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Things you don't want your sub/slave to do! - 1/31/2008 7:38:38 AM   
MissSCD


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We all talk from time to time about what our subs/slaves to for us.  Don't get me wrong here.  I love my slave, and he does a lot of things for me which I always appreciate; however, there is one thing I will not let him do for me.
I will not allow him to touch my clothes as far as washing them because he thinks you can just dump them all in the washing machine together.
What is it that your sub/slave cannot do for you?

Regards, MissSCD
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RE: Things you don't want your sub/slave to do! - 1/31/2008 8:04:48 AM   
SweetDommes


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Status: offline 		 that's how I do laundry (of course, 90% of mine is scrubs, so it's fine to do that with them).

I honestly can't think of anything that rob isn't allowed to do, I just had to comment on your laundry issue *snicker*

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RE: Things you don't want your sub/slave to do! - 1/31/2008 8:09:26 AM   
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Status: offline 		He cannot handle my money because he is terrible with money! Other than that I can't think of anything that I could not trust him to do.

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RE: Things you don't want your sub/slave to do! - 1/31/2008 8:09:54 AM   
Shawn1066


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Status: offline 		Well, I can't think of anything off my head that I'm specifically never allowed to do or try, duty wise...

Cooking is something I'll rarely ever do.  My Owner likes that far, far too much to delegate it to me.

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RE: Things you don't want your sub/slave to do! - 1/31/2008 8:31:03 AM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		My sub isn't allowed to do anything in My personal bedroom or My personal bathroom.  Both are off limits to him.  I know that seems odd to a lot of people, but it works here because it helps to show that there is also a seperate relationship that I have with My husband.  The three of us share a room any time that the family is away from home.  My sub either sleeps at My feet or in bed with Me in the middle.  When My sub sleeps here at home, he has a separate place in another room, but  I still tuck him in.

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RE: Things you don't want your sub/slave to do! - 1/31/2008 8:44:08 AM   
thetammyjo


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Status: offline 		There is only one thing that Fox is not allowed to do: the husband's chores.

Fox is my slave, not my husband's.

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RE: Things you don't want your sub/slave to do! - 1/31/2008 1:01:47 PM   
LadyPact


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RE: Things you don't want your sub/slave to do! - 1/31/2008 1:21:58 PM   
AtlantaMistress


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ORIGINAL: thetammyjo

There is only one thing that Fox is not allowed to do: the husband's chores.

Fox is my slave, not my husband's.


lol - similar situation - No subs are allowed to go in my kid's rooms, or do their chores, although they would love it if they could have someone else clean for them! They are little Goddesses in training though...I wouldn't be at all surprised (in fact I'd be proud) if in 10 years, and they each have their own boy(s) to serve them!


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RE: Things you don't want your sub/slave to do! - 1/31/2008 5:21:23 PM   
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ORIGINAL: MissSCD
I will not allow him to touch my clothes as far as washing them because he thinks you can just dump them all in the washing machine together.


Silly question I'm sure, but may I ask why you've not taught your sub how to sort laundry along with the way you'd like to have yours done?
 
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RE: Things you don't want your sub/slave to do! - 1/31/2008 6:20:00 PM   
PsyVamp


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Status: offline 		I had to laugh because I don't let anyone start the washing machine, not even my almost adult um..lol
My pet or the um can put the wet clothes into the dryer and fold or hang the clothes, but starting that machine is off limits.

The UM's have their own chores and unless they are not home, my pet is not to do them either.

And nobody is allowed to touch my paperwork..ever.. I have a highly disorganized system where I know where everything is and can find anything in 5 minutes or less (depending on if its archived or recent).  If anyone was to move the "stuff", I'd never find anything!

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RE: Things you don't want your sub/slave to do! - 1/31/2008 6:49:13 PM   
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Status: offline 		I am a sub, but I won't allow anyone to touch my garden! I do all the edging, pruning, mulching, fertilizing, sowing and dead-heading.

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RE: Things you don't want your sub/slave to do! - 1/31/2008 6:58:10 PM   
YourhandMyAss


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Status: offline 		I never sort the laundry when I do it, and my laundry's just fine. If I don't put new likely to bleed items in with old I never has a mishap.

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RE: Things you don't want your sub/slave to do! - 1/31/2008 7:01:11 PM   
Skully7000


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Status: offline 		I know its Ask a mistress but thequestion is just to much fun!!!

