Zaraseeks
Posts: 130
Joined: 9/5/2007 Status: offline
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Ok this may be a frizted post, I will ask that it be excused now! About 9 months ago I became great friends with another submissive, REALLY great friends, and she decided to take a swing at being my domme, and we got really close. She is married (husband is aware of everything) and has kids, they were about to make a move, things were not going well with a break up I was going through, she asked me to come serve her full time and move with her, I accepted, things were a little rough, she wasnt really dominate, but we loved each other...right? We decided D/s wasnt working for us, but we were great lovers, friends, and I had gotten very close to the kids and her husband as well, she was just no longer my Mistress. Well we grew apart, not sure how, I started talking to other Dommes and dating, wasnt home as much, I noticed she still wanted the control of being my Mistress, but without the responsibility, I didnt really go for it. Anyways, not sure what happened but it came down to us not talking at all, her always seeming mad, lashing out, (stopped taking her meds for bi polar) I have over heard her talking to friends about how I am "useing her" and other really awful stuff, I am kinda at a loss. I care about her, I talked to her we both decided I should move out, I told her by the middle of march, after all I do need to save money, I dropped everything and moved 1000 miles. she seemd fine with this, yet I still hear her talk to her master, and other D/s people about how god awful I am, I dont even see what it is I am doing!! When we took D/s out I started paying rent, on my own will, I figured if I am not hers, she shouldnt support me. I try so hard to be her friend, but it doesnt seem wanted. I cant afford to just move out now, and I dont know how to talk to her. I also feel very betrayed, I have a Domme I have been talking to a year, one whom I adore, and had been seeking her collar, She got breast cancer, which put us on hold, but Wwe were still very close. Karen (the one I moved for) also had developed a friendship with Her, through me, and had started talking to Her about me, and how I am useing Her, but "she isnt trying to come between us" Well, I thought this lady had more faith in me, but she disappeared, I dont know if it was just too much drama, I tried to steer clear of bringing it up, she just got through with chemo, I knew She didnt need the stress. So I feel lost, this sucks, I thought I could trust this lady a lot more, I feel like I made a stupid move in coming here, I risked a lot in leaving where I was, left a lot, and for this...I love the kids so much, they are really sad and dont know why I am leaving, its hard to stay up beat about it all for them. I dont know where I will move, theres no reason for me to stay here, I dont have a lot left to go back where I came from for, theres a great Mistress about 4 hours from me, I am thinking I should move closer to Her (not another move right in thing for sure) But I dont want to be moving all over the fricken US, ok so I am depressed, full of anxiety, tired of trying to keep it together, cant sleep, and really really hurt and confused. I wish I could understand how I became the bad guy here, I know part of this is her being bi polar and not taking her meds, she isnt doing well period, but how do I not take this personal, it is personal! Sorry for the vent guys! lil zara
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