise it just winds up being a collection of pictures...

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RE: New public circle of friends, pros and cons - 1/7/2008 11:21:33 PM   
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Want a pity invite?


What would be the point Lordandmaster?  We'd both know it was a "pity fuck" what girl wants that?


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RE: New public circle of friends, pros and cons - 1/7/2008 11:34:46 PM   
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ORIGINAL: desertdancer

Oh gosh, as if real life wasn't stressful enough..now I have to worry that I have no friends on my list?!  Luckily, I won't have to see the faces of the people who randomly view me .  I wont have to see the pity in their eyes when they see my blank friend list.   Just know everyone I am hanging my head in shame..shame I tell you !
* winks*


Ok how do we go about spying someone's friend page?

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RE: New public circle of friends, pros and cons - 1/7/2008 11:43:34 PM   
Hottiegurl


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Status: offline 		I am not sure how this works on this public circle of friends.  Is there a cheat code to it? 
 
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RE: New public circle of friends, pros and cons - 1/8/2008 12:10:56 AM   
Lordandmaster


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Status: offline 		You can see their friends if you open up their full profile.

Like, for example, you have my icon in your friends list.  Kinda like marking my territory.

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Ok how do we go about spying someone's friend page?

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RE: New public circle of friends, pros and cons - 1/8/2008 4:12:56 AM   
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God DAMN, you have a lot of friends, dawntreader.


ROFL!!!!!!!!!!!! You think so? A couple of my friends are still out of town and have not accepted yet! LOL!!! 
 
There are quite a few NOT on my list from these forums that i consider "forum friends" but like everyone else, i am trying to keep it to those i have met in real life or have realistic plans to meet as i start traveling west. i am sure i will be adding more as i have several people yet to meet here as well!
i do get away from this keyboard now and then!

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  Like, for example, you have my icon in your friends list.  Kinda like marking my territory.
 

< Message edited by dawntreader -- 1/8/2008 4:15:23 AM >

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RE: New public circle of friends, pros and cons - 1/8/2008 10:23:09 AM   
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ORIGINAL: desertdancer

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ORIGINAL: Lordandmaster

Want a pity invite?


What would be the point Lordandmaster?  We'd both know it was a "pity fuck" what girl wants that?



You say that like it's a bad thing.

Cali
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RE: New public circle of friends, pros and cons - 1/8/2008 10:41:41 AM   
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I'm withholding judgment until I can determine whether it nets me more or less pussy than before.
This is sig worth, AHAHhahahaha!

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RE: New public circle of friends, pros and cons - 1/8/2008 12:54:06 PM   
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What do you see as a benefit and as a possible pit fall in these circles? 



I suppose showing up on someone's friend's list might be helpful in breaking the ice with a woman who knows that member and thinks highly of that particular member.

"Ahhh, yes, Fly...I saw him on Edna-in-Eden's friend's list. She's a great person.  Now he's writing to me.  Let me check with Edna and get the low-down on him."

OR

It could be a deal-killer from the get-go.

"Fly...yeah, he's a friend of Edna-in-Eden...that impossible bitch!  If he likes her, he must have no taste at all.  Where's that Delete button?"

In reality, it will have pros and cons, much like most things in life.

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RE: New public circle of friends, pros and cons - 1/8/2008 1:05:47 PM   
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RE: New public circle of friends, pros and cons - 1/8/2008 1:30:33 PM   
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I sent out about 8 or so "Friends Requests" when I saw the option, but I think most of them "got lost" while they were coding improvements (boring details available).

But .. I did invite Mod 11 as a friend ...

No reply yet.

Kinda afraid to ask her again, as I'm not sure if she didn't get it due to the coding, or she just laughed her ass off ...

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RE: New public circle of friends, pros and cons - 1/8/2008 2:06:55 PM   
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Status: offline 		I see for some it is taking off. Others, even with r/t friends are waiting.

For myself and kali, a couple searching for another property, we see the circle as a plus IF we connect with others who atleast online appear to be honest and with skills in this lifestyle. They must be meet face to face however  The circle as a refference so to speak, but only after a R/T meeting(s) and that does not include party or event play. Anyone can be anything there. It is in private that the true self shines or not. My r/t is much smaller than my all over the place DFW slavegirl kali. She knows doms.we............ need slaves.........    

I laugh when I read some rocket scientist mega poster say I, we are fake. I save the ones who attempt to take easy shots at me! That is fuel for me! At the end of the day I still smile and enjoy life.........do they........well I do hope that they do, after all my simple words have almost allowed them to boil over!! 

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RE: New public circle of friends, pros and cons - 1/8/2008 3:54:35 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Lordandmaster


Like, for example, you have my icon in your friends list.  Kinda like marking my territory.



Oooh! Saves the trouble of getting peed on! 

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RE: New public circle of friends, pros and cons - 1/8/2008 3:56:32 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Lordandmaster

I'm withholding judgment until I can determine whether it nets me more or less pussy than before.


It's hard to argue with that

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