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RE: tribute - 3/13/2008 11:34:20 PM

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I can't STAND IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

OP, before you come on here to bitch and whine about anything, do a search. There are around 10 billion threads on the subject.

I'm pretty sure 99.9% of us are sick to the stomach with this stupid fucking question.

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RE: tribute - 3/13/2008 11:41:03 PM

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ORIGINAL: MissMagnolia

I can't STAND IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

OP, before you come on here to bitch and whine about anything, do a search. There are around 10 billion threads on the subject.

I'm pretty sure 99.9% of us are sick to the stomach with this stupid fucking question.

Aw come on MissMagnolia, don't get your tits in an uproar.

By the way, nice tits, respectfully speaking you understand.

chia* (the pet)

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RE: tribute - 3/14/2008 12:24:10 AM

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ROFLMAO!!! Behave you!!

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RE: tribute - 3/14/2008 1:30:15 AM

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ORIGINAL: Saint

Simple answer. It is easy money from guys who have desires that are not the norm and cannot be fulfilled any other way. The sad fact is, it is indeed easy money. People hide their greed behind labels with names like: fetish or kink. Take note that I am not saying this of Pro-Dommes. I have a healthy respect for a genuine pro-domme. But I absolutely have problems with trying to meet someone for the first time for dinner or to get to know her and finding out that my value as a person is subjugated by the size of the check, gift or cash prize I bring with me. At that point, it goes beyong demeaning and into insulting to even consider that the only reason I am of interest to them is for what I can give them in monetary or compensatable gifts. Somehow at that point I feel like a guy who has to buy attention from a lady. That being the case, then that persons worth as a human being looking for a healthy relationship is questionable at best and suspect at worst.

If you think my job is easy, I'd love to switch jobs with you for a week. And come back to see my business intact.

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RE: tribute - 3/14/2008 1:46:54 AM

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Y'know, I went and looked up the definitions of "tribute" in Webster's Revised Unabridged--you know, the monster that stands on its own lectern in the middle of older library reference sections?

Definitiion one--a sum of money or other valuable thing from one ruler or nation to another as acknowledgement of submission... (Example: Rome)
Definition two--a personal contribution, as of money, praise, service, etc., made in token of services rendered, or as that which is due or deserved...

As a domina, I would not expect nor accept such tribute from someone I was meeting for the *first* time in real life. But then, if I *were* a submissive, I would similarly neither expect nor accept *services* from a domina upon first meeting.

However, based upon commonplace behavior encountered by e-mail and by chat here on CollarMe, the usual submissive seems to assume exactly the opposite...or what are all these wankers doing trying to start a conversation by demanding that I tell them "what you would do to me if you were here"? What would I do to you? Tie your hands to your dick...and off the keyboard!

Wryly,

Delilah Deb

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RE: tribute - 3/14/2008 2:47:40 AM

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chiaThePet:
Oh, I thought it was pronounced try booty. Here I thought that's all ya'll wanted to do. So embarrassed, ignore those cards and letters.

(snip to next post)

Aw come on MissMagnolia, don't get your tits in an uproar. By the way, nice tits, respectfully speaking you understand.

*stomps foot*

I want my own chiapet dammit! Fuzzy, comforting, little things they are. :-)

To the OP: Ah, tributes. Some Dominas want them. The way I see it, when they're willing to pay *my* tribute, then we might have a deal. Me being such a gentleman and a sweetheart and all, I always charge quid pro quo (i.e. an equal, revenue neutral exchange).

A serious reply now. Yes OP, some Dominas want tributes. If that's not your thing, just click the Next button. No fuss, no muss. Works like a charm.

Elan.

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RE: tribute - 3/14/2008 3:15:13 AM

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been seeing my mistress for what now ? 5 years ...been paying her for the past 5 years

best times of my week when im with her

its what she does for a living and im gratefull im still one of her subs ..shes semi -retired but has kept me as one of her regulars

thank gawd ..dont know what i would do without her ..our times together are amazing ..money well spent as far as im concerned ..i get 2 freebies a year ..my birthday and xmas ..but i do buy her things for our xmas get together which i love to do to thank her for putting up with me and being a incredible woman that she is

we usually get together 2 times a week and look forward to every visit ..would love a 24/7 relationship with her but for now im very happy with what we got ..the chemistry we have together is awesome indeed

have fun ..mal

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RE: tribute - 3/14/2008 3:29:59 AM

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malloves69:
...i get 2 freebies a year ...my birthday and xmas...

It's good to see that romance isn't dead. :-)

Elan.

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RE: tribute - 3/14/2008 3:57:44 AM

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After reading the OP's profile....I'd pretty much have to charge him to spend time with him too.

But seriously ~ back off on the fantasy-based relationship expectations, start learning to vet out the pros and financial dommes (it's not hard if you're looking for real people), and understand that if you really are looking for exactly what your profile says you are looking for, going to jail is probably the only way you'll find it. Good relationships - bdsm and otherwise - take a great deal of effort and responsibility on ALL the participant's part. Being "sub" or "slave" does not mean in any way that you get to abdicate any responsibility or decision making on your part - it just means you have to start making decisions on what will make HER happy rather than just yourself.

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RE: tribute - 3/14/2008 4:04:34 AM

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ORIGINAL: ElanSubdued

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malloves69:
...i get 2 freebies a year ...my birthday and xmas...

It's good to see that romance isn't dead. :-)

Elan.

thanks...that made me spit coffee all over myself

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RE: tribute - 3/14/2008 6:49:51 AM

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Standard line: I'm the personal servant of a Professional Domme. What's that mean? She a "Lifestyler" and Pro. It means She charges everbody else. She doesn't meet potential clients for lunch or dinner. They talk over the phone show up and in this order- pay THEN play.

