RedMagic1
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Absolutely, totally no BS this time: People ask again and again and again if "mentors" are a good idea for Doms. 99.9% of everything I ever learned about sex, including BDSM, has been from intelligent women. Almost every BDSM partner I have ever had -- and it's not as though there's a mile-long list here -- had more scening experience than I did at the time. Even the intellectual side of things: look at Fire's posts on this message board. Or, just a few days ago, I asked a female friend of mine to tell me the honest truth, which type of condom feels best when inside. I had to put up with a lot of laughter, of course. The real question to ask the OP is: Why the HELL are you asking your question? Is someone trying to tell you that only Dominants get to have a brain? Fuckinay. You might as well check yourself into the battered women's shelter right now, and save the social workers the hassle.
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