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RE: I hate it when........ - 2/25/2009 6:49:41 AM   
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*hugs Tammy*  I'm fine, darling... fighting a cold that won't go away, enjoying time with my husband before he returns to Wales, working..

How have you been?


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RE: I hate it when........ - 2/25/2009 7:41:41 AM   
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I hate it that my stuff was overnighted back to me from him. But relieved I dont have to pick them up and its done.


Lushy *hugs* you know what I thought about it talking to yesterday, I would seend a registered letter for the couple of gifts that were not included in those damn boxes*

Love my Lushy to peices and cant wait for her to come back down and I get to met her precious one so we can play together.  Im telling ya he would love Kennedy Space Center which is *cough*  inbetween here and there.

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RE: I hate it when........ - 2/25/2009 7:46:58 AM   
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50 freakin pounds in four years!  


Try 60 lbs. in 5 weeks from prednisone shots.

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RE: I hate it when........ - 2/25/2009 7:49:51 AM   
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ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19

I hate it that my stuff was overnighted back to me from him. But relieved I dont have to pick them up and its done


I hate that this was done to my name twin. I hope things are better since we talked yesterday. <Hugs to you>




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RE: I hate it when........ - 2/25/2009 8:08:09 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Kalista07

i hate it that i can not learn to be as blatant as a huzzy as the REDHEADEDHUZZILICIOUS ONE....  *sigh* i hate that i senselessly threw myself at  girly in a different post today and she did not even notice...

woe is me.....

btw, i hate it when i feel like there's something on the ceiling staring at me...and then "it" starts making noises...i hate even more when i realize the tickey kitty is behind me above my head..
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Kali stop hating...after all we did have a good long chat the other day and you know if your frustrated to just im me dammit....okay easier during the day, because 'someone I know" *grins* can stop playing with his new toy so generally get the grab the hair and pull me back during reading or right in the middle of a post.
Okay sorry I really dont hate that.

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RE: I hate it when........ - 2/25/2009 9:17:45 AM   
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i hate it that yesterday was so stressful with the meeting at my son's treatment facility and i'm still feeling the effects today.  the staff and i have some difficult decisions ahead.  i did get to see the little pain in the butt and he did talk to me, so that was a good point.  i hate it that he truly believed his dad and dad's gf were going to "save" him and not allow him to be placed in residential treatment.  i hate it even more that it wasn't a childish fantasy but something they led him to believe.
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RE: I hate it when........ - 2/25/2009 9:46:33 AM   
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PM HUGS Dear Heart...you can only do what you must to help him. I am so sorry to hear how stressful this is, and I know it is. Maybe one day he will see who truly wants to help him instead of just lead him on. Take time for you. Sink into a hot tub of fragrant bubbles and soft music and just relax knowing you are doing all you can to help him help himself.

Lushy you are going to come out of this kicking butt and spitting Doms..remember what I said, when you are not looking is when the perfect person will find you...you deserve the best.

poenkitten lucky to have had that happen twice to her with BP and buttah.

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RE: I hate it when........ - 2/25/2009 9:50:37 AM   
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PM HUGS Dear Heart...you can only do what you must to help him. I am so sorry to hear how stressful this is, and I know it is. Maybe one day he will see who truly wants to help him instead of just lead him on. Take time for you. Sink into a hot tub of fragrant bubbles and soft music and just relax knowing you are doing all you can to help him help himself.

