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RE: Does "On your knees, Bitch!" EVER work in... - 2/15/2008 10:48:26 AM

StormsSlave

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bitch-o-gram...hee hee...gonna add that one to my vocabulary.

I usually hit ignore and get on with my day, but that's just me.

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RE: Does "On your knees, Bitch!" EVER work in... - 2/15/2008 12:14:54 PM

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ORIGINAL: Sundowner

Wow! I think we have an answer to the Does "On your knees, Bitch!" EVER work in a first e-mail? question. And from a young Californian lady of impeccable reputation and standing in the community too.

Decidedly yes it does.

That wasn't your first email to me, Slick. Oops, was I not supposed to say that?

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RE: Does "On your knees, Bitch!" EVER work in... - 2/15/2008 2:02:36 PM

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the on your knees bitch thing turns me off not because it is degrading .but because it seems to me like the dom is selling himself like who is he trying to convince me or himself. I would rather he show me how dom he is by way of his actions , than try to win me over by proving to me that he knows how to use curse words.

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RE: Does "On your knees, Bitch!" EVER work in... - 2/15/2008 6:16:29 PM

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Uh...ummmm...NO! Maybe its just because I'm the type who wants to know somthing about a person I'm considering. With pet our convos were pretty normal, I asked tons of questions about his rubber fetish~Ohhh, shiny and pretty....want to touch~and it kind of snowballed from there. We got to know about eachother not just kink, as well as things we liked and hard limits. Bitch came later once I decided to consider him to make him mine.

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RE: Does "On your knees, Bitch!" EVER work in... - 2/15/2008 6:36:05 PM

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I have gotten lots of those emails and even one where I had to respond with "you want to put WHAT in WHERE??" Dream on!! I agree with you that if someone to repond to that type of line that 1) they are getting themselves into dark things that they may not be ready for and 2)are more than likely wannabes or playing. Either way comes with a lot of heartache I would imagine.

As for calling a stranger Sir or Ma'am, absolutely. I do that in everyday life , especially with older men and Ma'am for older women. After having gone thru 12 years of catholic school and 2 years of Jesuit college, I learned my manners real quick. And by having such strict manners, it sets my standards pretty high and people treat me better when interacting with me, even at the gas station. A smile and a Thank you Sir goes a long way with the regular attendants there! If nothing else, my behavior reflects on Master, even if they do not know him b/c I know I am capable of such high standards that we have both set down. And as Master said when we first started out, "you can call me Sir..as a sign of respect and Master when you are owned by me." oh and another quote of his that I love, "being petulant does not become you"-when I was in a PMS mood one day. So pretty much, I will be the first one to give respect out and then wait to see if it is returned in kind.

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RE: Does "On your knees, Bitch!" EVER work in... - 2/16/2008 2:30:20 AM

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Uh...ummmm...NO! Maybe its just because I'm the type who wants to know somthing about a person I'm considering. With pet our convos were pretty normal, I asked tons of questions about his rubber fetish~Ohhh, shiny and pretty....want to touch~and it kind of snowballed from there. We got to know about eachother not just kink, as well as things we liked and hard limits. Bitch came later once I decided to consider him to make him mine.

Proud to be the afore mentioned "bitch"!

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RE: Does "On your knees, Bitch!" EVER work in... - 2/16/2008 5:51:46 AM

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No , they dont work with me. I mean you don't even know me and I don't know you. That's just silly.

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RE: Does "On your knees, Bitch!" EVER work in... - 2/16/2008 11:48:26 AM

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ORIGINAL: OmegaG

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ORIGINAL: AlterEgo69

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ORIGINAL: angelikaJ

A.E.
I am curious about whether you were told this by a sub or a Dom/me.

aJ

This information came (with dismay similar to my own) from three female subs at a munch in NYC. We were lamenting about the unfortunate aspects of the scene, and the subject of these sorts of e-mails came up. I thought it was just obvious that nobody would ever take such message seriously, and all three of them said "NO!!! We know lots of subs who are turned off UNLESS the first contact is that brash!". These three women seemed completely perplexed to understand why it was true, but insisted it was. I still can't believe it, hence my question.

