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RE: I hate it when........ - 2/28/2009 11:15:23 PM   
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I hate it that the new phrase to say to me seems to be, "If only we had met..."

If only we had met 3 weeks ago...
If only we had met last year....
If only we had met yesterday...

The phrases that follow are varied, from "I would have asked you to move into my then-empty house and rent it from me" to "I would have hired you in this kick-ass position with benefits" to "I would have asked you to be my girl/would have really liked to get to know you better/would have rethought moving away"...

I'm not quite sure which of those phrases sucks more.  And definitely NOT in that good slutty way that we like.

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RE: I hate it when........ - 2/28/2009 11:34:25 PM   
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I'm glad you got a kick out of it Red. I aim ta please. 

*ponders taking the sledgehammer to work tomorrow, to help with 'troubleshooting' the computer*


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RE: I hate it when........ - 3/1/2009 12:33:34 AM   
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right. so i don't call tomorrow either?

*giggles*


LMAO!!!!!!!   Angel, you are just too precious for words!

Actually, you could call any time up to about 5 p.m. Eastern Time.  After that, I cannot e held responsible for anything your virgin ears might be subject to.

*you said to put it on speaker phone and act like you weren't listening, right?* 


uh. will have to find widget to make sure of time.

and i did not say that *nodding no*

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RE: I hate it when........ - 3/1/2009 12:42:16 AM   
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i can't sleeeeeeeeeep
the achiness in my chicky parts is making me uncomfortable :(

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RE: I hate it when........ - 3/1/2009 1:19:10 AM   
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i hate that i am awake at 4 am from this stupid headache.

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RE: I hate it when........ - 3/1/2009 4:26:30 AM   
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right. so i don't call tomorrow either?

*giggles*


LMAO!!!!!!!   Angel, you are just too precious for words!

Actually, you could call any time up to about 5 p.m. Eastern Time.  After that, I cannot e held responsible for anything your virgin ears might be subject to.

*you said to put it on speaker phone and act like you weren't listening, right?* 


*is dying to get in on THAT phone call.....all perv senses on high...*

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RE: I hate it when........ - 3/1/2009 4:35:24 AM   
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I thought she meant like military school or something greedy, IT was my mistake in mis reading the statement:)


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No offense, since I don't know anything about bratty kids, but why can't  you ship him off dad alive or no dad alive? What would dad being alive have to do with it?
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Honestly, if his father were alive, I'd ship him off. He needs to learn some reality of life.
 




If Dad is not alive, then there is no dad to send him to.




I 'd love to ship him off to Military School. He'd like it, too, as a matter of fact. But do you realize those things cost upwards of $20,000 a year??!?!?!
 
I may just ship him off to my brother in Israel. Let him live the restrictive life of an Orthodox Jew for a few weeks/months and see if he doesn't wake up to how priviledged he is here.
 
Actually, I'm looking into Outward Bound- type programs for the summer.


I have heard of the programs, seems pretty interesting, could well help, sometimes they do need a strong reality check.

When the same son I mentioned early got in his "trouble" and wasnt doing what the judge said, The judge said you want motivation, I will give you motivation and sent him off to "Boot Camp" for teens that needed a clue x 4. 90 days of training, displine and nothing less that stellar conduct, he came out buffed up and ready to tackle te world.
Unfortunately it wasnt long lived and he slip back into the down side of his bi-polar.The judge knew he wasnt bad kid tho, while he was set for 2 yearof probation, he didnt seem to be able to keep up with his community service, fees and restitution. The judge did allow him to extend it although it took him twice as long.  Did mom ever pay a penny, oh hell no.   His offence wasnt anything major, but none the less he got caught.

Had he actually finished high school (quit at the end of 11th grade besause he was bored,,,very high IQ and not got into trouble, the armed services would have loved to have him at a premium price even.  Thats one things he does regret. He would have done great things I would like to think.  But that way before all this Iraq stuff and their standards were alot higher even for the Army.

I so hate that every day he struggles and get angry at himself and was turning to drink to make up for it. Now he is paying that price, but on the good side they put him in a mandatory mental health program so he is meds required which is helpin.

I love my boy, but the things he has done makes me want to throttle him, but I also know somethings he couldnt help.  He does live with my mom to help provide for her when he can, so at least I know he is in most excellant hands.

I will never give up on him being very successful someday, using his high intelliegnce and finding himself productive and well.

