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"asphyxiation" - 2/23/2008 4:34:23 PM   
SubLookingnTampa


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Status: offline 		Can anyone help me in finding a site that can show/explain the Art of it. It was done to me a few times as i was about to cum with his hands on my neck and i have never cum so big in my entire life. Im looking so hard for a local Dom that has experence in "asphyxiation" . But also desire to learn the gift of doing it to my sub as im a Switch as well. Im in TAMPA FLA. And only desire LOCAL Doms. Thank you.......................Carol
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RE: "asphyxiation" - 2/23/2008 5:52:50 PM   
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Status: offline 		Look for "breath play" -- that tends to be the more common argot for what you seek.

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RE: "asphyxiation" - 2/23/2008 6:00:12 PM   
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RE: "asphyxiation" - 2/23/2008 6:06:31 PM   
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Contact Robert (it's his site).. he may be able to direct you :)

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RE: "asphyxiation" - 2/23/2008 7:49:35 PM   
Constrictor1


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Status: offline 		google erotic asphyxia. you will get a billion hits but read through about the first 10 pages to get an overview. Be sure to find theesaay on health issues also. While poteneially gratifying there can be some serious things to be aware of.
I have a good deal of experience in this area and if you would like to learn more feel free to write me on the other side of CM.

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RE: "asphyxiation" - 2/24/2008 9:13:30 AM   
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Be sure to find theesaay on health issues also. While poteneially gratifying there can be some serious things to be aware of.



Absolutely - I know someone who died doing this....

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RE: "asphyxiation" - 2/24/2008 9:50:11 AM   
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Status: offline 		littlesui, I am sorry to hear this. But, it does illustrate the point as to why this is considered a serious "edgeplay." One if the first rules of breathplay is toNEVER play alone. after this rule there are a few more to make it as safe as possible. Make no mistake though that you are stepping onto some serious ground here. It can be pleasurable as long as you are willing to follow some basic guidelines. littlesui am sorry for  your loss and meant no offense  to anyone in my post.

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RE: "asphyxiation" - 2/24/2008 10:00:02 AM   
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Status: offline 		It provides submissives with a lot of certainty - if they're smart and they get involved in breath play, they know how they're going to die. No need to worry about cancer, heart disease, dementia...

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RE: "asphyxiation" - 2/24/2008 10:04:11 AM   
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Status: offline 		ITS a very dangerous fetish which many treat as a sport,If you don't know what the fuck you are doing then don't DO IT...I teach some seminars on this subject on occasions..IT more then a choke hold and fade to black,...bounty

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RE: "asphyxiation" - 2/24/2008 12:48:09 PM   
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Can anyone help me in finding a site that can show/explain the Art of it. It was done to me a few times as i was about to cum with his hands on my neck and i have never cum so big in my entire life. Im looking so hard for a local Dom that has experence in "asphyxiation" . But also desire to learn the gift of doing it to my sub as im a Switch as well. Im in TAMPA FLA. And only desire LOCAL Doms. Thank you.......................Carol


carol,

my advice is stay away from it.

CP

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RE: "asphyxiation" - 2/24/2008 3:17:32 PM   
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ORIGINAL: NycCouple

It provides submissives with a lot of certainty - if they're smart and they get involved in breath play, they know how they're going to die. No need to worry about cancer, heart disease, dementia...


But of course.  I read about it in the newspaper all the time.  MAN STRANGLES SLAVE.... during foreplay!
Nationwide manhunt ensues
 
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RE: asphyxiation" - 2/24/2008 3:30:42 PM   
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It provides submissives with a lot of certainty - if they're smart and they get involved in breath play, they know how they're going to die. No need to worry about cancer, heart disease, dementia...

Why is the constant rush to identify any edge play which a particular poster has identified as off limits for them as being, not just edgy and potentially dangerous, but 'Sure Death'? That's outrageous. I personally avoid asphyxiation because I find the windpipe to be a delicate and frightening structure, so I personally prefer forms of breath play which do not count on squeezing my neck. However, I certainly do breath play, and I love it. I freak out and am fighting him much sooner than I would be taking in air on my own if I were holding my breath, simply because of the feat factor. It is one place where I ALWAYS fight, it is a human response to fight for breath and nothing I can do about that, so it frees me to let go and allow that to happen, though I stay relaxed and complainant as long as I can manage. The very idea that he literally controls the air I breath, that my next breath is a gift from him, is tremendously fulfilling for me.
I am not judging those who chose to do constriction, though I always advise newcomers to try other methods. Until I have reason to think otherwise, I assume that others play within the bounds of as much safety as can be managed for the activities they wish to persue. And, for gods sake, yes, never, ever do it alone; of course you can pass out, and then, if you are cutting off your air with a passive method, such as your own wieght, you will probably die alone. But, please, could you leave your YKINOKWM attitude at the door?

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RE: "asphyxiation" - 2/24/2008 6:56:51 PM   
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ORIGINAL: SubLookingnTampa

Can anyone help me in finding a site that can show/explain the Art of it. Im looking so hard for a local Dom that has experence in "asphyxiation" . But also desire to learn the gift of doing it to my sub as im a Switch as well. Im in TAMPA FLA. And only desire LOCAL Doms. Thank you.......................Carol

Don't hold your breath...

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RE: "asphyxiation" - 2/24/2008 7:03:08 PM   
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I dont want to hold my breath.. I want my top to hold it for me *laughs*

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RE: asphyxiation" - 2/25/2008 6:37:04 AM   
Constrictor1


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Status: offline 		sublookntampa, as tsatske alluded to, there are a number of different forms of breath play/control techniques, not just what you describe. They include but are not limtied to: Hand around throat tracheal choking, hand around throat primarily constricting carotid/venus blood flow, bagging /CO2 rebreathing, bagging/smothering , positional asphyx as well as constrictional asphyx,and also ligature strangulation. feel free to look any of these up or feel free to pick my brain at any time. Part of the allure of breath play(aside from generating euphoric theta wave perception) is that it is Dangerous and Taboo. Without trying insult anyone or cricize any play practice I would like to point out that people die from electricution on a pretty regular basis. Also people are immolated in real life too. Yet Qualified and ethical people do this every day in our lifestyle and call it "play" . This why there are powerful guidelines to doing these types of play. Follow them and you increase your chances for enjoyment. Do not follow them and you increase your chances to make a headline and all the people who care for you very sad as well as increasing a negative connotation to something tnat is already very controversial.

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RE: "asphyxiation" - 2/25/2008 3:59:32 PM   
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I dont want to hold my breath.. I want my top to hold it for me *laughs*


Now you've got me all choked up...

*sniffles and tries to hold back a tear*



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RE: "asphyxiation" - 2/25/2008 4:18:15 PM   
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ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

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I dont want to hold my breath.. I want my top to hold it for me *laughs*


Now you've got me all choked up...

*sniffles and tries to hold back a tear*




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RE: "asphyxiation" - 2/26/2008 3:49:08 PM   
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Status: offline 		Thank u to all who have responded to me and my question...I will take all under advistment...again ty

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