SavageFaerie
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ORIGINAL: KyttynTheMynx
Thanks Gwyn. Its nothing life threateningly serious, just replacing her newly replaced knee (She got a new one back in 06 or 07 and already messed this one up! lol). Still, I freak out on these kinda things. She has been developing allergies to meds, and they only seem to ctch it when shes on new pain meds, or going under the knife. And yea, I know God gives us as much as we can handle, but is it too much to ask that he lighten the load on the panicky ones of us that freak out over small things? lol
Kyttyn, I helped my mom through knee replacement, but she is a tough women and the therapist was shocked that in just 2 weeks she was to be back at 100% walking, said he had never seen it happen so fast for a woman in her 70's..
But I know for a fact despite panic and anxiety (trust me I know those all too well) when you have to be super woman the strength will be there.
Despite my anxiety when my father passed, I was the one left to coordinate with the stepmom, arrangement hotels, notify, request a special song that was dear to his blood family. I even had to strong arm the step mom during the memorial service, as she thought only Her side of the family counted, and was the only one that would get up and stop and break in and say.....what my dad really was, not what only she knew. I broke through to my beloved numb family and my uncle took over.
MoGa I know you remember this as you were there for me along with my other friends.Aylee, VandalHeart, BlueHns I drew my strength.
Me with the severe panic disorder that up until coming to Orlando ruled my life for 12 years and kept me indoors. Nothing is impossible forever., there is always hope love and the strengh of loved ones to share and keep you standing up to get through it
You will gather what you need and take care of things, afterwards..yes will be the time to destress, treat yourself it does take the bad ickies away and give yourself time to wind down back to your normal self. We can always say why, but in the end what counts is what you do. Thats family, that is friends.
If you get to anxious or panicky cm me on the other side and I can promise if you call, the feeling will be gone quickly.
Ask Kali......she will tell you it works.
Kali btw Im still catching up but poen did read your reply and I love you as family not by blood but by heart.. You needed a calm voice, distraction to get you home....and that 2 hours.....went fast as a speed of light. I even had you laughing because Im just crazy like that. But I stayed by your side through all the trama and aftermath. Despite wanting to smack you silly sometimes. (smile)
This I will do for any friend, stranger, family and extended family, I give because I can *Mwah* you know I love ya..You know you dont have to hide behind fear, pain or confusion, I dont always needs words to just know and feel it..
If anyone needs some positive energy I have more than I can use as my cup runneth over and I got more than I know what to do with and well I love to share and waste not. My box is open, my ear is ready to anyone, even you Samba as I do sense in the chaos something is not right in your world.
< Message edited by SavageFaerie -- 2/16/2009 4:00:25 PM >
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