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RE: Could You Recognize a BDSM Addict In Person? - 1/25/2008 8:26:48 AM   
pompeii


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Status: offline 		After you drop a few thousand hints and they still don't respond ... I'd say they're likely vanilla ...  but if you throw a dual-meaning keyword at 'em swirled up in the middle of a conversation - judge by their reaction ... e.g., the word "munch" means something to us yet, to nillas, it merely is a slang term for chewing.

If their nipples perk up whenever you name drop ... go for the command role!



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RE: Could You Recognize a BDSM Addict In Person? - 1/25/2008 9:11:29 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyLolly

For me, the dead give away is the pursing of the lips and the Ohhhhh that escapes when I pull out a paddle.   If they reach for it and start swishing it, they're dominant.  Sensually stroking it or promptly bending over something tends to indicate a submissive....... And no, I'm not joking.  


LOL..Ok I had to laugh with this one. I met Master when I came to his house for a social Gathering of a vanilla organization we both belonged to. After a 2 hour drive and a 42 oz soda, the first thing on my mind getting out of the car was a bathroom.
"Hello, Nice to meet you, Ummm bathroom?"
"You'll have to use the one in the Master bedroom, the other is occupied, follow me"

Hallway, glance in side bedroom as we passed..bathroom..HEAVEN..exit...

"OOOOO Nice St. Andrews Cross!"

That led of course to a tour of the play room, and some interesting talks all evening. The rest is history.

poenkitten

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RE: Could You Recognize a BDSM Addict In Person? - 1/25/2008 9:17:35 AM   
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Status: offline 		ALL BDSM addicts are the perverts you see hanging out at Home Depot. You will usually find them in the rope/chain section, the hardware section and sometimes you will find subs sitting on top of the clothes washers in the appliance section saying "oh please turn it on!"

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RE: Could You Recognize a BDSM Addict In Person? - 1/25/2008 9:23:26 AM   
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RE: Could You Recognize a BDSM Addict In Person? - 1/25/2008 9:37:17 AM   
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Status: offline 		I find that they can't pass a pet shop .. they press their little Dommy or subby noses against the windows and admire the dog collars and leashes with a wistful sigh - or at the very least giving the chain leashes a good tug and a swing around the head, to see if they'd 'stand up to the job; ... they will be the ones picking up the rubber dog grooming mitts - the ones with those rather delicous looking rubber bumps on them,  and stroking them across the back of the hands and muttering 'oooh, the possibilities!' ... The really kinky would have had fantasies about those clips one uses to attaches cuttle fish to budgies cages before you can say 'kibble' ..... 

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RE: Could You Recognize a BDSM Addict In Person? - 1/25/2008 9:43:33 AM   
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ORIGINAL: touchofeuphoria

What sort of things in/on a person might you look for in the vanilla life to recognize someone that's into BDSM?


They waddle when they walk because of the huge butt plug up their ass.

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RE: Could You Recognize a BDSM Addict In Person? - 1/25/2008 9:58:43 AM   
azropedntied


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Status: offline 		This time instead of adding my own i just wanna THANK YOU ALL instead . Tip's  my leather top hat to ya all for the wonderful responses  and all the gifts of laughter and smiles  given .

Ok.... i can not help it i have to share  just this one  story yeah yeah  i lied .
I have also been into old cars all my life i own them ,i drive them build them show them etc etc .
This one mid 60's El Camino chopped decent paint  ad on's etc slightly catches my eye , i follow the kewl pinstripe work from the tail gate to the door area  on the driver door it says in script , MASTER , on the passenger door slave .
For weeks  months years i see this car locally  without ever seeing its owner .Sure enough one day male female looking like everyone else , male looked  somewhat biker  with boots and a vest  female had a leather vest boot s jeans and  pretty collar .very discrete to most but made me smile .

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RE: Could You Recognize a BDSM Addict In Person? - 1/25/2008 10:11:26 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Aileen1968

quote:

ORIGINAL: touchofeuphoria

What sort of things in/on a person might you look for in the vanilla life to recognize someone that's into BDSM?


They waddle when they walk because of the huge butt plug up their ass.


LMFAO !!!

