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ORIGINAL: christine1

i hate that my kids are trying to cheer me up and nothing is working and i'm trying to fake it but i'm not good at that... that makes me feel really guilty.

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ORIGINAL: MstrObjectmaker

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ORIGINAL: firstslaveca

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ORIGINAL: MstrObjectmaker

I hate it when theres no communication..........  Then I'd be out of a job, and I'd hate that!

I hate it when the other party ducks the issue/issue's.........Well, hmmm... that sure gives us info about what is making them uncomfortable.....

I hate it that I care...........but find myself hitting a brick wall...........Yeah, and the opposite of that is not caring and life being way too easy and simple... and that ... I bet you would hate worse.... or at least the people around you would.

I hate it when the other party won't let me in...........to allow me to understand and work through it........... I hate it when folks don't have patience and expect me to make myself vulnerable before I'm ready or safe.

I hate it when I don't know how to proceed.............In AA they say, don't just do something, stand there.  I hate that more people don't know that.

I hate it when I find myself walking down someone elses one way street............ I hate that too.

I hate it that I'm having to post this on the forum...........instead of tackling it head-on in privacy...........I hate it when people duck the issue sometimes, too.

I hate it that I don't know who to turn to for advice............I hate it when people don't know who their friends are.

ditto i hate all those things too, well am on the fence re the one way street thing BUT i hate the rest

I would think that most honest individuals hate those things..........the one way street thing is a comment about relationships being two way.........in an ideal world.........  I hate when people see the world as black and white and forget that honesty includes nuance.

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ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss

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ORIGINAL: MstrObjectmaker

I would think that most honest individuals hate those things..........the one way street thing is a comment about relationships being two way.........in an ideal world.........  I hate when people see the world as black and white and forget that honesty includes nuance.

peace,
sunshine

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ORIGINAL: christine1

chocolate fountain?  hmmm, wonder what spicy pork rinds taste like dipped in chocolate rofl.

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ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss

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ORIGINAL: MstrObjectmaker
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ORIGINAL: MstrObjectmaker

I hate it when theres no communication..........  Then I'd be out of a job, and I'd hate that!..........Perhaps you could find another job?

I hate it when the other party ducks the issue/issue's.........Well, hmmm... that sure gives us info about what is making them uncomfortable................You want specifics, use Cmail.

I hate it that I care...........but find myself hitting a brick wall...........Yeah, and the opposite of that is not caring and life being way too easy and simple... and that ... I bet you would hate worse.... or at least the people around you would..........Your point is??

I hate it when the other party won't let me in...........to allow me to understand and work through it........... I hate it when folks don't have patience and expect me to make myself vulnerable before I'm ready or safe..........Good point......noted.

I hate it when I don't know how to proceed.............In AA they say, don't just do something, stand there.  I hate that more people don't know that.........I've never been to AA. But another good point.

I hate it when I find myself walking down someone elses one way street............ I hate that too.

I hate it that I'm having to post this on the forum...........instead of tackling it head-on in privacy...........I hate it when people duck the issue sometimes, too.

I hate it that I don't know who to turn to for advice............I hate it when people don't know who their friends are.........Have we met before?........Some friends may have conflicting loyalties........I'm just sayin'.

ditto i hate all those things too, well am on the fence re the one way street thing BUT i hate the rest

I would think that most honest individuals hate those things..........the one way street thing is a comment about relationships being two way.........in an ideal world.........  I hate when people see the world as black and white and forget that honesty includes nuance.

peace,
sunshine

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ORIGINAL: christine1

lol, i'm sure it isn't that great.  i'll stick with the fruit and marshmallows.  damn, i wish i really had some chocolate.

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ORIGINAL: MstrObjectmaker


Two out of eight ain't bad.........

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ORIGINAL: impishlilhellcat

I hate it when I'm stressed about finding a job much less stressed about graduating for a second time... the right job finds you right???????!!!!??!

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Two out of eight ain't bad.........

Now that was fun!!!!
*hugs,
sunshine

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I hate it when I'm stressed about finding a job much less stressed about graduating for a second time... the right job finds you right???????!!!!??!

yes, imp.. as long as you step in front of it...*hugs*  I wish you the best.. quit stressing so much, it's bad for you!!  breathe deeply... exhale... and know that there are lots of positive thoughts coming your way :)

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I hate it when I'm stressed about finding a job much less stressed about graduating for a second time... the right job finds you right???????!!!!??!

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I hate it when I'm stressed about finding a job much less stressed about graduating for a second time... the right job finds you right???????!!!!??!

Hey there, imp!  LTNS!!! 

Well, I finally got the job I wanted today.  It was like a small collision, but I'm not sure if it was aimed at me or if I was aimed at it... 

*hugs and best wishes for finding your dream job*