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RE: Long hair. - 9/19/2005 10:34:30 AM

lustiwench

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Most men, though certainly not all, seem to prefer long hair on women, whether they are into BDSM or not.

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RE: Long hair. - 9/19/2005 10:39:11 AM

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~sigh~
This is one of my pet peeves.

I cut my nearly-waist-length hair off to about 1 inch long. Myself and my partner adored it. EVERYONE else said horrible, horrible, derogatory things about me, about him, about my orientation, etc.

I was told by dominant people I couldn't be a "real" submissive person with hair that short. I was told I had to be a butch and couldn't date a guy with hair that short, and that real guys wouldn't like me--that my partner was either gay or lying ot me.

Rant rant rant.

I have noticed that long hair is better to nearly everyone. That short hair challenges people or disgusts them or something for reasons unknown to me.

I love long hair, but I don't understand people's obsession with it, becaues even those who seem not to be tend to have some pretty intense things to say when one's hair -isnt- long anymore.

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RE: Long hair. - 9/19/2005 11:45:26 AM

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My fiance say to me that he likes long hair best, but he likes short hair to, the only thing he dont like is the short bob like hair, and i agree it looks terrible.

i just found out after some reading, biotin makes your hair aparently grow faster, as do eating healthing ad cutting down on fat and sugar and masaging the head often.

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RE: Long hair. - 9/19/2005 1:10:16 PM

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Ok I am a hairdreeser, so I'll chime in and give you my personal professional oppinion. LOL

Ok Prenatal Vit. will make your hair grow faster and anyone can take the over the counter ones. If you simply take a couple extra minutes in the shower to massage your scalp to a pretty shade of red with your fingertips not your nails. It will stimulate the folicals and therefore make your hair grow. There are a lot of thigs you can do.

Now onto my Hair LOL I had grown out my hair to my waist. I have Fibromyalgia and it was aggrivating it badly Master loves long hair and Hates short. But he also knew that I was of no use to him if I hurt all the time. So I got it cut but made sure I had enough left for him to pull really well WEG. It worked for us.

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RE: Long hair. - 9/19/2005 1:12:16 PM

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ok, i gotta wonder...since hair extensions are so popular...could you imagine a MAster grabbing a fistfull of hair and tugging and OUT comes a gob of hair? Ooooh that would be sooo embarrassing!...'course then he could turn around and use it as a spur of the moment whip.....just a random silly thought

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RE: Long hair. - 9/19/2005 2:28:31 PM

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well my hair was long and my last Master gradually had it cut until it was very short. I must say i love it, and i still have very feminine look, and it makes my Eyes look HUGE.

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RE: Long hair. - 9/19/2005 2:31:49 PM

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I am a slave..and certainly my hair has nothing to do with it. You have a right to have a peeve about that. Personally i could care less what others think of me, as i know who and what i am.

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ORIGINAL: perverseangelic

~sigh~
This is one of my pet peeves.

I cut my nearly-waist-length hair off to about 1 inch long. Myself and my partner adored it. EVERYONE else said horrible, horrible, derogatory things about me, about him, about my orientation, etc.

I was told by dominant people I couldn't be a "real" submissive person with hair that short. I was told I had to be a butch and couldn't date a guy with hair that short, and that real guys wouldn't like me--that my partner was either gay or lying ot me.

Rant rant rant.

I have noticed that long hair is better to nearly everyone. That short hair challenges people or disgusts them or something for reasons unknown to me.

I love long hair, but I don't understand people's obsession with it, becaues even those who seem not to be tend to have some pretty intense things to say when one's hair -isnt- long anymore.

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RE: Long hair. - 9/19/2005 3:01:37 PM

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I usually prefer long hair because it's easier to grab. But I've had subs with short hair, too. One always sashayed around with a crew cut.

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RE: Long hair. - 9/19/2005 3:21:44 PM

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Long hair is better because its easier to steer the slave around the dungeon when your riding her bare back..........Well at least thats what I heard.....

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RE: Long hair. - 9/19/2005 3:48:47 PM

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I have a life long penchant for long hair. Sure its better to grab a handfull and control some one who is getting out of control (male or female). It is effective as I guess you all know in bringing some one to their knees. However I'll give up the hair length if she has it stylerd in a manner which suits her. I used to keep my hair extremely short when I was opperational but I've not had it cut for three and a half years and sits halfway down my back. Its the person that I want not the hair otherwise I'd find it easier and cheaper to grab a sheep (No I'm not a Kiwi).

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RE: Long hair. - 9/19/2005 4:16:31 PM

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Well one can grab short hair to, it must be werry short if itis not grabable.

Careful, thanks for the advise.

Ok the reason why one os to use ones fingers instead of the nails is that you want to move the skin of the scalp, not just the hair, the skin, otherwise you only stimulate the glands that make your hair fatty, then you stimulate the skin it grows faster.

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RE: Long hair. - 9/19/2005 6:01:52 PM

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greenie..will you please stop ..I very visual..and now you've gone and made me drool on the keyboard...well you did actually make me do it...I did it all by my self..hey I'm a big boy and I can drop jaw if I want to...that's my right ...(now back to the subject at hand)...greenie...(wink)

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RE: Long hair. - 9/19/2005 6:04:28 PM

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notice how confused I get when the subject of hair comes up...I wonder why that is??