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RE: Could You Recognize a BDSM Addict In Person? - 1/25/2008 10:15:16 AM   
FRSguy


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Status: offline 		I have had a few that have outed on me in the workplace and what not.  They allways seem to say some little clue that they could be a Dom or Sub.  I have had one woman in the workplace tell me that her husband forgot to set her clothes out that morning and she couldnt figure out what to wear (she had been a sub to the same man for over 20 years).  I have had woman in the workplace come right out and ask me if I was a Dom.  Anyways, I have known a lot that have just kind of tossed things out there in regular conversations that durring the conversations seems to be just a shock value thing.  One woman after asking me if I was a Dom actually directed me to her pony play website,  I didnt like her at all but I really apreaciated the risk she was willing to take to get to know me.

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RE: Could You Recognize a BDSM Addict In Person? - 1/25/2008 10:16:01 AM   
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ORIGINAL: venusinblu

I find that they can't pass a pet shop .. they press their little Dommy or subby noses against the windows and admire the dog collars and leashes with a wistful sigh - or


My sister manages a big pet store... big enough that they even have their own shark in a tank as you walk in.  I do not browse in there, do not want to get an "oh realllly????" from sis. Nope, no how, no way.  Now going in there incognito on her day off... hmmm, that's an idea.

Cali


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RE: Could You Recognize a BDSM Addict In Person? - 1/25/2008 10:32:21 AM   
azropedntied


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SHARK TANKS you say ehhh
heeeeeeeeeeeeeeelloooooo ..

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RE: Could You Recognize a BDSM Addict In Person? - 1/25/2008 11:03:11 AM   
CalifChick


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ORIGINAL: azropedntied

** perk **
SHARK TANKS you say ehhh
heeeeeeeeeeeeeeelloooooo ..


Oh yes, my sharp-toothed friend.  We went down to the store on Christmas to feed the shark.  I'll send you a pic on the other side.  She is quite the... cute... shark.

Cali


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RE: Could You Recognize a BDSM Addict In Person? - 1/25/2008 11:51:30 AM   
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Status: offline 		Cali you have a sister? I know what a shark looks like send me a pic of your sister.

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RE: Could You Recognize a BDSM Addict In Person? - 1/25/2008 1:51:02 PM   
CalifChick


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ORIGINAL: Dnomyar

Cali you have a sister? I know what a shark looks like send me a pic of your sister.


LOL Ray.  First, she is a lesbian and she won't swing to the other side unless you're secretly Brad Pitt.  Second, she is in one of the pictures with the shark.  You'll have to ask Big & Blue up there to describe her, he got the pic.  LOL.

Cali
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RE: Could You Recognize a BDSM Addict In Person? - 1/25/2008 2:58:43 PM   
azropedntied


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Status: offline 		Thanks for sharing  cali very cool stuff !!
As far as me sharing a description  ,well i shall just say i do not break confidentiality s and as i am not secretly or otherwise brad pitt i shall just say it s a very endearing warm picture .
Chomp ..

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RE: Could You Recognize a BDSM Addict In Person? - 1/25/2008 4:11:32 PM   
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Status: offline 		CalifChick, It's funny about you not shopping in her store. We're horsey types but I don't buy toys in the tack shop my friend owns. She would know damn well that the horse doesn't wear pony hobbles and that we don't use crops on him. I have to go out of my way to shop at a tack shop I'm not known at. lol

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RE: Could You Recognize a BDSM Addict In Person? - 1/25/2008 4:14:30 PM   
CalifChick


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Status: offline 		Well Des, I have a feeling if a certain someone comes to town, that will be the first stop on the itinerary.  Sigh. 

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RE: Could You Recognize a BDSM Addict In Person? - 1/25/2008 4:28:25 PM   
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RE: Could You Recognize a BDSM Addict In Person? - 1/25/2008 4:34:27 PM   
Mercnbeth


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Status: offline 		a prior or current affiliation with an established patriarchal religion that comes complete with a "divinely inspired" mouthpiece here on earth(names and titles vary amongst the many cults).
 
even better if they held a title in said established religion.
 
it screams D/s, and the misery and suffering required are a big red flag of S/M.

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RE: Could You Recognize a BDSM Addict In Person? - 1/25/2008 5:48:12 PM   
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Status: offline 		Well I dont know how you tell but Sir was at the head office of his work one day, helping out with something and the receptionist said to him "wow your very Domly arent you". It stopped him in his tracks he had a chuckle then continued on with what he was doing.

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