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RE: Does "On your knees, Bitch!" EVER work in... - 1/25/2008 9:10:00 AM

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Okay, maybe I'm being too subtle. I thought that my saying that I had not gotten any of these types of emails, that I might actually GET some. Yes, yes, I know... topping from the bottom... so spank me. Oops, I just did it again. Spank me some more. Vicious never-ending circle, isn't it??

So cmon, AE, Jeff, Ray, somebody? Cmon, you know you want to! Send me a Twue Domly On Your Knees Bitch email! PWEEEEEEEEEZE.

Cali

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RE: Does "On your knees, Bitch!" EVER work in... - 1/25/2008 9:19:07 AM

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This thread got to wondering how I would respond to an email by a prospective sub/slave. Such as "I'm down on my fucking knees now for you Sir. I will be your worthless fucking bitch, take me now Master"...

I think I would be somewhat shocked, and well I might not take them all that serious, in fact I would probally believe it was just somebody screwing around online.

I think it would be great to express an interest in Verbal humilation, without actually engaging in it.

This is a great question for all the D types...would it work for you if an s type sent you a similar email? Personally the subs I have talked to that are like this are uninteresting to me and suggest high maintenance which really turns me off.

I absolutely LOVE it when a sub addresses me as "Sir" in a first e-mail, and/or otherwise shows me that her general style is to speak respectfully to a dom as a dom.

However, if I ever got a message like "I am a slut and I am on my knees waiting to be abused by you", I would first assume it to be phony. If I had reason to believe it was legit, I would send back a polite, constructive reply suggesting that she be very careful, and observing that while she is completely entitled to take whatever approach she chooses, she should also know that she is inviting attention from the "dark side" of the BDSM scene, and I would encourage her to be very cautious about walking into a truly abusive situation before I politely told her she was not my type.

Just my two cents...

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RE: Does "On your knees, Bitch!" EVER work in... - 1/25/2008 9:22:11 AM

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I would never "sir" a stranger on-line. I don't understand why anyone would automatically "sir" someone just because he calls himself a dominant/master.

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RE: Does "On your knees, Bitch!" EVER work in... - 1/25/2008 9:29:56 AM

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C'mon. You know you want to. Admit it slut.

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RE: Does "On your knees, Bitch!" EVER work in... - 1/25/2008 9:31:34 AM

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I do. I'm weak. I just need a strong man in my life. ::sigh:: ::sob::
Mistress Aileen.....

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RE: Does "On your knees, Bitch!" EVER work in... - 1/25/2008 9:35:25 AM

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Good girl. You're very trainable.

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RE: Does "On your knees, Bitch!" EVER work in... - 1/25/2008 9:43:55 AM

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ORIGINAL: laurell3

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ORIGINAL: Owner4SexSlave

This thread got to wondering how I would respond to an email by a prospective sub/slave. Such as "I'm down on my fucking knees now for you Sir. I will be your worthless fucking bitch, take me now Master"...

I think I would be somewhat shocked, and well I might not take them all that serious, in fact I would probally believe it was just somebody screwing around online.

I think it would be great to express an interest in Verbal humilation, without actually engaging in it.

This is a great question for all the D types...would it work for you if an s type sent you a similar email? Personally the subs I have talked to that are like this are uninteresting to me and suggest high maintenance which really turns me off.

As a Domme I get that allllll the time.

It makes me ill. They do not give two shits about who they are talking to.. they are in thier own little wanker fantasy world messaging folks trying to find one who will help them wank off.

The whole " I will do anything you ask" "I am a worthless slut to do only as you please Mistress" *yawn* "I have no limits- use me as you will"

Oh please! you dont even know me. How can you "serve me" or do shit for me if you dont get to know me or give a shit about who the hell I am.

Even as a Domme I get the Nice ( insert body part) On your Knees Bitch! e-mails. Usualy it is more along the lines of You would look great with my **** shoved in your (whatever)

Oh yeah.. take me now.. Gods.. I want to have your baby. ( said dead pan )

I just chuckle, and iggy. If they dont respect themselves enough to respectfuly send a letter of greeting why the hell do I wish to drop down to thier level and send them any feedback?

At least it weeds out some of the wankers early on in the game. Makes you wonder why they are out loose in society.

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RE: Does "On your knees, Bitch!" EVER work in... - 1/25/2008 9:47:44 AM

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ORIGINAL: AlterEgo69

I absolutely LOVE it when a sub addresses me as "Sir" in a first e-mail, and/or otherwise shows me that her general style is to speak respectfully to a dom as a dom.

Dammit... now I'm going to have to go check my "sent messages" folder. I'm pretty darn sure I was respectful, and I think I used the words "yummy" and "studly", but not SIR.