The people who get to meet Her else where... they pay for coffee. That's it. No big dinner deal or anything like that. She's not interested in milking then for every penny they have unless they're into it. And for the fact of the matter...given how protective of your wallet you seem to be...wouldn't giving up control of that seem more in lines of D/s than anything else?

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RE: tribute - 3/14/2008 6:58:26 AM

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I think the problem comes with the word tribute and how some miss-use it, I have heard people say they want a tribute from potential subs (as partners not as clients) to proove this and that, Really tribute just means payment for a service but the word throws people off i think, i know it did with me anyways and i was confused, it would be far easier if they just said pay.

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RE: tribute - 3/14/2008 7:35:57 AM

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ORIGINAL: sirsholly

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ORIGINAL: ElanSubdued

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malloves69:
...i get 2 freebies a year ...my birthday and xmas...

It's good to see that romance isn't dead. :-)

Elan.

thanks...that made me spit coffee all over myself

Make that two of us!

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RE: tribute - 3/14/2008 1:24:45 PM

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I will forgo reposting the definition of tribute. Look it up. Really. It's in the dictionary.

*Just* a lifestyle Domme, who likes to play, where others would charge.

LP

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RE: tribute - 3/14/2008 2:44:09 PM

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you seem to have got me wrong i am all for buissness women looking for customers thats fine there nothing in wrong in it,what im saying is its not real how could a slave have the money to pay a buissness women for her service unless the slave is rich then he carnt ever be a slave.so many buissness women say what do you work at???why is this?is this to see if you have money,back we go again,how can a slave have money he is a slave.yes its fine for buissness women to charge customers but never say your a lifestyle and pro domme admit what you are a buissness women ,when you buy toys you think how this will make my buissness more sucessful,not how your going to have a slave to use it on but how your going to use your toys on customers.

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RE: tribute - 3/14/2008 2:47:37 PM

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you seem to have got me wrong i am all for buissness women looking for customers thats fine there nothing in wrong in it,what im saying is its not real how could a slave have the money to pay a buissness women for her service unless the slave is rich then he carnt ever be a slave.so many buissness women say what do you work at???why is this?is this to see if you have money,back we go again,how can a slave have money he is a slave.yes its fine for buissness women to charge customers but never say your a lifestyle and pro domme admit what you are a buissness women ,when you buy toys you think how this will make my buissness more sucessful,not how your going to have a slave to use it on but how your going to use your toys on customers.

It's simple really, you offer nothing of value personally except your money. How's that? You want them to buy toys to use on you, you want all the fun, none of the hassles.....nothing in life is free,(although it doesnt always cost money) so ante up or shut up.

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RE: tribute - 3/14/2008 3:01:48 PM

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how could a slave have the money to pay a buissness women for her service unless the slave is rich then he carnt ever be a slave.

...Please tell me that this is a joke, and that you're not really that stupid.

Okay, this thread just officially got unbearable for me. Thanks, internet!

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RE: tribute - 3/14/2008 3:07:20 PM

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yes you got my drift now your words of value its money not the life for buiness women

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RE: tribute - 3/14/2008 3:14:34 PM

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I am not a pro dominant. I have nothing against them and in fact am thankful that they are there, providing a service that I do not wish to provide to some I wouldn’t wish to be involved with. (That doesn’t mean all clients, but some of them.) I won’t go into all the things I think here or point out things that have been pointed out over and over on these threads. I will however, say what I think in an area I haven’t seen covered as much.

How many submissive’s are sincere? I have seen many study and learn dominant’s and the way of things by reading what dominant’s say and how they function. They perfect their art of game playing and getting what they want. They run around contacting every dominant they can and then hold out that relationship, 24/7 real life tidbit like an appetizer, trying to claim they are sincere and want that final goal above all other things. What they want is not to have to do anything that would include commitment, honesty, ethic’s, honor or a long term anything unless it is unaccountable play time.

To be a responsible dominant, we put in a lot of time, effort, energy and a lot of ourselves, getting to know someone, learning them enough to work that ever wonderful mind fuck or that wonderfully painful passion play. In a dating process, for lack of a better word at the moment, not many would expect payment for their time. BUT…What? Are we expected to give, give, give in order to get, when one isn’t sincere and there is no for sure way to know that with a good player until we have wasted a lot of our time and self? I am… lol… rethinking that tribute thing! However it is defined! LOL Okay, maybe not… but it sure would be nice to find a way to be assured that the submissive is just as accountable and honorable as I am.

I have learned to not be fooled by imposters but that too takes time quite often. But there are those that can slip by and the many other post from dominant’s talking of their disappointment after a long period of time learning a submissive, only to have them fail to be what they presented, is enough to prove to me, that it is a common game we all need ways to cope with. Payment might be one of those ways for some. There are those that just wish to take advantage of submissive’s, but there are also submissive’s that only wish to take advantage of a dominant.

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RE: tribute - 3/14/2008 3:51:51 PM

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yes your right i totaly agree with what your saying.i also no theres a problem with subs pretending etc etc as they just want a hour fun and they should go to the buissness women for the service they provide this service should be leagal and the buissness women can then pay tax.but too be honest my question is more to do with buissness women than the subs.
ijust dont for one minute belive if you vist a buisness women for a sesion you carnt feei truely satisfied as a slave its more of a quick fix of some type of sexual pleasure for the sub and weres the power control in that,buisness women who pretend to be into the lifestyle do this to make contacts as in customers not for a genuine intreast but for gain and i think we all no this to be true,so please whensise to all you buisness women stop messing around own up that your into the buissness side and stop pretending you enjoy the life for real it pays your bills and there nothing wrong init im only asking for some type of honesty

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