Never stop trying honie and always remind him that you love him regardless even if your decisions are not what he wants

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RE: I hate it when........ - 3/1/2009 4:45:46 AM   
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Thanks, hon.
 
I've looked into "boot camps"- the only ones are for kids in the juvenile justice system (he's not there, thank god). One of his issues is that he does have more than a bit of ADHD, but I don't want it diagnosed and medicated because the Marines won't take him if it is. I just have to make sure he gets a HS diploma and then it's Parris Island for him (this is HIS career choice, btw).
 
His intelligence has gotten him thru school until now, but now, his attention deficit is overtaking- he's a freshman in HS and the demands are such that he shuts down and just doesn't do the work that he is perfectly capable of doing. And he's discovered alcohol.
 
We are trying to prevent him from deteriorating more. Mine is a good kid, too. Polite and respectful to all other adults (other than me); he's funny and personable- quite the comedian. I think if I can get him safely through the next few years, he will come out ok. I have my work cut out for me. And I am grateful for the outlet of coming here and screaming my frustrations!!!!

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RE: I hate it when........ - 3/1/2009 4:47:37 AM   
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I hate that I just went off on the upper threads because I can't stand to hear anymore name calling. I hate that I have to "listen" to the words, instead of just reading them. I hate that my program doesn't have different "voices" I can choose from. I hate being visually impaired     
 
But, I love that I have access to the things that many people don't and I am thankful for what sight I do have. Jumping off the pity pot now. Bad moment. Forgive me.

MoGa



Wrong thread, but, oh, well...
 
I love when MoGa blows a gasket and very elequently puts people in their very-well-deserved place!
 
I salute you!


She is wonderfully good like that.  Adores the loving and sadistic MoGa.!!!!!

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RE: I hate it when........ - 3/1/2009 4:59:28 AM   
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right. so i don't call tomorrow either?

*giggles*


You can call us Angel.  *wicked grin*

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RE: I hate it when........ - 3/1/2009 5:02:03 AM   
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*hugs to all that need them*

Hejira... not that I'm a paragon of anything, but fwiw, I was an absolute monster as a teen.  It took ages, but I did finally get my shit more or less together...  hang in there, sweet lady...  he'll be fine :)

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RE: I hate it when........ - 3/1/2009 5:07:35 AM   
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er. is it something about me that brings out the sadist in people?

men..women...doesn't seem to matter

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RE: I hate it when........ - 3/1/2009 5:14:50 AM   
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right. so i don't call tomorrow either?

*giggles*


You can call us Angel.  *wicked grin*


yeah, cause there'd be less heavy breathing and squeals and giggles from your phone? i think not.

see, i'm being preyed on.

(gotta find me some camoflauge gear. or chocolate.)

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RE: I hate it when........ - 3/1/2009 5:16:28 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: hejira92

quote:

ORIGINAL: Daddysredhead

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ORIGINAL: KMsAngel

right. so i don't call tomorrow either?

*giggles*


LMAO!!!!!!!   Angel, you are just too precious for words!

Actually, you could call any time up to about 5 p.m. Eastern Time.  After that, I cannot e held responsible for anything your virgin ears might be subject to.

*you said to put it on speaker phone and act like you weren't listening, right?* 


*is dying to get in on THAT phone call.....all perv senses on high...*


Well if we had known.....could have called here ROFL, double teaming sadists. *swoon*

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RE: I hate it when........ - 3/1/2009 5:25:25 AM   
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Thanks, hon.
 
I've looked into "boot camps"- the only ones are for kids in the juvenile justice system (he's not there, thank god). One of his issues is that he does have more than a bit of ADHD, but I don't want it diagnosed and medicated because the Marines won't take him if it is. I just have to make sure he gets a HS diploma and then it's Parris Island for him (this is HIS career choice, btw).
 
His intelligence has gotten him thru school until now, but now, his attention deficit is overtaking- he's a freshman in HS and the demands are such that he shuts down and just doesn't do the work that he is perfectly capable of doing. And he's discovered alcohol.
 
We are trying to prevent him from deteriorating more. Mine is a good kid, too. Polite and respectful to all other adults (other than me); he's funny and personable- quite the comedian. I think if I can get him safely through the next few years, he will come out ok. I have my work cut out for me. And I am grateful for the outlet of coming here and screaming my frustrations!!!!


