Lucylastic -> RE: Are women born to be bitches? (2/5/2008 12:08:04 PM)
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Babe In Total Control of Herself. I believe its socialisation yes, competition feeds it in school from an early age, media feeds it, we are force fed "ideal womanhood" and self esteem issues, wether its sexual images or everyday images, let alone the growing up with siblings fighting for more attention from the parental unit. Weve fought for rights, (as a gender) but we really get torn between what was/is expected of us, our own feelings and those of the people that surround us. Im pretty easy, nah very easy going, but push my buttons the wrong way and I will become attila the hun with tits, altho its not very often that happens. Im not your stereotypical "bitchdomme" cos if Im angry(bitchy), you definitely dont want to see some kind of weapon in my hand, Im not agressive nor confrontational, I tend to walk away from situations like that, I like to say its self control. grins Regarding the socialised part of it, its only been a hundred years(give or take) since suffrage started, the pendulum will go back and forth for a few more decades, hopefully less, until then we gotta do what we can to be happy with ourselves as equal, functioning human beings. I'll get there eventually:)[;)] Lucy
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