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RE: Where Do You Sleep? - 2/7/2008 12:22:15 AM   
fit2pleaseu


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Status: offline 		Hmmm well i have my own room adjacent to my Mistress and her husbands room so thats where i sleep alone when all is said and done.
It would be nice to think that one day i would have a partner in a D/s relationship that i could curl up with at night....

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RE: Where Do You Sleep? - 2/8/2008 1:10:22 PM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		On his left side. Usually he goes to sleep with his arm around me and his hand firmly clamped on my breast.  However I think playing with my bits in his sleep is unfair, he gets to enjoy himself and be rested and I get no sleep. However a couple of times when I've awoken him after this nearly in tears from lack of sleep, he's enjoyed putting me to sleep thoroughly.

Funny story, one night we fell asleep on each other's side of the bed. Somewhere in the middle he rolled back to his side and pushed me out. First time since I was a kid that I've fallen out of bed.

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RE: Where Do You Sleep? - 2/8/2008 1:20:27 PM   
mellomyst


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Status: offline 		sometimes i try to sleep curled into my masters back, he likes to sleep curled into him or my head on his tummy and sometimes his cock in my mouth :)

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RE: Where Do You Sleep? - 2/8/2008 2:28:42 PM   
ownedgirlie


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When with him overnight, either on the bed at his feet or on the floor beside his bed.  Both places have their benefits.  I'm just thrilled to be in his presence.  I love his noises.  I can stay up all night listening to him snore, or mumbling in his sleep, or breathe... :)

Sometimes he'll pull me closer to him.  Often when I'm on the floor, he'll reach down and pat me or grab at a body part.  I just spent a week sleeping on the floor in a 4 star hotel in Times Square and loved every moment of it.  I'm allowed to nap on the bed when he is out or working.

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RE: Where Do You Sleep? - 2/8/2008 3:43:41 PM   
servantheart


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From: Houston, TX
Status: offline 		Sir requires me to sleep curled up in His arms...not that I'm complaining



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RE: Where Do You Sleep? - 2/8/2008 4:31:12 PM   
celticlord2112


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quote:

ORIGINAL: servantheart

Sir requires me to sleep curled up in His arms...not that I'm complaining




I hold on to what is mine.  I'm funny that way!


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RE: Where Do You Sleep? - 2/8/2008 5:39:23 PM   
sextoygirlNY


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Joined: 7/25/2007
From: Long Island, NY
Status: offline 		greetings,

everynight when i am with Master, the ritual is i kneel on the floor and explain to him what i have learned as a slave, what positive things happened that day, and explain to him what is going on my mind.  If she has been good, and it has gone well, he climbs into the bed and taps the bed in which a girl can race into his arms and sleep in the comfort of his arms nestled in the warm comfy bed.
If not, there is not tap on the bed, and my place is at the floor where i was left there, on the rug. On those occasions he will give me a pillow and blanket. Maybe in the middle of the night during these times i will hear the tap on the bed and a girl can climb in, but overal i sleep in his arms. 
It helps him to sleep to have his girl naked at his side snuggled in his arms. And because i give off a lot of heat, he never has to worry about being cold. I am his little furnace he calls me.
Ultimately i sleep wherever he wants me to, but mostly with him.

Wishes you well,
melanie

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RE: Where Do You Sleep? - 2/8/2008 5:40:35 PM   
BBWnNC72


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ORIGINAL: sweetwenchie

i spoon my pillow in the middle of my big empty bed and pretend it is an actual person i'm cuddled up to    yeah i know, i'm pathetic  LOL


Join the club, i do the same thing when my trainer doesn't spend the night.  i get maybe one night a week with Him.
When my trainer does spend the night, we start out trying to cuddle, but i don't like being cuddled too tight when i am sleeping, i get too hot and He isn't as soft as a pillow! Bit knowing He is there is enough for me.

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RE: Where Do You Sleep? - 2/8/2008 6:30:19 PM   
fluffyswitch


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quote:

ORIGINAL: BBWnNC72

quote:

ORIGINAL: sweetwenchie

i spoon my pillow in the middle of my big empty bed and pretend it is an actual person i'm cuddled up to    yeah i know, i'm pathetic  LOL


Join the club, i do the same thing when my trainer doesn't spend the night.  i get maybe one night a week with Him.
When my trainer does spend the night, we start out trying to cuddle, but i don't like being cuddled too tight when i am sleeping, i get too hot and He isn't as soft as a pillow! Bit knowing He is there is enough for me.


we do the same. He cuddles at first and then moves away, but i'm overheating at that point so i don't complain. i try to be close to Him when He wakes up in the morning. i have a pillow for when we're not able to sleep together at one of our houses.


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RE: Where Do You Sleep? - 2/8/2008 7:39:58 PM   
StormsSlave


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Status: offline 		I usually sleep wrapped in my love's arms spooned together in our bed.  Occasionally we crash elsewhere (i.e. recliner, couch), but neither of us sleeps as good without the other.  Sometimes I sleep alone cause our schedules aren't the same because of work, which sucks ass, but at least if he's in the house, I can sleep.

Floor!  He would never make me sleep on the floor. 

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RE: Where Do You Sleep? - 2/8/2008 8:50:51 PM   
nwcutie102


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Status: offline 		i sleep alone, as i am not involved.
i feel the best when i have been snuggled in bed, in loving arms

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RE: Where Do You Sleep? - 2/8/2008 8:54:51 PM   
TracyTaken


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Status: offline 		We sleep together.  Start cuddled up when he comes to bed, and then when he moves, I chase him all over the bed all night long.  That's his account of it anyway.  I keep telling him, if he wouldn't move, neither would I.  I'm not responsible for what I do in my sleep. 

