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RE: Could You Recognize a BDSM Addict In Person? - 1/25/2008 7:40:33 PM   
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RE: Could You Recognize a BDSM Addict In Person? - 1/27/2008 4:56:20 PM   
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I find that they can't pass a pet shop .. they press their little Dommy or subby noses against the windows and admire the dog collars and leashes with a wistful sigh - or


My sister manages a big pet store... big enough that they even have their own shark in a tank as you walk in.  I do not browse in there, do not want to get an "oh realllly????" from sis. Nope, no how, no way.  Now going in there incognito on her day off... hmmm, that's an idea.

Cali



My awesome pet shop story.

I bought a chain leash.  The kind that costs $7.99 at the pet store and $18.99 at a fetish shop.  The clerk asked me, "what type of dog do you have?"

I replied, "I have cats."

*blank stare* 

Clerk definitely not into BDSM.  One down, 5,999,999,999 to go.

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RE: Could You Recognize a BDSM Addict In Person? - 1/27/2008 5:17:29 PM   
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You can find kinky innuendo in anything if you have a one track mind.

When I was in college I worked part time at a photocopier/finishing place - like a fedex-Kinkos type place.  When a customer would walk in, if he was a hot, handsome college type asking, "I need to have something bound," (ie a term paper or school project), I would always reply, "Sure. Wrists or ankles?"

That opened a LOT of doors.

Akasha


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RE: Could You Recognize a BDSM Addict In Person? - 1/27/2008 6:30:59 PM   
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ORIGINAL: AAkasha


You can find kinky innuendo in anything if you have a one track mind.

When I was in college I worked part time at a photocopier/finishing place - like a fedex-Kinkos type place.  When a customer would walk in, if he was a hot, handsome college type asking, "I need to have something bound," (ie a term paper or school project), I would always reply, "Sure. Wrists or ankles?"

That opened a LOT of doors.

Akasha



Suddenly,  I have an urge to get a job at kinkos..LOL

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RE: Could You Recognize a BDSM Addict In Person? - 1/27/2008 6:55:25 PM   
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ORIGINAL: touchofeuphoria

What sort of things in/on a person might you look for in the vanilla life to recognize someone that's into BDSM?


I'm a big fan of extremely large breasts.

(But that's just me).

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RE: Could You Recognize a BDSM Addict In Person? - 1/27/2008 7:05:40 PM   
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I hope this helps.

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RE: Could You Recognize a BDSM Addict In Person? - 1/28/2008 1:06:14 AM   
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Knows more about The lands outside of the Shire then the geography of the Earth.


Tooo funny.



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RE: Could You Recognize a BDSM Addict In Person? - 1/28/2008 7:29:41 AM   
collaredncontent


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Status: offline 		Personally if you were to see Master and I in public there are probably two indicators that I can think of that would tip a person off. If my shirt collar isn't hiding it I have a simple chain around my neck closed with a padlock. It's subtle and could pass for perhaps a punk/grunge fashion statement but it's my collar that I don't [and can't] take off. Another indicator would be me opening doors for him and my general demeanor. Then again in some instances we go 'stealth' about having a relationship at all. There are just some parts of town that you don't want to be two men walking hand in hand together. Gay and BDSM? There's gotta be a special hell for that!

-Brian.

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RE: Could You Recognize a BDSM Addict In Person? - 1/28/2008 7:36:16 AM   
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ORIGINAL: spicybrains

My awesome pet shop story.

I bought a chain leash.  The kind that costs $7.99 at the pet store and $18.99 at a fetish shop.  The clerk asked me, "what type of dog do you have?"

I replied, "I have cats."

*blank stare* 

Clerk definitely not into BDSM.  One down, 5,999,999,999 to go.


Haha! We had a similar experience only not as awesome and witty as yours. Master took me to a pet shop to get a chain leash which is much more thrifty than BDSM stores. When the clerk asked what type of dog we had my Master, bless him, responded with "a lab" which is the kind of dog he has at home. Unfortunately the leash was no where near the size you would use for a lab and was fitted with a choking collar. Me in my brillance compounded the situation by saying it was still a puppy. So now there we are with this lady giving us the look of death saying that you shouldn't use such harsh leashes on puppies. I wish I would have thought to come clean and let her know "oh no, this isn't for the puppy. Sory for the confusion, he's getting the leash for me and don't worry, I like to be choked." If she thought we were bad for possibly hurting puppies I don't know what she would have thought of us then.

-Brian.

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RE: Could You Recognize a BDSM Addict In Person? - 1/28/2008 8:04:00 AM   
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RE: Could You Recognize a BDSM Addict In Person? - 1/28/2008 12:03:56 PM   
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