Lushy you are going to come out of this kicking butt and spitting Doms..remember what I said, when you are not looking is when the perfect person will find you...you deserve the best.

poenkitten lucky to have had that happen twice to her with BP and buttah.



poen you of all people know that I had come to the conclusion my life would be alone, I not only wasnt looking but I THOUGHT I didnt want what is happen.  I am so blessed both of you saw through my thoughts and found the person I have always been.   adore you both

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RE: I hate it when........ - 2/25/2009 9:54:30 AM   
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i hate it that i'm so damn emotional, but love it that i have so many people in my corner.  i hope that someday i can be as supportive to you all as you've been to me.  cub and i are pretty much a mess right now, i think he's cried as much as i have over the events that are unfolding right now.  we're both blessed to have friends who understand and support us.  thank you all!
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RE: I hate it when........ - 2/25/2009 10:43:21 AM   
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ORIGINAL: BlackPhx

Asher oh handsome male of virile Hawtness... I am truly sorry for your employment woes but may I make a suggestion? It's time to get creative. Take a good hard look at your skills and what you have been offering here for free for many months that I know of. Write up at least 4 resumes pointed towards different industries and emphasizing different aspects of your skills. E.G. Tech Support, Data Management, Software installation, Web Design and Maintenance, Computer Repair. Now stop looking in IT areas and go direct. See your local large Grocery Retailer, Warehouse Distribution point, Realtors, Housing Managers,  the Banks, Adult Education Courses, Legal Offices and even Insurance Companies, and TV stations. Anywhere and everywhere that may use computers, they may be battling themselves to consolidate information with staff reductions, then pitch yourself as either an employee OR a consultant. Many will hire a consultant they don't have to offer benefits to but will still pay a decent living. A small Consulting company I do graphics work for in NY is still doing work for Fordham University after 2 years. Fordham has a IT department, but cutbacks in budgets have made it more economically feasible for them to use consultants to work on certain projects rather than carry a large staff and having them split their time between the regular stuff and the special projects. Also set your prices and list yourself in the local paper (throw aways are cheap) as someone who will come to your home and TEACH, repair or do installations. I have made more than egg money sitting down and teaching older people how to use their computers safely and doing set ups and virus removals. Post flyers anywhere you can, at the store, at colleges, anywhere you legitimately can. Get a throwaway prepaid phone to use as a "Consulting Phone" if you don't want your home number everywhere. Good Luck..we all have faith in you..

poenkitten (coughing up a lung and swallowing so it goes back into place)



Poen, it must be great minds because I woke up this morning thinking exactly the same thing about Asher's situation. I also thought craig's list under services. I know several former IT people in my area who have gone out on their own consulting for individuals and small businesses. Have you seen what the Geek Squad charges!?!?! And people call them every day.
 
Asher, you are so talented and qualified. Why wait for someone else to give you an opportunity? Make one for yourself!!!

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RE: I hate it when........ - 2/25/2009 10:44:04 AM   
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ORIGINAL: PanthersMom

i hate it that i'm so damn emotional, but love it that i have so many people in my corner.  i hope that someday i can be as supportive to you all as you've been to me.  cub and i are pretty much a mess right now, i think he's cried as much as i have over the events that are unfolding right now.  we're both blessed to have friends who understand and support us.  thank you all!
PM


{{{HUGS}}}

Hey, PM, if we can't be here for you, we wouldn't be friends, right? I always thought that that's what these forums are for, support and friendship, maybe a little fun.

Drop me a line if you want to talk, I've been through some tough stuff with my youngest monster who's autistic/ADHD.

*smooches*


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RE: I hate it when........ - 2/25/2009 10:47:13 AM   
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poen, duct tape the lungs down :)

thanks, Ima look into the costs and stuff for ze adverts... ((I should get my refund from the government soon so I have some start-up money to risk))
it seems like a bit of a gamble, but I did grow up in Vegas, gambling is second nature :)


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RE: I hate it when........ - 2/25/2009 10:53:59 AM   
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PM I have also gone through the addictions, the results of addictions, while I hate to type it my two oldest trying suicide

My oldest got hold of some bad meth which blew him into psyshotic episode where not only did I have to get him admitted, but I had to go before the judge at the hospital to beg them to continue treatment, because he was still in that stage and to send him to the nearest state facility would have made it impossible for any family to visit him.

I have gone through hell and many acres with both but alot had to do with no self worth which my last ex  liked to remind them they were worthless.

