abondanzaisme
Posts: 20
Joined: 9/22/2005 Status: offline
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Thanx once again Rain God...really liked your advice in both of your posts/replies. I do think of my submission as a precious gift and won't squander to simply feel the power of someone stronger than I dominating me. It took a while to arrive at this point in my (sexual) life, to recognize this as my sexual identity. In the vanilla years, I have grown strong, able to take care of myself and basically play a more dominant role in most aspects of my life. My submission is the most intimate thing I can offer a special Man who earns my trust and loyalty. You can bet I won't be meeting anyone alone, lol...I do value myself too highly for that kind of risk. And usually, I get a 'vibe' about a person...sometimes it comes through loud and clear, even online. You might call that woman's intuition (not in the sexist sense) from my years of experience reading people and what they expect from me either explicitly or implicitly. Seems like meeting people in this venue, for the reasons we do/will, is much more straight forward-no game playing, beating around the bush, or dancing around what we truly are seeking and hope to find. Your advice for safety is appreciated and it is a pattern I typically follow whether meeting people for business (I do go to people's homes to give estimates for services in my line of work), pleasure, or for any particular purpose. Your attitude, as well as some others I have read gives me a feeling that there are some wonderful people out there, just as concerned for my well being as for their own. Thank you.
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