I don't like anyone polishing my boots. its my own personal zen excercise. I've had people lick my boots clean which was fine(especially since i was wearing them)
I've had them polished... but either they didn't do a good enough job or they did great and i felt sad that I didn't do it myself.
cheers
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RE: Things you don't want your sub/slave to do! - 1/31/2008 8:17:01 PM   
MissSCD


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ORIGINAL: pixelslave

quote:

ORIGINAL: MissSCD
I will not allow him to touch my clothes as far as washing them because he thinks you can just dump them all in the washing machine together.


Silly question I'm sure, but may I ask why you've not taught your sub how to sort laundry along with the way you'd like to have yours done?
 
 - pixel


 
Sure Pixel:
 
I use a special detergent.  He uses cheap stuff.   He doesn't separate the different types of materials.  
My skin is very sensitive to cheap chemicals.  So, I prefer to do my own clothing.  I even hang them up better than he does.
 
Good question.
 
Regards, MissSCD

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RE: Things you don't want your sub/slave to do! - 2/1/2008 6:43:05 AM   
MaamJay


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Status: offline 		Gee, My subs have to learn to peg the clothes on the line with the right pegs ... got to be all the same colour on a single garment (eg 2 green pegs not a green and a yellow one) and the colour has to be complimentary to the garment colour (no putting red pegs on orange!) ... yeah, ok that's one area in which I am illogically fussy LOL! Other than that, they are unlikely to be in charge of cooking a meal (that's violet's job and she's not allowed to delegate to Jay's sub ;-) nor will they get to shave their Domme ... as Master enjoys shaving His girl wayyyy too much! Generally they don't get to do Master's chores either LOL ... unless by negotiation!

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RE: Things you don't want your sub/slave to do! - 2/1/2008 8:00:40 AM   
ProlificNeeds


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Skully7000

I know its Ask a mistress but thequestion is just to much fun!!!

I don't like anyone polishing my boots. its my own personal zen excercise. I've had people lick my boots clean which was fine(especially since i was wearing them)
I've had them polished... but either they didn't do a good enough job or they did great and i felt sad that I didn't do it myself.
cheers
Skully


Gads I love polishing boots, especially if they'll be used on me in the future. I spend a good deal of time on my own boots (probably more than is necessary). I'd probably be a pretty sad panda if I wasn't allowed to polish boots.

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RE: Things you don't want your sub/slave to do! - 2/1/2008 8:02:10 AM   
AtlantaMistress


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MissSCD

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ORIGINAL: pixelslave

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ORIGINAL: MissSCD
I will not allow him to touch my clothes as far as washing them because he thinks you can just dump them all in the washing machine together.


Silly question I'm sure, but may I ask why you've not taught your sub how to sort laundry along with the way you'd like to have yours done?
 
 - pixel


 
Sure Pixel:
 
I use a special detergent.  He uses cheap stuff.   He doesn't separate the different types of materials.  
My skin is very sensitive to cheap chemicals.  So, I prefer to do my own clothing.  I even hang them up better than he does.
 
Good question.
 
Regards, MissSCD


If I'm not wrong, I think MissSCD pixel is wanting to know why you wouldn't train him - make him use the RIGHT detergent, show him how to hang them...a few times having to be punished for doing it wrong, and surely you could leave the laundry to him!


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RE: Things you don't want your sub/slave to do! - 2/1/2008 2:56:59 PM   
ShaktiSama


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Status: offline 		*sigh*  Can't shoot my photos, can't do my writing or reading for me, and can't pick my clothes unless it is his birthday.  If you let men pick your clothes you're never comfortable, never covered, and your feet are always in agony! 

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RE: Things you don't want your sub/slave to do! - 2/1/2008 3:17:25 PM   
MissAidan


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Status: offline 		My former male sub was allowed to do my laundry once...and somehow managed to get brown stuff all over them!  After that, no more laundry for him unless I was watching.  And after several tries at teaching him, he was also no longer allowed to fold and shelve my clothes without me there because he would put them on the high shelves.  He was 6'3" and I am 5'3", so he could reach where I couldn't.  For some reason, both with clothes and dishes, he never seemed to get that I couldn't reach as high as he could without having to stand on something!  As for my new prospective subbie...she is much brighter, and I doubt there could be much I wouldn't allow her to do for me, except maybe baking, which I enjoy way too much.

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RE: Things you don't want your sub/slave to do! - 2/1/2008 3:41:18 PM   
MistressDolly


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ORIGINAL: MissSCD

Greetings:
 
We all talk from time to time about what our subs/slaves to for us.  Don't get me wrong here.  I love my slave, and he does a lot of things for me which I always appreciate; however, there is one thing I will not let him do for me.
I will not allow him to touch my clothes as far as washing them because he thinks you can just dump them all in the washing machine together.
What is it that your sub/slave cannot do for you?

Regards, MissSCD


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