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RE: Long hair. - 9/19/2005 6:46:50 PM

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lol what? what'd i say?

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RE: Long hair. - 9/19/2005 7:10:21 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: perverseangelic

~sigh~
This is one of my pet peeves.

I cut my nearly-waist-length hair off to about 1 inch long. Myself and my partner adored it. EVERYONE else said horrible, horrible, derogatory things about me, about him, about my orientation, etc.

I was told by dominant people I couldn't be a "real" submissive person with hair that short. I was told I had to be a butch and couldn't date a guy with hair that short, and that real guys wouldn't like me--that my partner was either gay or lying ot me.

Rant rant rant.

I have noticed that long hair is better to nearly everyone. That short hair challenges people or disgusts them or something for reasons unknown to me.

I love long hair, but I don't understand people's obsession with it, becaues even those who seem not to be tend to have some pretty intense things to say when one's hair -isnt- long anymore.

I had long hair all through till my last year at high school. It drove me nuts it was just past my shoulder blades but very thick and took ages to wash and dry. I was 17 when I got it cut into a short spiky style which I've had variations on for the last 30 years. It's great - wash it in the shower, towel dry and comb through, shake and it's dry in 10 minutes.

When it gets a bit of length it loses all sense of control and I just get so sick of it, I'm getting it cut every 6-8 weeks on average. Just yesterday I got it cut again, spiky on top and thinned and layered down to my neckline. Like a boyish pixie cut. And I dyed it cherry red

Master does like my hair when it has a little length, just so He can get a hold of it when I'm giving Him a blowjob. However He's never micro managed me to the extent of telling me what to wear or how my hair should be. He makes suggestions (the new hair colour is His idea) but nothing is set in stone. My hair was short when He met me and I did try on a long wig one day to see what it would look like to have long hair again but neither of us were impressed!

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RE: Long hair. - 9/19/2005 7:14:08 PM

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Hee hee! That's funny! Ty

All the men I have ever dated liked my straight, blonde hair long. Its down my back now. Wind whips it in my face.. and I can't see. Hmmnn... maybe you are on to something! snork!

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ORIGINAL: Mylee
ok, i gotta wonder...since hair extensions are so popular...could you imagine a MAster grabbing a fistfull of hair and tugging and OUT comes a gob of hair? Ooooh that would be sooo embarrassing!...'course then he could turn around and use it as a spur of the moment whip.....just a random silly thought
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RE: Long hair. - 9/19/2005 7:52:11 PM

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ORIGINAL: sweetpettjenny
Personally i could care less what others think of me, as i know who and what i am.

I'm trying. I'm really trying. It's just difficult for me to realize that I am myself. It's mostly personal appearance things that I'm this insecure about ;)

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When it gets a bit of length it loses all sense of control and I just get so sick of it, I'm getting it cut every 6-8 weeks on average. Just yesterday I got it cut again, spiky on top and thinned and layered down to my neckline. Like a boyish pixie cut. And I dyed it cherry red

Purty!
I'm growning mine out again, and the growing out is so unfortunate. There are bunches of akward lenghths.

Mostly, though, I hate the comments I'm getting now that I'm growing it out. Lots of "Going back to being a proper girl" and "finally deciding to be pretty again" things.

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Master does like my hair when it has a little length, just so He can get a hold of it when I'm giving Him a blowjob. However He's never micro managed me to the extent of telling me what to wear or how my hair should be. He makes suggestions (the new hair colour is His idea) but nothing is set in stone. My hair was short when He met me and I did try on a long wig one day to see what it would look like to have long hair again but neither of us were impressed!

My partner approved me cutting it. I asked him first, and he gave me the go-ahead and encouraged me to cut it shorter because he wanted to see what it was like.

He's liked the ability to pull on my hair now, but he loved running his hands over the fuzz :)

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RE: Long hair. - 9/19/2005 7:56:55 PM

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I admit, I have very long hair (to the underside of my ass, and I'm a tall girl) and no hair anywhere else. Not because of what anyone else thinks about it, or anyone else's expectations, but because I like it. It feels good. Besides, it does provide its own source of entertainment. I get some very amusing comments about my hair.

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RE: Long hair. - 9/19/2005 8:00:48 PM

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From Nella (re: hair pulling caveman thing)

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Yes that sounds romantic dont it.

Well, perhaps not romantic, but definitely hot, I love to have my hair pulled. It makes me tingle....okay, maybe it is that caveman thing.

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RE: Long hair. - 9/19/2005 8:23:26 PM

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My hair is short.Master desent' mind it being this short but He did require that i somehow learn to get it into as much of a ponytail as possible.. He does enjoy haveing a "handle" to guide my head with (grins) . it took a while and alot of trial and error but i finally got it to where it now meets with His approval...thank goodness i don't have to wear it like that all the time though .. i think it looks horrible up (lol)..but that is what He wants so that is what He gets.besides .. i got tired of gettng in trouble everytime i said "I can't get it to stay up there Master" wish i had thought of the extensions though ...would have definatly been worth the punishment to see the look on His face as He grabbed a handfull and pulled it out. omg .. i can't stop laughing just thinking about it .Thank goodness He is not a member of this site(lol)
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