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lusciouslips19 -> RE: I hate it when........ (11/19/2009 4:27:35 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sophiesback but i love Him, zeph [:(] and and and i just uggggggggggghhhhhhhhhhhhh i worked so fucking hard to please Him and and and and [sm=dunno.gif][sm=dunno.gif][sm=dunno.gif][sm=dunno.gif][sm=dunno.gif] sigh This is for you sweetie! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O_exY9ptMbA

sophiesback -> RE: I hate it when........ (11/19/2009 4:28:21 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: zephyroftheNorth Well the first step is to allow yourself to feel instead of avoiding it, and you know you've been doing that. Gotta get ready for work, you know how to reach me. i'm off today, i think. Expect to be driven batty with texts [;)]

sophiesback -> RE: I hate it when........ (11/19/2009 4:31:11 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: purepleasure First, {{{hugs}}} to those that are hurting, and {{gropes}} to those that want them. Sophie, there are some people that come in and out of our lives, for no other purpose that to teach us something. By reading your posts, it's easy to see that you have a loving heart, and sometimes people will take advantage of that. Your ex is one of those people. I'm thinking he was meant to teach you to be strong enough to stand on your own, and to never again to take any crap from people with ulterior motives. Grieve over the ending of your intimate relationship with him, if you must, but please, please, please realize you deserve MUCH better than what he is able to give to you. Take time to reconnect with yourself. Stay surrounded with people that have a positive impact on your life, and will only enhance your joy. Take time for your kids, they need you too, and might inspire you to be more than you ever thought you could be. This made me cry. It makes sense. i know you're right. i just don't know how to handle the rejection. eta: thanks lushy. i hadn't heard that song in ages

purepleasure -> RE: I hate it when........ (11/19/2009 4:59:03 AM)
sophie, try looking at it this way, he has not rejected YOU. He has given you your wings to fly, and to transcend to a relationship that is everything you deserve. You deserve to have open communication with your partner at any time of the day or night. You deserve to be able to trust your partner implicitly, with your body, your mind, and your emotions. You deserve to have your self-respect, and not have to worry about offending your partner for some minor infraction, or if you have a concern with any part of your life or your partner's life. You deserve to be true to yourself.

sophiesback -> RE: I hate it when........ (11/19/2009 5:06:54 AM)
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Phoenixpower -> RE: I hate it when........ (11/19/2009 6:00:18 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: GreedyTop I hate it that Wanders isnt here..... Maybe it helps to let you know that she isn´t here either [&o] Times are tough [>:] Hope your headache is getting better Greedy...when I was 16 or 17 I had once 6-7 weeks headache non-stop and one scan they did, did show nothing except the comment I got to be very boney [8\|] Thankfully since then I had never ever such a long episode and now most of the time my meds help... Also best wishes to sophie...I know how it feels like as I finally let go someone else as well whom I like a lot...however on his naive conditions it is only winding up and never ever going to get anywhere and whilst I do miss him it is healthier to move on. Currently I am in an unexpected contact involved from here which cheers me up nicely...question will only be how long that one will last [8\|]

LinnaeaBorealis -> RE: I hate it when........ (11/19/2009 6:14:55 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sophiesback i just don't know how to cope. Except for Him, i have NEVER been dumped. 20 years of relationships, many relationships.....He is the only person to ever end it with me. I've always been the dumpER, not the dumpEE. (Sounds vain but is true) Aha!!! This says so much!

LinnaeaBorealis -> RE: I hate it when........ (11/19/2009 6:17:37 AM)
I adore you, Pure.

sophiesback -> RE: I hate it when........ (11/19/2009 6:35:08 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LinnaeaBorealis quote: ORIGINAL: sophiesback i just don't know how to cope. Except for Him, i have NEVER been dumped. 20 years of relationships, many relationships.....He is the only person to ever end it with me. I've always been the dumpER, not the dumpEE. (Sounds vain but is true) Aha!!! This says so much! Please don't think badly of me. i ran from many relationships prematurely, i'm sure. This time i was determined i was not going to be that person again. i was not going to give up and run. i was going to work things out, and in doing so, i finally fell so deeply in love. i allowed Him to hurt me over and over, and chalked it up to the saying about hurting the ones that love us. Alot of time was spent in and on this relationship. i've forgotten how to give up and i've never loved someone so deeply, much less had to let go of someone i love this way.

