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ORIGINAL: AlterEgo69

p.s. What I'm specifically hoping for is that a sub who LIKES being treated that way from initial contact will be willing to share their feelings here. Again, I'm not judging anything, but I am absolutely fascinated as to how this could feel good from someone you've never met, and I'm sincerely curious to understand the feelings of a sub who prefers such treatment.

A.E.

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ORIGINAL: Kalista07

Mist???!!!
What's this human being thing You speak of???!!! And how come no one told me we changed the protocal???!!!

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ORIGINAL: zhouwuatsien

I remember a time when it worked.  I used to do it.

When I was fourteen

In adult Chatrooms

With other teenagers all of us posing as adults.

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Likewise, I'm pretty sure that it's still functioning.  You've got a lot of people in Collarme who are very mature.  Lots of 50 year olds will do that to a site.  And lots of people who are very immature.  The younger crowd like me.  I just can't see being called a slut working on someone whose older, and has gone down that road before a million billion times.

But to younger people just getting into it.  That shit is GOLD.  Like SOLID GOLD.

Like California Gold rush Gold.  With Gold Sprinkles on top.

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I'll bet it works on one type of person, who are a little low self confident, young, naive.  A lot of of submissives on this site are not naive.  But naivety adds an EXTREME spice to submission.  I would think (no statistics or proof here, mind you) that no Master wants a Slave who knows more than them and the Master can't really protect or guide or even pleasure in new ways.  At least protect or guide them beyond what the slave can do for herself.

So in it's own way I'll bet it works on many levels.  But it's very hard for a relationship to go from borderline abusive to well and surviving and loving, I think.

• they're wankers, looking for wanking material
  
• That picture of you in your lingerie' is arousing! SCHWING!
  
  

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ORIGINAL: Owner4SexSlave

This thread got to wondering how I would respond to an email by a prospective sub/slave.    Such as "I'm down on my fucking knees now for you Sir.  I will be your worthless fucking bitch, take me now Master"...

I think I would be somewhat shocked, and well I might not take them all that serious, in fact I would probally believe it was just somebody screwing around online.

I think it would be great to express an interest in Verbal humilation, without actually engaging in it. 

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ORIGINAL: untrainedKajira

in All Honesty i do like a Dom to assert Himself immediately, because although i do know Men like to be a "gentlemen"
things like that just dont take my fancy.
its my preference to be abused, called names and what not. yes i know it doesnt work for everyone, but it works for me

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ORIGINAL: AlterEgo69

As  a straight dom, when I make first contact with a sub in the personals I always write a personal e-mail, generally behaving like a gentleman, and composing my message in a tone identical to what I would use to introduce myself to someone in the vanilla world. I make the assumption that we all know what we are here for, and that subs presumably want to be treated like full fledged human beings, at least until they choose to offer me their submission. I assume they already know I am capable of taking a much more commanding tone with them, else I wouldn't be here, and I assume they would only want to be exposed to my dominant energy after they have gotten to know me.

When I began hearing from many different subs that they frequently receive e-mails along the lines of "Hey you stupid worthless slut whore, get down on your slut knees before you read the rest of this message, you cheap slut bitch...", my first reaction was "Oh, those are just loser Dom-wannabes who don't understand what BDSM is really about". But I was recently told that many subs PREFER to be degraded this way in a FIRST e-mail communication, and that there is actually a subculture of subs who make a policy of not responding to e-mail UNLESS the Dom asserts himself in a very aggressive, degrading way in that first communication.

I am absolutely not judging anyone here! But I am completely fascinated and confused by this. It seems to me that subs' biggest complaint is usually that they meet pseudo-doms who aren't really into BDSM, and are just looking for easy sex. I would think that regardless of whether you are turned on by this kind of talk, responding to FIRST e-mails in which you are treated that way would just be asking for trouble.

Am I missing something? Is this really the preference of a significant population (subs wanting this sort of initial contact), or was my first instinct (that these are just ignorant loser dom-wannabes) correct?

Curiously yours,

A.E.

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ORIGINAL: lronitulstahp

intrigued...

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ORIGINAL: BlackKnight

Alright Subbieonwheels!
On you Knee bitch!