My son has had to of those episodes, he fought the last, till he got a dui and is not required to go for frequent treatment.

My daughter drinks excessivly and daily, refused to admit all if not right in her head and self doses.

They are adults now, I did my best, all three love and adore me the mother and dont blame me for the chaos of their childhood.

My box is always open to if you need help in that respect

Hugs you tight.

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RE: I hate it when........ - 2/25/2009 11:16:01 AM   
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it so sucks doesnt it

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RE: I hate it when........ - 2/25/2009 12:10:23 PM   
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Add me to the list of those who found the perfect relationship once I stopped looking.  I had taken my pic off my profile & unchecked everything except "Friends Only" when he reappeared in my life.  I actually decided to meet His Evilness f2f the first time after he kinda challenged me, saying he didn't believe I had the guts to show up.  LOL  I told him it would be just for occasional play when I happened to be in town & felt like playing.  A week from tomorrow, it will be a year that I have been marked as his & as I told him last night on the phone during one of those really long, difficult discussions, it's the best thing that's ever happened to me in my whole life.  The whole poly relationship just seems like magic to me.  How 3 people could come together & feel about each other the way we feel is amazing to me.  I am truly blessed.

On topic:  I hate it that I will probably have to go back to driving over the road & not be able to spend enough time with them.  Again.

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RE: I hate it when........ - 2/25/2009 12:22:40 PM   
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Sorry Linea, but I love that you will be driving over the road and able to visit the sunshine-y space.

hugsssssssssssss

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RE: I hate it when........ - 2/25/2009 1:54:54 PM   
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If I give up my home, can I take my home time with you?  I'd even sleep on the floor with you.  *giggle*

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RE: I hate it when........ - 2/25/2009 2:12:21 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Asherdelampyr

poen, duct tape the lungs down :)

thanks, Ima look into the costs and stuff for ze adverts... ((I should get my refund from the government soon so I have some start-up money to risk))
it seems like a bit of a gamble, but I did grow up in Vegas, gambling is second nature :)


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Asher, also photo stores. I walked into the one here to pick up a picture they copied and enlarged. Ran into a friend who was asking advice on how to scan photos in. If someone had a sign up there offering such services, either to do it or teach us how to do it, we both would have copied down the number.

I can't even program a cell phone and when the teen goes off to college I'll be in major trouble. I hate having to unplug the computer and carry it into the shop in town. Would much prefer someone who would come here and give it a yearly cleaning, upgrade AVG pro, decide if it needed a registry cleaner and if so do it, etc. Make up a flyer and put it up in grocery stores, dry cleaners etc.

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RE: I hate it when........ - 2/25/2009 2:18:19 PM   
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i hate that i forgot my lip balm at work today and now my lips are all chappy and bright red.

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RE: I hate it when........ - 2/25/2009 2:25:03 PM   
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Lushy you are going to come out of this kicking butt and spitting Doms..remember what I said, when you are not looking is when the perfect person will find you...you deserve the best.

poenkitten lucky to have had that happen twice to her with BP and buttah.



Thank you very  much. I know you are right. But the last 2 days have been hard .I found it particularly insensitive even though he said he was trying to be helpful he  said dont read anything into this. Why would he say that unless hesuspected that is what would happen, so he knew it upset me. But as usual it was his needs that came first and to hell with my feelings. In the final hour, I expected nothing but I didnt expect it to come down like such a hammer. He took the power away of things being my decision and when I was ready.

But you are right about the Doms. I am speaking to someone now ,who I spoke to 3 years ago. It never took off as we were looking for different things. He is looking to practice his rope bondage and said it would not be sexual. In a club setting this is what I seek at the time. He has extended friendship and someone to walk a nearby track with. He happens to be of similar desire, culture, intelligence, temperament and hes Hawt as hell! So this is my start. Freindship and nonsexual play and see what else unfolds in that direction in its own time. 

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