Collarchat.com

Join Our Community		 Collarchat.com

Home  Login  Search 

RE: Slavegirl’s orgasmic abstinence by free will.


View related threads: (in this forum | in all forums)

Logged in as: Guest
 
All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> Ask a Submissive >> RE: Slavegirl’s orgasmic abstinence by free will. Page: <<   < prev  1 2 [3] 4 5   next >   >>
Login
Message << Older Topic   Newer Topic >>
RE: Slavegirl’s orgasmic abstinence by free will. - 2/5/2008 6:11:33 PM   
fairerthanshe


Posts: 3035
Joined: 1/18/2007
Status: offline 		Greetings,

Perhaps her temporary denial allowed the focus to be shifted to her Master's pleasure and he will become multi - orgasmic, after all June 17th is over 4 months away.  Who knows that the result of this experiment won't be wonderful for them both?  It certainly has made me think about our sexual relationship and wonder if my movements are geared toward my own pleasure or towards SJ's. 

food for thought ~ fairer


_____________________________

The Nuclear Bomb of Awesome, rockin' the MoFo Hawk, still a bad-ass with a bouncy attitude, and spreading joy as a predator in Hello Kitty panties

Recently honored with membership in the West Coast Assholes

(in reply to CalifChick)
Profile   Post #: 41
RE: Slavegirl’s orgasmic abstinence by free will. - 2/5/2008 6:49:24 PM   
salilus


Posts: 201
Joined: 5/18/2007
Status: offline 		I know one M/f couple that does this, successfully. The master has trained his slave not to want orgasms for herself - she finds pleasure in the act of pleasing him. She does have periods of time where she is not allowed to cum at all, but never for four months. I think he really enjoys her orgasms, though.

Personally? Daddy's idea of control is forcing me to cum. And yes, at times, it really is an act of force. He enjoys my need and cravings and my desires and loves to hear beg. He likes knowing I'm all tied up in knots inside and it's all his doing. He does say no sometimes... but never for more than a day or two.

In the beginning of our relationship, I told him I didn't want to have orgasms and that I didn't care if I did or not as long as he got off. He didn't allow that to last very long.

My theory is that if everyone's happy and no one is being neglected - cool beans. Whatever makes you happy is a good thing. :)

(in reply to Milivoje)
Profile   Post #: 42
RE: Slavegirl’s orgasmic abstinence by free will. - 2/5/2008 7:18:55 PM   
candigirrl


Posts: 10
Status: offline 		Glad things are working out so well for you icy_flame

In a previous relationship, my first,  I was open minded, willing and submitted to his full control in sex and orgasm training and denial. 

I am opposite from you, I guess, the experiment was a flop!
He was ecstatic -  for the opposite reason your partner is!

Easily and with no special effort, distraction or loss of concentration of my partner's pleasure - I have always been mult orgasmic, easily satisfied and happy.  

Do other girls maintain coordination during orgasm?  I do -  please use your imagination. ( I don't fall off the horse)

I hear a lot of women need extra attention to orgasm and that is normal. Is that it?

Anyway, this easily responsive girl found it impossible to orgasm at all!

He could not bring it back.  He was upset.   He had NO CONTROL.  Imagine!
He realized his devoted, happy, hot girl was a joy and he shouldn't break his toy and ruin the good thing he had going!

It took 2 months for my body to adjust back to normal after 3 months of orgasm training.

So , he went ahead and did his stuff and I came and came and pleased him MORE.
Me and orgasms mix well and I am always dedicated to a master's pleasure.

Can it be some people just turn off after they come? 

Wouldn't it be great if  HE could have more of his own orgasms?  Would he like that?

I can vouch - It's really fun to try !


(in reply to icy_flame)
Profile   Post #: 43
RE: Slavegirl’s orgasmic abstinence by free will. - 2/6/2008 1:35:21 AM   
Milivoje


Posts: 57
Joined: 7/17/2005
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: CalifChick

Too bad you didn't concentrate on making HIM multi-orgasmic, instead of restricting your own. 

