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Pregnant and Submissive - 2/3/2008 7:10:51 AM

pregnavygirl

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Sirs..... would you be afraid of taking on a sub who was pregnant? I mean im new to lifestyle.. and unfortuntaly pregnant.. but i still wan to learn and serve

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RE: Pregnant and Submissive - 2/3/2008 7:13:15 AM

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Perhaps it is wise to wait till aftherwards....just before the baby comes and the month afther you will hardly be able to have contact with your Master i guess.
It would best to just talk and look here in the forum....and read some websites and books.
And I don't think We would be afraid to talk to you.

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RE: Pregnant and Submissive - 2/3/2008 7:18:07 AM

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Thank you Sir.. I just have 8 more months to go... I mean I really and craving some kind of contact.. its jut hard to push this all down.......

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RE: Pregnant and Submissive - 2/3/2008 7:28:10 AM

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I would be "afraid" of being the rebound guy -- or of being the first maaaaan you found when feeling knocked up and alone. I'm happy to receive an email from you on the other side, and I think most posters would, male or female. I'm not interested in any romantic contact with you, though. It sounds as though you'd be best served by stepping back from any physical contact with men and taking a few deep breaths.

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RE: Pregnant and Submissive - 2/3/2008 7:32:03 AM

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i'm not a dom but there is no need to push it down, explore it and learn as much about it as you can on your own. you may be able to find someone who is open to this situation, you never know. in the very least there are many friends that can be made here.

just my opinion, but it might do you well to focus on you and your baby for now and think about developing a relationship with a dominant later when things are more on an even keel for you.

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RE: Pregnant and Submissive - 2/3/2008 8:14:35 AM

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I, like RedMagic, would love to receive an e-mail from you, talk, discuss, so on, but would have no romantic interest. With 8 months to go however, I do not believe there would be anything to worry about...8 months is plenty of time for a Master to join you in the hospital waiting room, and take care of you before and after the pregnancy. At the same time, it could be unwise, as you never know what kinda whacko's you might find on here, no offense to anybody else.

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RE: Pregnant and Submissive - 2/3/2008 8:33:49 AM

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~~~you never know what kinda whacko's you might find~~~

gonna have to second that...
watch and learn for now
best of luck

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RE: Pregnant and Submissive - 2/3/2008 8:40:54 AM

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Unfortunatley pregnant????????????????

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RE: Pregnant and Submissive - 2/3/2008 8:44:34 AM

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...maybe she isnt used to the idea yet

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RE: Pregnant and Submissive - 2/3/2008 8:45:24 AM

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There is just something messed up about this. "Unfortunately pregnant"? My opinion - you will have plenty of time to learn and "discover" about you. Right now, you should concentrate on becoming a mother and your new baby. Gather all the friends and support you can.

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RE: Pregnant and Submissive - 2/3/2008 8:48:48 AM

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messed up is right. If there is really a child, i feel sorry for it.

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RE: Pregnant and Submissive - 2/3/2008 8:52:05 AM

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quote:

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Unfortunatley pregnant????????????????

well not everyone likes the thought of being pregnant and there's no indication about how she got that way (well i mean i know how she literally got that way but there's no discussion about the whys and whatnot). just saying. not everyone goes yay i'm pregnant...sorry i'm sort of pissy about something else right now lol.

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RE: Pregnant and Submissive - 2/3/2008 8:52:45 AM

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quote:

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Unfortunatley pregnant????????????????

That's the best post you've ever written, taken. Please don't follow up by being cruel though.

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RE: Pregnant and Submissive - 2/3/2008 8:57:39 AM

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perhaps it was not planned? I can understand her then
But that was not what her question was about.

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RE: Pregnant and Submissive - 2/3/2008 9:00:08 AM

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messed up is right. If there is really a child, i feel sorry for it.

why are you doubting there's a child? not everyone wants to be a mother when they get pregnant.

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RE: Pregnant and Submissive - 2/3/2008 9:01:04 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: fluffyswitch

quote:

ORIGINAL: takenbyjohnr07

Unfortunatley pregnant????????????????

well not everyone likes the thought of being pregnant and there's no indication about how she got that way (well i mean i know how she literally got that way but there's no discussion about the whys and whatnot). just saying. not everyone goes yay i'm pregnant...sorry i'm sort of pissy about something else right now lol.

Well I took her comment to mean that the timing for beginning a new relationship was made unfortunate by her pregnancy.Taint easy being pregnant and wanting to find a partner/date/boyfriend/master/dom/widget. And like the fluffy one, seriously not everyone wants to be or is happy to be pregnant. Especially if that someone is alone and lonely. Or is the type that truly needs to have someone to lean on which again leads back to the difficulty of being pregnant with one mans child and trying to find a new man.

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RE: Pregnant and Submissive - 2/3/2008 9:01:42 AM

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Wow, did it occur to anyone that the unfortunately may not have anything to do with the unborn and just something about her condition, in general? As in having to make accomdations, etc? Sheesh.

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RE: Pregnant and Submissive - 2/3/2008 9:02:18 AM

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messed up is right. If there is really a child, i feel sorry for it.

Why?Why would you feel sorry for the UM, and why would you feel it necessary to imply that she is lying? *curiously...*

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RE: Pregnant and Submissive - 2/3/2008 9:06:32 AM

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i think it's up to two weeks...i think there maybe one that's 5 days after your first missed period...
But i could be wrong.

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RE: Pregnant and Submissive - 2/3/2008 9:17:37 AM

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To noone in particular. Havent worked this out yet.

I am not, will never be maternal. I have a 19 year old that wasnt planned. He has never been abused, mistreated. Didnt notice who made the comment, but for those of us single mothers who've made the best of things and have well balanced kids who love us. I find that very offensive.

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