yesses4u
Posts: 18
Joined: 9/16/2005 Status: offline
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HI all, First let me tell you that you have made my life!! I have read posts and more posts, listen to advice and it has brought a whole new meaning to this for me, thank you!! Now, the great advice I have gotten from you here and even some of the Masters/Doms is that you need to get to know the person before you commit, take time to talk. SO far, I would say 80% of the men (I cannot say Masters) have been married, either their wife knows about his BDSM and just doesn't want to be involved, OR more than likely than not, she knows nothing and he isn't free to pursue permanence. IS this the norm? I haven't seemed to read any of your posts that sound like this is? Is the Chat Room not the best place to meet and get to know someone? I have had some of them say first thing off the tip of the fingers "I will be your Master and you will do as I say" or "Do you have any bondage pics?" I am thinking they don't read profiles or they would no I haven't even had a Master yet, LOL I guess what my biggest concern is that I don't want to be the other woman, I have been the wife of a computer slut and I don't want that for someone else. It seems from many of the posts I have read that just doesn't sound like a Master. Am I wrong? or is it part of the lifestyle? Beth
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