Cali


You need not worry about this matter, it will happen as soon as I want it to happen.


(in reply to CalifChick)
Profile   Post #: 44
RE: Slavegirl’s orgasmic abstinence by free will. - 2/6/2008 2:11:16 AM   
eyesopened


Posts: 2798
Joined: 6/12/2006
From: Tampa, FL
Status: offline 		Your question was how many slavegirls enjoy this and it would appear not too many.  Each relationship is different and You have Your perfect (for YOU) slavegirl.

For me, being menopausal, i learned that after a certain age, the vagina can actually atrophy!  What a horrible realisation!  Therefore, frequent sexual activity complete with orgasms are essential to my overall good health. *grins* Lucky me!!  And lucky for me, my Master wants me to be very, very healthy in this regard.

_____________________________

Proudly owned by InkedMaster. He is the one i obey, serve, honor and love.

No one is honored for what they've received. Honor is the reward for what has been given.

(in reply to Milivoje)
Profile   Post #: 45
RE: Slavegirl’s orgasmic abstinence by free will. - 2/6/2008 6:37:42 AM   
sunshinemiss


Posts: 17673
Joined: 11/26/2007
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: CalifChick

Too bad you didn't concentrate on making HIM multi-orgasmic, instead of restricting your own. 

Cali



Amen, sister.

_____________________________

Yes, I am a wonton hussy... and still sweet as 3.14

(in reply to CalifChick)
Profile   Post #: 46
RE: Slavegirl’s orgasmic abstinence by free will. - 2/6/2008 4:34:40 PM   
softness


Posts: 2918
Joined: 8/1/2006
From: Leeds, UK
Status: offline 		something in me is smelling a rat .... but ... will keep quiet .. and watch with interest

_____________________________

proudly wearing the blue collar of consideration to DK Leather, Leatherdykeuk, and LeatherEagle of the UK KRueL Leather Family

veritas, respectus honorque in corio





(in reply to sunshinemiss)
Profile   Post #: 47
RE: Slavegirl’s orgasmic abstinence by free will. - 2/6/2008 4:54:46 PM   
RedMagic1


Posts: 6470
Joined: 5/10/2007
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: Milivoje
This, in return, enabled her to fully enjoy sexual and BDSM activities without the torment of orgasm,

Milijove, unless you and icy_slave have discussed this regimen with an ob-gyn doctor, you're playing with fire at the very least.  As several women have posted, parts atrophy, and responses shut off.  You are describing something that is edge-play at best.  Long-term male chastity is also physically and psychologically dangerous.  Unless she has been seen by a medical professional, you're not even practicing RACK, because you're not aware of the risks.

icy_slave, go see a doc.

(in reply to Milivoje)
Profile   Post #: 48
RE: Slavegirl’s orgasmic abstinence by free will. - 2/7/2008 1:31:03 AM   
eyesopened


Posts: 2798
Joined: 6/12/2006
From: Tampa, FL
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: RedMagic1

quote:

ORIGINAL: Milivoje
This, in return, enabled her to fully enjoy sexual and BDSM activities without the torment of orgasm,

Milijove, unless you and icy_slave have discussed this regimen with an ob-gyn doctor, you're playing with fire at the very least.  As several women have posted, parts atrophy, and responses shut off.  You are describing something that is edge-play at best.  Long-term male chastity is also physically and psychologically dangerous.  Unless she has been seen by a medical professional, you're not even practicing RACK, because you're not aware of the risks.

icy_slave, go see a doc.



For more information:  http://www.intelihealth.com/IH/ihtIH/WSIHW000/9339/9504.html

http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/vaginal-atrophy/DS00770/DSECTION=9

Who am i to argue with the Mayo Clinic? *grins*

_____________________________

Proudly owned by InkedMaster. He is the one i obey, serve, honor and love.

