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christine1 -> RE: I hate it when........ (9/14/2008 2:54:59 PM)
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ORIGINAL: CalifChick
Christine, darlin'... you were not in love with him, the man... you were in love with the way you felt. If you were in love with the man, he would not have done what he did, because that man that you loved would not have done that. Clear as mud?
Some people only want what they can't have, don't have, once had, etc. (I know, my ex-husband is exactly like that). So move on to someone who wants YOU, all of YOU, who is happier with YOU in their life than without YOU in their life.
And start messaging some of the peeps I'm sending you links to. You have nothing to lose.
I don't know if this applies to you or not, but I'll throw it out there: I gave a little piece of advice to a co-worker the other day, when she was bemoaning the fact that she was having a hard time meeting men with "possibilities." I told her to knock it off, stop looking at every guy as if he might be "the one", and just look at it as an opportunity to make a friend... and that friend might know someone who turns out to be "the one", you never know. She told me the next day that by applying this advice, she had the most awesome time the night before at a function she went to, met lots of interesting people, and felt so much more relaxed once she took the pressure off herself AND off other people.
Cali
i lubs you cali....you are really awesome.
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