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SoulPiercer -> RE: I hate it when........ (9/17/2008 5:16:12 AM)

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ORIGINAL: CalifChick
I had a call from a police officer yesterday, which amused me greatly.  Apparently the ex called them and said that I had a restraining order against him but he didn't know what it said.

Cali


Police Dispatch: It says stay the f*ck away, jackass! Is there anything else we can help you with today?

The police should have told him the very thing you did. If you want to know what it says ... go to the courthouse and get a copy.




christine1 -> RE: I hate it when........ (9/17/2008 5:17:27 AM)

i hate it when tummy flu thing is hanging on just a litte more for a 3rd day,




sambamanslilgirl -> RE: I hate it when........ (9/17/2008 5:33:38 AM)

i hate that i got rid of a cold only to catch another one   [:@]




BlackPhx -> RE: I hate it when........ (9/17/2008 6:04:35 AM)

Yanno Cali there is a bit of irony in there and I have to wonder at that Police Officers training... Since he has been served and there is a restraining order, with the exception of the brief periods he is supposed to pick up the Um..YOU would potentially be violating the order to give him a second cop.

Please remember one thing for me... Restraining orders are not bullet proof... watch yourself around him and have someone with you if you can when passing over the Um or do it in a public place.

poenkitten




CalifChick -> RE: I hate it when........ (9/17/2008 8:06:20 AM)

Yeah, I'm filling out the paperwork today for the violations.  Having the cop contact me was a violation of the "no indirect contact" part of the order.  I don't know what he told the cop about why he didn't have the order, but the cop was surprised when I said he tore it up and threw it at me.

It may be different in various jurisdictions, but legally, nothing I do will violate the order, and I cannot give him permission to violate the order.  So if I said, yeah, you can come to workplace so we can talk, he would be violating the order by doing what I gave him permission to do and I would not.


Caliente
(thank you, Mr. SJM, for that new nick)




GreedyTop -> RE: I hate it when........ (9/17/2008 8:47:47 AM)

*smoooches CAli*  I wish there was something I could do....he is obviously a total waste of sperm and oxygen...




Dnomyar -> RE: I hate it when........ (9/17/2008 10:21:41 AM)

cali you and greedy can come and visit me. I have no restraining orders out against me yet.




sirsholly -> RE: I hate it when........ (9/17/2008 10:24:12 AM)

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ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

*smoooches CAli*  I wish there was something I could do....he is obviously a total waste of sperm and oxygen...


me too...it is just so unfair.

but...one good thing...he did NOT endear himself to the police dept by having the cop call you. Methinks it is going to seriously bite him in the ass.




Aylee -> RE: I hate it when........ (9/17/2008 11:57:52 AM)

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ORIGINAL: SoulPiercer

quote:

ORIGINAL: CalifChick
I had a call from a police officer yesterday, which amused me greatly.  Apparently the ex called them and said that I had a restraining order against him but he didn't know what it said.

Cali


Police Dispatch: It says stay the f*ck away, jackass! Is there anything else we can help you with today?

The police should have told him the very thing you did. If you want to know what it says ... go to the courthouse and get a copy.



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opposingtwilight -> RE: I hate it when........ (9/17/2008 12:18:41 PM)

I hate it when my sciatic nerve hurts.

Right now everytime I move I just want to cry like a little girl. Its bugging the tar out of me 'cause I wanna be ACTIVE and I can't.




Kalista07 -> RE: I hate it when........ (9/17/2008 1:04:55 PM)

i hate that i completly lost it today and turned in my notice....Fuck, i gave them a month's worth...What more could they ask for.......

i hate that i feel like i'm losing my mind..........

i hate that i feel like He's going to dump me.......

Kali





Aylee -> RE: I hate it when........ (9/17/2008 1:35:25 PM)

Kali. . .

It will be okay.  You will be okay.


Why did you turn in your notice?




CalifChick -> RE: I hate it when........ (9/17/2008 2:28:22 PM)

Okay, back at work.  Went to the courthouse and filed the proof of service on the restraining order.  Then went to the police station for the town I work in (very handy, right across the street from the courthouse) and sat with a detective from the Domestic Violence Unit who wrote up the restraining order violations from last night.  While sitting there, the ex sent me a text.  Classic!  The detective tried to call him but he didn't answer.  He said one more text and he would arrest him.  In the meantime, he is sending the report to the District Attorney and asking for prosecution.

From there, went to the Sheriff's Office (again, very handy, right across the street), to give them a copy of the proof of service.  They maintain the master database on restraining orders throughout the county.

From there, went to the Police Department for the city I live in (basically a suburb of the other city).  They took copies of everything as well and while I was waiting for them to assign me a case number for the registration of the order, a police officer that has known me and the ex for about 6 years walked by and we stood there and talked for 20 minutes.  He said it's only a matter of time, and that he thinks the ex NEEDS to spend a couple days in jail as a wake-up call (funny, the other detective said the exact same thing).

Cali




BlackPhx -> RE: I hate it when........ (9/17/2008 2:32:39 PM)

It sounds like it Cali..but, fromm experience I can say MOST who violate a restraining order and spend time in jail because of it, blame the person who has the order.  Please, Please Please be careful and wary. As those who aid survivors of DV say... the most dangerous time is when you are escaping.

poenkitten




BlackPhx -> RE: I hate it when........ (9/17/2008 2:36:33 PM)

Kali, are you still taking the pain medications? If you are finding yourself depressed and having trouble, it is possible that they are either causing it or making feelings already there worse. It is not uncommon, especially with codeine medications. It is also not uncommon for such feelings to occur after a major accident or when you have been a victim of a crime.

Please speak with your Doctors if you are taking the pain meds.

poenkitten (extremely concerned as she herself becomes extremely paranoid on codeine)




Hippiekinkster -> RE: I hate it when........ (9/17/2008 2:58:46 PM)

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ORIGINAL: BlackPhx

Kali, are you still taking the pain medications? If you are finding yourself depressed and having trouble, it is possible that they are either causing it or making feelings already there worse. It is not uncommon, especially with codeine medications. It is also not uncommon for such feelings to occur after a major accident or when you have been a victim of a crime.

Please speak with your Doctors if you are taking the pain meds.

poenkitten (extremely concerned as she herself becomes extremely paranoid on codeine)
Or talk to me. I've been on pain meds for about 9 years, and have a decent knowledge of the side effects et cetera and so on yada yada... [;)] 




CalifChick -> RE: I hate it when........ (9/17/2008 4:28:29 PM)

I hate that people I respect have started using thinly veiled insults about the intelligence of people that disagree with them.



Cali




GreedyTop -> RE: I hate it when........ (9/17/2008 4:30:34 PM)

I hate that I want to be anywhere but here.




Aylee -> RE: I hate it when........ (9/17/2008 4:36:47 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: CalifChick

I hate that people I respect have started using thinly veiled insults about the intelligence of people that disagree with them.



Cali



What?

I mean, isn't it OBVIOUS that anyone that would be stupid enough not to agree with me IS an idiot. 

It is a law of nature. 




christine1 -> RE: I hate it when........ (9/17/2008 4:48:11 PM)

i hate that this flu bug is hanging on like a sumbitch.  now i'm getting weak and have the shakes...might be time to visit the ole doc.




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