No one is honored for what they've received. Honor is the reward for what has been given.

(in reply to RedMagic1)
Profile   Post #: 49
RE: Slavegirl’s orgasmic abstinence by free will. - 2/7/2008 3:20:01 AM   
Milivoje


Posts: 57
Joined: 7/17/2005
Status: offline 		Well nowhere in vaginal atrophy has anyone mentioned the word orgasm.

Therefore one must assume that frequent sexual activiry w/o orgasms is perfectly safe.


(in reply to eyesopened)
Profile   Post #: 50
RE: Slavegirl’s orgasmic abstinence by free will. - 2/7/2008 3:46:11 AM   
Sasy


Posts: 1387
Joined: 7/5/2004
From: Texas
Status: offline 		Male thinking ........ Sometimes  ya just gotta love it ....



_____________________________

"In everyone's life, at some time, our inner fire goes out. It is then burst into flame by an encounter with another human being. We should all be thankful for those people who rekindle the inner spirit." ~ Albert Schweitzer

(in reply to Milivoje)
Profile   Post #: 51
RE: Slavegirl’s orgasmic abstinence by free will. - 2/7/2008 7:10:12 AM   
AquaticSub


Posts: 14867
Joined: 12/27/2005
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: Milivoje

Well nowhere in vaginal atrophy has anyone mentioned the word orgasm.

Therefore one must assume that frequent sexual activiry w/o orgasms is perfectly safe.




I wouldn't assume anything when it comes to muscles atrophing. For that matter, sexual activity without orgasm does not use the same muscles so no, I wouldn't assume it's safe at all.

Of course, you can easily settle this matter and be assured of your property's safety with a simple visit to her friendly gyno - don't be embaressed, trust me, they've heard more interesting stuff. Then you either know what you need to do to keep her vagina in good working order for very long-term enjoyment or you can come back and provide us with new information.

_____________________________

Without my dominance you cannot submit. Without your submission I cannot dominate. You are my equal in this, though our roles are different.-Val

It was ok for him to beat me but then he tried to cuddle me! - Me

Member:Clan of the Scarlet O'Hair

(in reply to Milivoje)
Profile   Post #: 52
RE: Slavegirl’s orgasmic abstinence by free will. - 2/7/2008 7:17:39 AM   
RCdc


Posts: 8674
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: Milivoje
Therefore one must assume that frequent sexual activiry w/o orgasms is perfectly safe.




That is one of the most unsafe comments I believe I have read on here.
the.dark.

_____________________________
RC&dc


love isnt gazing into each others eyes - it's looking forward in the same direction

(in reply to Milivoje)
Profile   Post #: 53
RE: Slavegirl’s orgasmic abstinence by free will. - 2/7/2008 7:45:59 AM   
vampiresscammy


Posts: 97
Joined: 12/25/2007
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: Milivoje

Therefore one must assume that frequent sexual activiry w/o orgasms is perfectly safe.




okay, I read all the posts, really I did, and was thinking of what exactly I wanted to say, and holy hannah, I just got stuck on this, my mind is reeling from this.........

I'm all for "to each their own", but that just doesn't even sound safe, apperantly to me safe SANE and consentual are the primary important factors, but y'all have fun, hope no one gets hurt or ruins their toys

(in reply to Milivoje)
Profile   Post #: 54
RE: Slavegirl’s orgasmic abstinence by free will. - 2/7/2008 8:37:22 AM   
RCdc


Posts: 8674
Status: offline 		I don't follow safe sane and consensual ethos, and even I can see there is a danger in that statement.
I can't believe anyone can claim to be in control or have any reasonable authority when they assume something instead of teach themselves the facts.  I would challenge the poster to respond on his statement and back it up in some reasonable and informed manner.
 
the.dark.


