AAkasha
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The first time I ever "make" a man eat his own cum, or cum on his own face, he often reacts to the situation with a great sense of conflict (desire to please vs. desire for self preservation) -- and he suffers his way through it, finds the experience to be a combination of disgusting and uncomfortable yet he cannot resist. I won't go into the delicious intensity that results because people know what I am talking about... But -- what's fascinating is the transformation that happens in a matter of a few hours or the next day. When the sub looks back at the act, the act that disgusted him, he reflects on it with a sense of excitement and arousal. This happens time and time again. Suddenly, what was unthinkable and only happened because of the intensity of the moment is now a hot, HOT fantasy that was turned into reality, and he's drawn to the experience again -- he can't stop thinking about it. When he thinks about it, it TOTALLY turns him on. I'm curious how many male submissives recognize this dynamic in themselves (and are you consciously aware of it as the discomfort with the act is right in your face?), and how many female submissives experience the same thing? Have any new femdoms ever been a little shocked to find out a sub contacts them a few days after a humiliating task only to tell them it now turns him on more than ANYTHING to think about what he did? Akasha
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