Yes, the are for those in the system, although he had already turned 18 by the time he was charged they still sent him though.  Of course years later after that I believe they were shut down because of a couple of heat (TX related deaths and not watching out for other medical signs.

Oh honie I so hope he doesnt thing drinking is self medicating.  I dontblame you for trying to nip it in the bud, I have 2 *sighs* that do that way to often now as adults.

I dont blame you for trying to keep it out of his medical records...since I know how the military system works, they will dig deep for that stuff.

I hope he starts to realize that his future career is directly related to his actions now.  Keep reminding him his future depends on him keeping control.

*hugs* He is at a hard age and others can influence that unfortunately.

edited to change those wrong words my fingers type.

< Message edited by SavageFaerie -- 3/1/2009 5:30:08 AM >


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RE: I hate it when........ - 3/1/2009 5:34:19 AM   
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herjira there are schools out there, privately run schools with a strong emphasis on discipline. Outward Bound type places can turn around a kid heading in the wrong direction. I think Outward Bound even has short 'courses', while others can be several years.

If you do choose something like this please please do research to the nth degree. Decline places that refuse to let you walk around and talk to those that go there, find 'alumni' and talk to them.

Look up 'Straights' as an example of the type of place to stay far away from.

I cannot imagine the pain from a parental view, watching your UM barreling down a path that you know will lead to bad places. Sometimes last resort places are needed, that is not a failure on the parents part when all other avenues have been tried.

Regrettably I have experience with the bad places. If this is something you are thinking about doing please feel free to contact me. I have a lot of links and know of several forums. I know some of the things that indicate places that don't cause positive change.


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RE: I hate it when........ - 3/1/2009 5:42:06 AM   
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I Hate that I am coming late to the threads due to homework...sigh.

I hate that hejira can't send her Um to me for a bit of refocusing...I don't hit, I don't yell..but I DO get through.

I hate that someone can't set Moga up on Vista since it reads and takes dictation as well as Jaws does and has different voices and more you can add for free. I hate that she can't get her guide dog here in Florida...we do have a good center here and she would be closer.

I hate that I don't have time to read the upper forums right now.

I hate that I lost two classes (got dropped) because this lousy misbegotten virus that started out as a cold, changed to bronchitis and nearly made it to whooping cough made me too ill to keep up. I will have to take them this summer...

I hate that Master is flying today even though he is still sick.

I hate that I can't fix every ones problems or give Christine a new job.

I hate that ST hasn't discovered the free web design programs that would make his design stuff easier to do. CMail me and I will give you a couple of sites ST based on your O/s.

I hate that someone made a play for Red's DB and dished her things but proud to hear the Redhead fired her up..Ashes to ashes Ba-BE..Ashes to Ashes.

I hate that Holly lost 10 pounds and I found them!!! Take 'em back Holly...they miss you!!!

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RE: I hate it when........ - 3/1/2009 5:49:41 AM   
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I hate that hejira can't send her Um to me for a bit of refocusing...I don't hit, I don't yell..but I DO get through.

poenkitten facing off against midterms this week.



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RE: I hate it when........ - 3/1/2009 6:08:57 AM   
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I hate that I lost two classes (got dropped) because this lousy misbegotten virus that started out as a cold, changed to bronchitis and nearly made it to whooping cough made me too ill to keep up. I will have to take them this summer...

I hate that Master is flying today even though he is still sick.


poenkitten facing off against midterms this week.



I also hate you lost those two classes, I hate even more being sick has taken such a toll. I wish I could just take it away.

I hate that he is flying too, it hard to see the both of you seperated, tho the upside for me is I get to have sleepies with you.  But I haev seen what just one trip does and glad at least I can be here to keep you company.

Well if you get too frustrated with the midterms, at least you have ermmmmm someone to ermmmm frustrate with

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RE: I hate it when........ - 3/1/2009 7:21:41 AM   
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  I HATE HATE HATE HATE HATE (note the 5)  my damn sound sensitivity.

Smoke alarm accidently goes off....and I was off running in a nano second to get away from it outside, all the way to the edge of the driveway. *sigh*  It leaves me in a quivering mess and not in the good way.

Even some quiet unespected sounds do it, but more startle me but make my heart speed up way.

Im dealing with other triggers so well, but this one is proving impossible.

*Nibbles some xanax to slow my heart down*

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