I would suggest that brash and degrading are two different appoaches.

Your profile is quite verbose, if you invest that much time in an initial e-mail you might be saturating them way too soon. Personally, I like a short e-mail that indicates interest specifically gleaned from my profile followed by a small amount of information pertaining to his thoughts on why we are compatible and maybe even a question for me so I don't stare at a blank screen wondering how I want to respond.

A man can be commanding in an e-mail while avoiding being crass. A man can also be polite to the point of wimpiness, especially if he over explains himself.

Then again, I'm one of those you didn't want to respond to you...

In all honesty I didn't find his profile that bad, a bit long yes, but much better like that, you really get a better idea of the Dom who's approaching you etc. The only thing that puzzled me were the comments on the non preference for 'larger' ladies, it might have been that the wording was unsuccessful but the (paraphrasing now) 'I'm fit etc and I have standards' sounded a bit rude.

As for the question you posed, AlterEgo69, there might be subs who like that approach although me not being one I can't for the life of me understand why they'd like something like that. BEcause at the end of the day it's not like they will get this horrible treatment only on first email but from then onwards (if they form a relationship of some sort with the 'Dom' in question). If they don't like it how can they back down and say 'You're mistreating me?'. I understand there might be people who like that but I don't find that a healthy approach and one bound to happiness. In my opinion.

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RE: Does "On your knees, Bitch!" EVER work in... - 4/19/2008 7:54:05 PM

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Maybe not on the internet, but in peson, definately

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RE: Does "On your knees, Bitch!" EVER work in... - 4/19/2008 8:02:20 PM

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Put it this way: several different approaches have worked for me.

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ORIGINAL: AlterEgo69

When I began hearing from many different subs that they frequently receive e-mails along the lines of "Hey you stupid worthless slut whore, get down on your slut knees before you read the rest of this message, you cheap slut bitch...", my first reaction was "Oh, those are just loser Dom-wannabes who don't understand what BDSM is really about". But I was recently told that many subs PREFER to be degraded this way in a FIRST e-mail communication, and that there is actually a subculture of subs who make a policy of not responding to e-mail UNLESS the Dom asserts himself in a very aggressive, degrading way in that first communication.

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RE: Does "On your knees, Bitch!" EVER work in... - 4/19/2008 8:05:40 PM

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Just when you thought it was safe to go back in the water.

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RE: Does "On your knees, Bitch!" EVER work in... - 4/19/2008 8:19:04 PM

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Half a brownie point for proper use of the comma.
That's it, though.

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RE: Does "On your knees, Bitch!" EVER work in... - 4/19/2008 8:27:07 PM

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Works for me! But then again i am the biggest male slut on this site.

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RE: Does "On your knees, Bitch!" EVER work in... - 4/19/2008 9:30:58 PM

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In an email?

No.

In a relationship?

Often.

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RE: Does "On your knees, Bitch!" EVER work in... - 4/20/2008 10:25:09 AM

Subana

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I don`t respond at mails like that, and I think that behind is a frustrated and non polite little person.

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RE: Does "On your knees, Bitch!" EVER work in... - 4/20/2008 11:26:36 AM

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it always has and always... ooh who am I kidding I usually just say no thankyou and if there is a message back they are blocked..lol..

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RE: Does "On your knees, Bitch!" EVER work in... - 4/20/2008 12:28:15 PM

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ORIGINAL: HarleyKitty69

I feel like sooo left out .........
I never got a "on your knees bitch e-mail "

I never got one either... perhaps some Doms actually do read profiles. Then again, I've gotten LOTS of "may i serve you Ma'am" type of emails... I guess lots of submissive men do not read profiles.

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RE: Does "On your knees, Bitch!" EVER work in... - 4/20/2008 1:02:07 PM

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That approach never works for me... and when it's tried in person, I can never keep a straight face.