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RE: Not getting what i need. - 1/23/2008 2:51:27 PM

lusciouslips19

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Sure luscious, call me. I mean that... call.

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Shit (and i rarely swear)!

No amount of therapy would ever help me and my issues, neurosis, psychosis, mania and all those other things that make me......Hmmmmm Interesting

Edited to add: You take monopoly money???

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RE: Not getting what i need. - 1/23/2008 2:56:24 PM

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Paypal only. Up front. So... how does THAT make you feel?

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RE: Not getting what i need. - 1/23/2008 3:09:07 PM

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Paypal only. Up front. So... how does THAT make you feel?

Dr. Cali Freud

LIKE STARTING A RANTING POST!

or maybe I should change my profile in order to be honest? How about psychobipolarneuroticluscioussub? Yes, I'll wear my label proud!

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RE: Not getting what i need. - 1/24/2008 8:10:02 AM

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Colour me confused. Sooo, you want a top that coddles you?

Sounds more like a case of childish and petulant "I want" rather than need.

Actually, I disagree with this. Everyone has the right to want what they want, and not be judged for needing what they need to be happy. If coddling, a pet or D/lg dynamic is what she wants, then that's fine.

What isn't fine is that the op isn't mature enough to realize her bf has the same rights to want what he wants. And insufficiently mature to realize that sometimes two people just aren't compatible. She wants her stuff at his expense. And that's where I draw the bottom line. Either you find a win-win situation or you suck it up or you walk. Those are the options.

So, am I off the chocolate weekend list for disagreeing?

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RE: Not getting what i need. - 1/24/2008 8:59:31 AM

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So, am I off the chocolate weekend list for disagreeing?

No, but you only get the Kmart generic chocolate.

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RE: Not getting what i need. - 1/24/2008 9:26:34 AM

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Is there such a thing as bad chocolate (other than really old chocolate which is gross)?

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RE: Not getting what i need. - 1/24/2008 10:02:32 AM

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Yes, laurell, there is! (lots of snarkiness about giving you all the bad choc deleted). Bad chocolate usually tastes, and has the texture of, wax. Here is something I found funny... a little essay called Bad Chocolate.

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RE: Not getting what i need. - 1/24/2008 11:03:07 AM

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Haha that's hilarious...poor Krissy!

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RE: Not getting what i need. - 1/24/2008 1:05:34 PM

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You cannot train a Dom from the bottom, it will not work. If you ever did get him to the point that you wanted, you would always wonder in your mind, if he was doing it because he wanted too, or because you want him too.

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RE: Not getting what i need. - 1/24/2008 1:06:52 PM

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Colour me confused. Sooo, you want a top that coddles you?

Sounds more like a case of childish and petulant "I want" rather than need.

Actually, I disagree with this. Everyone has the right to want what they want, and not be judged for needing what they need to be happy. If coddling, a pet or D/lg dynamic is what she wants, then that's fine.

What isn't fine is that the op isn't mature enough to realize her bf has the same rights to want what he wants. And insufficiently mature to realize that sometimes two people just aren't compatible. She wants her stuff at his expense. And that's where I draw the bottom line. Either you find a win-win situation or you suck it up or you walk. Those are the options.

So, am I off the chocolate weekend list for disagreeing?

Of course not, I believe in the idea of "agreeing to disagree"

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RE: Not getting what i need. - 1/24/2008 1:31:57 PM

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So, am I off the chocolate weekend list for disagreeing?

No, but you only get the Kmart generic chocolate.

Cali

SOB!

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RE: Not getting what i need. - 1/24/2008 2:53:38 PM

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I know what you mean. I have been collard and even than I never truly got what I needed. True Masters get it but most who claim they are Master's/Tops do not understand what drives us sto submit or what to do with us once they take us...

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RE: Not getting what i need. - 1/24/2008 3:19:38 PM

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I know what you mean. I have been collard and even than I never truly got what I needed. True Masters get it but most who claim they are Master's/Tops do not understand what drives us sto submit or what to do with us once they take us...

Nooo noooo noooo... must... resist............ must........... resist.........

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RE: Not getting what i need. - 1/24/2008 3:21:11 PM

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Cali?..........step away from the computer and no one gets hurt

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RE: Not getting what i need. - 1/24/2008 4:24:00 PM

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I know what you mean. I have been collard and even than I never truly got what I needed. True Masters get it but most who claim they are Master's/Tops do not understand what drives us sto submit or what to do with us once they take us...

LMFAO
TRUE MASTERS?
You have got to be fucking kidding?

What makes them TRUE MASTERS? Do they finish a special master course in which they are presented with paperwork that claims them TRUE MASTERS? Do they get a plaque to put on their wall so everyone can see how TRUE they are?

/snicker

Poor, misguided child.

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RE: Not getting what i need. - 1/24/2008 4:25:22 PM

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Nooo noooo noooo... must... resist............ must........... resist.........

Cali

Don't worry. I have it under control.

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RE: Not getting what i need. - 1/24/2008 4:39:25 PM

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I have a Masters in Mastership from the Top University in the World, with Honors and Honours even. I keep it hanging on the wall so that any visiting True Slave will be properly intimidated.

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RE: Not getting what i need. - 1/24/2008 4:45:26 PM

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I have a Masters in Mastership from the Top University in the World, with Honors and Honours even. I keep it hanging on the wall so that any visiting True Slave will be properly intimidated.

I don't know which one of you said that (hint hint... sign yer damn posts), but I think I'm falling into some serious lust here.

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RE: Not getting what i need. - 1/24/2008 4:46:43 PM

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Don't worry. I have it under control.

Sigh... you're my hero Miss Mist.

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RE: Not getting what i need. - 1/24/2008 4:56:16 PM

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Is it just me or does anyone else notice that dommeliness that Cali is developing???

*hopes i'm the only one lusting after her*

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