lusciouslips19 -> RE: I hate it when........ (11/19/2009 6:38:04 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sophiesback quote: ORIGINAL: LinnaeaBorealis quote: ORIGINAL: sophiesback i just don't know how to cope. Except for Him, i have NEVER been dumped. 20 years of relationships, many relationships.....He is the only person to ever end it with me. I've always been the dumpER, not the dumpEE. (Sounds vain but is true) Aha!!! This says so much! Please don't think badly of me. i ran from many relationships prematurely, i'm sure. This time i was determined i was not going to be that person again. i was not going to give up and run. i was going to work things out, and in doing so, i finally fell so deeply in love. i allowed Him to hurt me over and over, and chalked it up to the saying about hurting the ones that love us. Alot of time was spent in and on this relationship. i've forgotten how to give up and i've never loved someone so deeply, much less had to let go of someone i love this way. This is not a bad thing. You opened your heart and you took the risk. But now its wiser to love you enough to let go. When you love, sometimes you do have to let go.

impishlilhellcat -> RE: I hate it when........ (11/19/2009 6:39:41 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LinnaeaBorealis quote: ORIGINAL: sophiesback i just don't know how to cope. Except for Him, i have NEVER been dumped. 20 years of relationships, many relationships.....He is the only person to ever end it with me. I've always been the dumpER, not the dumpEE. (Sounds vain but is true) Aha!!! This says so much! Ooo sophiekins we are so much more alike than you know. I too had a relationship similar to yours... He was the first person to end it with me... Mine had a lot more complications/grieving involved for various different reasons. I literally fell to pieces not really because of losing him. (it hurt and in a way I did, but it wasn't the reason it hurt so much) if that makes sense. I feel ya girly... You know how to reach me if you need someone to talk to or yanno text.

sunshinemiss -> RE: I hate it when........ (11/19/2009 6:46:18 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Kalista07 quote: ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss I hate it when my sister follows me around on this website, reading my posts... geesh. Sunshine...I'm sure it's just because she loves you as much as we do and she is so jealous and wants to be just like you and can find no other way other than to stalk you.....[:)] I knows things you knows.... Kali Well, that's one way to look at it... Not anything close to accurate, but sweet none the less. Hugs to you.

LinnaeaBorealis -> RE: I hate it when........ (11/19/2009 6:51:53 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sophiesback Please don't think badly of me. i ran from many relationships prematurely, i'm sure. This time i was determined i was not going to be that person again. i was not going to give up and run. i was going to work things out, and in doing so, i finally fell so deeply in love. i allowed Him to hurt me over and over, and chalked it up to the saying about hurting the ones that love us. Alot of time was spent in and on this relationship. i've forgotten how to give up and i've never loved someone so deeply, much less had to let go of someone i love this way. I'm not judging you at all, darlin. Many people, when they become the dumpee, end up being obsessed with the dumper. I do understand loving someone who's not good for me to love. Been there, done that. Got dumped by my soulmate twice in one lifetime. It hurts. A whole lot. I just went to work & became celibate. For nearly 2 years. I did therapy on the phone because I was driving a truck & couldn't get to a therapist's office. I worked very hard at coming out the other side a healthy person who sought healthy relationships. Remember, love is not enough. You need similar goals, morals & ethics to make a relationship work. And you need both people to work on a relationship. When only one cares, it is doomed. You did all you believed that you could do to keep the relationship on track. He did not. I know that it feels like this is how you will be feeling for the rest of your life. But, really, it's only been a few days. Give yourself some time.

purepleasure -> RE: I hate it when........ (11/19/2009 6:56:21 AM)
adores Linnea right back

sunshinemiss -> RE: I hate it when........ (11/19/2009 7:04:59 AM)
That Linnea - she's a smart gal!

Dnomyar -> RE: I hate it when........ (11/19/2009 7:34:39 AM)
I hate that Im getting all kinds of garden seed catalogs and winter is near. I want to plant a big garden now.

Phoenixpower -> RE: I hate it when........ (11/19/2009 8:06:27 AM)
hands Dnomyar a spade [sm=mrpuffy.gif]

subtlebutterfly -> RE: I hate it when........ (11/19/2009 8:22:46 AM)
I hate hate hate hate hate hate hate hate hate HATE computers...gawd DAMN the fuckin thing I need to hurry to print my shit out so I can shut it down for good at least for a few weeks[:(]

GreedyTop -> RE: I hate it when........ (11/19/2009 8:29:38 AM)
I feel your pain, butterfly... hugs I HATE ZITS!! This SOB is HURTING, and nowhere near ready to pop.. so not only do I have to deal with the ouchiness of it, I also have to deal with this unsightly huge red BUMP on my face..grrr I hate watching Gracious' sides as she breathes.. shallow breaths.. that hurts more than anything....

subtlebutterfly -> RE: I hate it when........ (11/19/2009 9:02:11 AM)
zits...ewwwww ...that reminds me of this video..be grateful this aint yours[:D] http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VNOxn-paCHs (not for the sensitive..I couldn't watch it half way)

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