sweetwenchie
Posts: 1993
Joined: 4/19/2006 From: Sacramento, California Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: andrewmac This is addressed to female submissives: 1. If you were conducting a search on this site for a single dom who is interested in finding a sub, would it annoy or offend you to see a great many ads start off by saying that the person is married or otherwise not available? Remember, they have deliberately adjusted their profile checklist so that they will show up whenever someone searches for a "Dom seeing a sub"? Would that offend you and make you resent this person for wasting your time? 2. If you are just here to make friends and use the forum, not to find a partner, do your profile settings reflect this? Remember? There is a query drop-down checklist that asks what you are looking for. One of the choices is "Friends Only".....after creating your profile, this option is accessible via "Edit Profile" on the Home page. 3. Have you inserted something into your profile like "I am taken", "I am not looking" or "I am under consideration"? If yes, have you ALSO gone back into the profile settings to change your status? If not, why not? Are you aware that your profile is needlessly showing up when a dom searches for available subs, and that you could easily change this? Dude, if you get so worked up over this type of issue, might i suggest a glass of wine, a big fat blunt, a 'lude... whatever works to chill your ass out? This is a free site, i find it laughable to think i would be offended over someone elses profile. If your time is too precious to be wasted on profiles, perhaps spending less time on the forums and more time in your local scene? Just a thought...
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"To make oneself an object, to make oneself passive, is a very different thing from being a passive object." - De Beauvoir "You have your way. I have my way. As for the right way, the correct way, and the only way, it does not exist." - Nietzsche
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