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RE: Where Do You Sleep? - 2/8/2008 9:44:29 PM   
Rayne58


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From: Sydney Australia
Status: offline 		I go to bed first because Sir suffers with insomnia.  Sometimes I hear Him come in, sometimes not - He told me He recently had a conversation with me which I don't remember I must have been talking in my sleep!

The only times we are not together at nights is if He is in the hospital.  When this happens I make a nest out of our pillows and one or two pieces of His clothing that He's recently worn.  I usually fall asleep out of exhaustion but wake about 3-4am and toss and turn.....really missing the warm body in the bed and the sound of His snores

He got out of hospital on Thursday....I have had good sleep since

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RE: Where Do You Sleep? - 2/9/2008 4:48:56 PM   
Morghan


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Status: offline 		My puppy boy sleeps in the bed with me, but always chained to a wall or bed post.  It works well, but the feet idea is a good one!

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RE: Where Do You Sleep? - 2/9/2008 4:53:02 PM   
YourhandMyAss


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From: Sacramento
Status: offline 		Well it's my bed, so I sleep next to him in it. However even if it was his bed I don't belive in not laying beside him just cause what our rlationship is.

It didn't come to be that way it just always was, right from the time we started shareing a bed.

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ORIGINAL: suessub


So...where do you sleep and how did that arrangement come to be?

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RE: Where Do You Sleep? - 2/9/2008 5:06:13 PM   
BlackPhx


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Status: offline 		I want a night vision video camera. I sleep next to Master (the one time I was banished to the floor, he joined me about 10 minutes later as he missed me), well sorta next to Master. He pins me, buries his face in half my hair and settles down on the other half, and holds on for dear life. this lasts the first 20 minutes of bed time, then, we flip, I spoon against his back, one hand holding his hair (I have a bad shoulder and it needs to be stretched out (oh and very sharp elbows)), the other wrpped around him and we are buried under covers. About 1 AM I wake up and pull the covers back over me. 3 AM wash rinse, repeat as they are now dangled on his side of the bed. He wakes (sorta) and grabs them back mumbling I am taking them all (from the floor yes, him no), 5 AM, get up go to bathroom, grab covers back, settle down, pick pillows up from floor, settle down, roll Master off me, pull covers up, pull hair out of his mouth, sleep. Our main cover is named Happiness because I pursue it all night long. HE doesn't believe me, therefor the wish for the camera.

About 2 PM I grab a nap to make up for lost sleep so I am awake when Master gets home. When he is on the road..I sleep in one spot and the covers on the other side of the bed don't even get mussed up.

poenkitten

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RE: Where Do You Sleep? - 2/9/2008 5:10:03 PM   
YourhandMyAss


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Status: offline 		Not to hijack the thread but snoreing can be a sign of sleep apnia which can be very dangerous. Has he ever been tested to make sure it's nothing serious?
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ORIGINAL: littlebitxxx

I take my half out of the middle, or crosswise....well, until he crawls in then it's back to my own side.  When the snoring gets to be too much, it's the couch or spare room.

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RE: Where Do You Sleep? - 2/9/2008 5:27:02 PM   
LaMspeach


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From: Philadelphia area, PA
Status: offline 		The simple answer is anywhere he tells me to. Since we don’t get the chance to spend the night with each other that often, he usually allows me on the bed.

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RE: Where Do You Sleep? - 2/9/2008 6:11:01 PM   
gwendolyn


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quote:

ORIGINAL: BlackPhx

I want a night vision video camera. I sleep next to Master (the one time I was banished to the floor, he joined me about 10 minutes later as he missed me), well sorta next to Master. He pins me, buries his face in half my hair and settles down on the other half, and holds on for dear life. this lasts the first 20 minutes of bed time, then, we flip, I spoon against his back, one hand holding his hair (I have a bad shoulder and it needs to be stretched out (oh and very sharp elbows)), the other wrpped around him and we are buried under covers. About 1 AM I wake up and pull the covers back over me. 3 AM wash rinse, repeat as they are now dangled on his side of the bed. He wakes (sorta) and grabs them back mumbling I am taking them all (from the floor yes, him no), 5 AM, get up go to bathroom, grab covers back, settle down, pick pillows up from floor, settle down, roll Master off me, pull covers up, pull hair out of his mouth, sleep. Our main cover is named Happiness because I pursue it all night long. HE doesn't believe me, therefor the wish for the camera.

About 2 PM I grab a nap to make up for lost sleep so I am awake when Master gets home. When he is on the road..I sleep in one spot and the covers on the other side of the bed don't even get mussed up.

poenkitten


A camera! I would have never thought of that. Bloody brilliant. I can completely empathize with you on this one. It's a nightly battle for the blanket. He kicks it off of himself (and me) onto the floor a couple of times a night. I guess if I were to be optimistic, I should be glad that at least he piles his pillows on me periodically throughout the night. But then he sleepily accuses me of stealing them from him. If it weren't for the fact that I'm trying to sleep, it would all be very entertaining. I'd like to tape it and watch it some time.

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RE: Where Do You Sleep? - 2/9/2008 6:28:44 PM   
BlackPhx


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Status: offline 		I have seriously considered taking 4 king-sized sleeping bags, sewing them all togetherand fitting them over the mattress. I figure even if he pulls the covers all night long they will just rotate and I will still have covers!!! cover burns..but covers none-the-less.

poenkitten

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