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Level -> RE: I hate it when........ (7/4/2008 2:27:27 PM)
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ORIGINAL: Daddysredhead
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ORIGINAL: Level
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ORIGINAL: Daddysredhead
I hate it that I'm also here alone, and that He came by earlier when I was on the phone, in the middle of a crisis intervention with one of my dearest friends, and I had to choose staying on the phone with her, so He got up and walked out, without saying good-bye. When I called Him back and asked what was wrong, He simply said, "I'll talk to you later, maybe I'll come back around this evening." I hate it when I am doing the right thing, and I feel like I've pissed Him off because I feel that He is acting like a child.
Ouch, red. I know that on those (incredibly rare [X(]) occurances that I've acted in such a way, that there was something else at the root of my behaviour, something else that I was upset about. How's he coping with your employment problem? Too nosey, sorry.
Hi dear Levelicious.
There is no such thing as too nosey with you, sweet man. We've been around too long for that. [:)]
He's not happy about my job situation, that He can't do anything to make it better. I also know that He is getting really irked at things lately and He hasn't opened up too much about it. I have tried to talk with Him and we've had a couple of productive conversations. But it's no surprise (esp. after 5 years) that I wear many hats, and that there will be times when I can't drop everything and visit or focus all my attn on Him. I did what I needed to do with my friend, she needed me more than anyone else at that time. He said that He wasn't mad at me, that I was obviously not able to visit right then, so He left and may come back later. However, He was kind pissy like this yesterday and I'm really getting tired of it. (And yes, I'm probably more cranky these days, too.) *sigh*
*emphasis added*
I was curious about that, good lady. Men, certainly dominant ones, can feel struck at the core in such situations. Doesn't make being pissy okay, but that may be some of the reason behind it.
When my lady friend at work was dealing with an abusive boyfriend, there was more than once that I thought I was gonna stroke out due to frustration, at not being able to "fix" things. [:)] And, a couple of times, I wrongly was "pissy" with her.... I think, even though she wasn't doing anything to me, that I saw her as a focal point of the problems, in general, and lashed out at her.
I wish I could take that shit back, but no do-overs, ya know.
Just try to remember that you all are under a load right now *especially you*...... be gentle with yourself.
Edited to add: I should have whupped up on The Lump at the time! [8D]
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