_____________________________
RC&dc


love isnt gazing into each others eyes - it's looking forward in the same direction

(in reply to vampiresscammy)
Profile   Post #: 55
RE: Slavegirl’s orgasmic abstinence by free will. - 2/7/2008 8:49:04 AM   
daddysprop247


Posts: 1712
Joined: 6/24/2005
From: DC Metro area
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: Darcyandthedark

quote:

ORIGINAL: Milivoje
Therefore one must assume that frequent sexual activiry w/o orgasms is perfectly safe.




That is one of the most unsafe comments I believe I have read on here.
the.dark.

 
 
perhaps i'm missing something, but what's so unsafe about it? there are plenty of women who lead active sex lives without orgasm and who suffer no physical harm because of it...actually i'm finding it hard to see the connection between orgasm and healthy pussy, to put it bluntly. the pussy does not need to orgasm in order to pulsate, throb, contract, etc...it is not as if without orgasm the pussy is just a dead motionless piece of meat.


(in reply to RCdc)
Profile   Post #: 56
RE: Slavegirl’s orgasmic abstinence by free will. - 2/7/2008 8:52:44 AM   
RCdc


Posts: 8674
Status: offline 		No prop, the point about the orgasm is not issue.  The op says that because orgasm is not mentioned, he has assumed it is ok.  He has not questioned it further, he has not found out the reality, he has not studied it intently or even questioned a gynacologist.  He has simply 'assumed'.
 
the.dark.

_____________________________
RC&dc


love isnt gazing into each others eyes - it's looking forward in the same direction

(in reply to daddysprop247)
Profile   Post #: 57
RE: Slavegirl’s orgasmic abstinence by free will. - 2/7/2008 9:57:53 AM   
Milivoje


Posts: 57
Joined: 7/17/2005
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: Darcyandthedark

No prop, the point about the orgasm is not issue.  The op says that because orgasm is not mentioned, he has assumed it is ok.  He has not questioned it further, he has not found out the reality, he has not studied it intently or even questioned a gynacologist.  He has simply 'assumed'.
 
the.dark.
 
I challenge you to post here the supposed "reality".

< Message edited by Milivoje -- 2/7/2008 10:06:51 AM >

(in reply to RCdc)
Profile   Post #: 58
RE: Slavegirl’s orgasmic abstinence by free will. - 2/7/2008 10:19:21 AM   
subtee


Posts: 5133
Joined: 7/26/2007
Status: offline
quote:

This new form of pleasure consists in her full time devotion to my pleasure. This, in return, enabled her to fully enjoy sexual and BDSM activities without the torment of orgasm, without the need for release and in my opinion this is far better for her.

From my perspective, right now she is a far better slave, totally immersed in her role, always willing to please me in any way possible. In doing so, she experiences something that is far greater than any orgasm she ever had.

 
I'm wondering why her orgasm and her "full time devotion to [your] pleasure" are mutually exclusive?

_____________________________

Don't believe everything you think...

(in reply to Milivoje)
Profile   Post #: 59
RE: Slavegirl’s orgasmic abstinence by free will. - 2/7/2008 10:51:23 AM   
Milivoje


Posts: 57
Joined: 7/17/2005
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: subtee
I'm wondering why her orgasm and her "full time devotion to [your] pleasure" are mutually exclusive?

By all means they are not. This is just a phase in our relationship.

My slave girl has explained this matter earlier in this post

(in reply to subtee)
Profile   Post #: 60
Page:   <<   < prev  1 2 [3] 4 5   next >   >>
All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> Ask a Submissive >> RE: Slavegirl’s orgasmic abstinence by free will. Page: <<   < prev  1 2 [3] 4 5   next >   >>
Jump to:





New Messages No New Messages
Hot Topic w/ New Messages Hot Topic w/o New Messages
Locked w/ New Messages Locked w/o New Messages
 Post New Thread
 Reply to Message
 Post New Poll
 Submit Vote
 Delete My Own Post
 Delete My Own Thread
 Rate Posts




Collarchat.com © 2024
Terms of Service Privacy Policy Spam Policy

0.406