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RE: Does "On your knees, Bitch!" EVER work in... - 1/25/2008 10:10:00 AM

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ORIGINAL: Gwynvyd

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This is a great question for all the D types...would it work for you if an s type sent you a similar email? Personally the subs I have talked to that are like this are uninteresting to me and suggest high maintenance which really turns me off.

As a Domme I get that allllll the time. It makes me ill.

I think that is very, very interesting. It sounds like the consensus of MALE doms is that this is an extremely unusual scenario (sub sending first e-mail claiming readiness for immediate submission). Yet your experience as a Domme is apparently that this is quite common.

I think the most logical conclusion is that there probably are a lot more subs out there than we realize who do feel INCLINED to take this tone in their first communication, but perhaps the ones dealing with male doms are cognizant of the higher personal safety risk associated with attracting the wrong attention from a male pseduo-dom. That's my conclusion, anway.

A.E.

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RE: Does "On your knees, Bitch!" EVER work in... - 1/25/2008 10:11:46 AM

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A guy has to be clueless to send something like that to a sub with any experience. They know it's the kiss of death to come across as a whack job who may fuck them up in very nasty ways.

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RE: Does "On your knees, Bitch!" EVER work in... - 1/25/2008 10:19:32 AM

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I absolutely LOVE it when a sub addresses me as "Sir" in a first e-mail, and/or otherwise shows me that her general style is to speak respectfully to a dom as a dom.

Dammit... now I'm going to have to go check my "sent messages" folder. I'm pretty darn sure I was respectful, and I think I used the words "yummy" and "studly", but not SIR.

Cali
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Don't worry Cali, you get HUGE extra brownie points just for having that avatar, regardless of whether she looks exactly like yourself or not...

A.E.

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RE: Does "On your knees, Bitch!" EVER work in... - 1/25/2008 10:23:16 AM

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I've been blocked or ignored many times when I sent a "gentlemanly" e-mail. I guess it depends on the recipient. I've also been ignored when I try to be humorous- some people have no sense of humor.

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RE: Does "On your knees, Bitch!" EVER work in... - 1/25/2008 10:28:52 AM

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I've been blocked or ignored many times when I sent a "gentlemanly" e-mail. I guess it depends on the recipient. I've also been ignored when I try to be humorous- some people have no sense of humor.

I just go by what they seem to like. gets me a reply about a third of the time-people love to talk about themselves.

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RE: Does "On your knees, Bitch!" EVER work in... - 1/25/2008 10:31:56 AM

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I've been blocked or ignored many times when I sent a "gentlemanly" e-mail. I guess it depends on the recipient. I've also been ignored when I try to be humorous- some people have no sense of humor.

Some of my best correspondence has been with people who have a bit of humor in their original message - if it is at least semi-clean and shows a bit of intelligence.

I just terminated communication with someone who came across quite gentlemanly at first, but too quickly assumed "Dom mode," calling me "little girl" and barking out orders (yes, the bark came through the written words). I hadn't even determined if he was serious or safe, much less that he was compatible, and certainly not that he was someone whose orders I would take seriously.

And I told him so. I don't mince words; I communicate clearly what I mean.

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RE: Does "On your knees, Bitch!" EVER work in... - 1/25/2008 10:42:48 AM

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I have only once or twice gotten those type of emails. Though what amuses me is the mail I get from male doms wanting to submit. my guess is, is that they want to things out, yet with someone who doesn't look threatening. **evil laugh** I have however gotten IM's statting "On your knees bitch!" when I 1st started exploring, statements like that interested me.

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RE: Does "On your knees, Bitch!" EVER work in... - 1/25/2008 10:53:31 AM

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am I the only one who is tempted to respond to "On your knees, Bitch" with "Make me"?

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RE: Does "On your knees, Bitch!" EVER work in... - 1/25/2008 10:54:29 AM

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am I the only one who is tempted to respond to "On your knees, Bitch" with "Make me"?

No, you are not

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RE: Does "On your knees, Bitch!" EVER work in... - 1/25/2008 11:08:33 AM

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No you aren't, I've also added a "You first" every now and then.

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RE: Does "On your knees, Bitch!" EVER work in... - 1/25/2008 11:10:17 AM

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am I the only one who is tempted to respond to "On your knees, Bitch" with "Make me"?

No, you are not

Here I am!!!!!!!

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RE: Does "On your knees, Bitch!" EVER work in... - 1/25/2008 11:13:28 AM

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Here I am!!!!!!!

Please tell me that i'm not the only one with the mighty mouse song in my head...You know the one... Here i am to save the day......Mighty Ron is on His way.......

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