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RE: I hate it when........ - 1/14/2009 10:10:50 AM   
Gwynvyd


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ORIGINAL: trappedinamuseum

Dunno Greedy....woke up with pain in the right kidney on Saturday, went to doc yesterday (no idney stones), so they think it was a UTI that moved into one of my kidneys, and has now spread to theother one...

I had no idea I even had a UTI.  I have no symptoms other than the pain, and the blood.



Oh honey.. becareful with that. You can do some serious damage to your kidneys.

*passes you some of her cranberry concotion*

Hell I am not sure you can send food liquids through the mail. Can you make a batch hun? I left the directions in the list here.

That would help greatly.

It kicked the shit out of my bad ones.

*hugs you lightly*

Gwyn

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RE: I hate it when........ - 1/14/2009 10:11:34 AM   
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I hate it that my ex thinks it's funny that he has totalled 2 cars in the past 2 months.  It wouldn't bother me so much, but the first time, my son was with him.  He has gone through 5 vehicles in 3 years.  And he laughs about it.  Grrr... Thank God I'm not with Him anymore.

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RE: I hate it when........ - 1/14/2009 10:14:20 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Daddysredhead

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man, the proposals are flying all over the place today!


I didn't get a proposal.

*goes off to pout*

*unloved*

*unwanted*

*wonders if this is pulling any attn whore strings anywhere*
 
*any takers?*
 
*giggles*



*chuckles*

Would we get to share DB? We would need a bigger house though. Soft, Bear, the 2 ums and I.... Your 2 ums, daddy boo, and your father. Whoo it would be a full house!

Oh and Cleo... mustnt forget the "Princessa".

Gwyn

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RE: I hate it when........ - 1/14/2009 10:21:52 AM   
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I hate it that my ex thinks it's funny that he has totalled 2 cars in the past 2 months.  It wouldn't bother me so much, but the first time, my son was with him.  He has gone through 5 vehicles in 3 years.  And he laughs about it.  Grrr... Thank God I'm not with Him anymore.


My son would never ever be with him again.  I would get a court order saying that he had recklessly endangered my child & as far as I'm concerned his parental rights would be null & void!!  You gotta protect your kid above all else.  That's your primary job.  If it means that you have to protect him from his father, that's what you do.  Somebody has to be the responsible one & that's YOU!!!  Do not allow him to ever have your child without your being with him again.

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RE: I hate it when........ - 1/14/2009 10:21:54 AM   
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Oh ickie.. my poor girl is in the same boat. NyQuil is your friend. It brings on dilerium.. but it brings on the sleep too.

Gwyn 


Tonight it is the medicine I was prescribed last October when I had bronchitis; it has codeine in it.  Alandra is trying to get me to go back to the doctor; I just walked down the stairs to feed the fish and then back up again and I am out of breath.  Grrrr  I hate being sick.

Knight's Kyra


Oh hun.. I am so sorry you are so sick.

Stay tucked into bed, with some hot tea. ~ They make tea for colds that will help~ take warm baths with epsom salts and bath oils. If they have it up there get the "Village Naturals" bath oil for colds. Mix it with epsom salts till it is syrupy. Take a warm as you can stand it bath with a few heaping spoonfulls of that and lay front down in the water. It will clear anything in your sinuses and lungs. I have been pushing my two into baths with that for the last week. it really helps the bedtime breathing.

I hope you feel better really soon and are back to your perky self. *hugs*

Gwyn & her Soft

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RE: I hate it when........ - 1/14/2009 10:22:04 AM   
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YHMA, I know it's difficult being in this type of relationship, my ex was/is chronically depressed and has serious issues.

However, there comes a time in some relationships when you have to ask yourself if it's worth staying in or getting out of the relationship. What are the good things? What are the negatives? If part of it is sex related, can alternatives be worked into the relationship such as masturbation or oral? If not, then can you live with that?

If you want to try to work this out, then start looking for positives, finding the things that made you fall in love in the first place. A smile, holding your hand, just being with him, cuddling. Focusing on the negatives will only reinforce them...

Best of luck.

Rain


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RE: I hate it when........ - 1/14/2009 10:37:47 AM   
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Hey, neither did I.  I just made the offer....

But if you're a great cook (unlike moi), feel free to come cook for me.  Then you'd get a proposal!


I'd say I'm a pretty good cook.  I can do the regular stuff as well as a myriad of Sri Lankan/Indian dishes that take 8 years of prep, but are sooooooooooo yummy.


*decides to split my time between Gwyn's and Red's kitchens*



I wanna try Red's food too.

maybe a Curry throw down Red?

You know I am Hindu right.... and raised partialy in a chinese resturant, and over at my friends Rashmi and Manish's house learning from their mother how to cook.

I still have some Baal Mithai that I made in the fridge. Only I use Almonds in mine.

Soft has been nibbling on them. *smiles* I made the *HUGE* mistake of letting her have like 3 in one day.

I peeled her off of the ceiling.

Gwyn

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RE: I hate it when........ - 1/14/2009 10:40:00 AM   
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Rain, There's quite a few good things, but I find more and more my unhappiness with our love life and his refusal to get help with his mental health  is overshadowing my happiness in whole. I  talked to him today about it and he's agreed to find out how to get help, We've taken the first step and called the county mental health offices, to see about help for people who have no insurance and can't afford much help at all.
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ORIGINAL: Rainfire

YHMA, I know it's difficult being in this type of relationship, my ex was/is chronically depressed and has serious issues.

However, there comes a time in some relationships when you have to ask yourself if it's worth staying in or getting out of the relationship. What are the good things? What are the negatives? If part of it is sex related, can alternatives be worked into the relationship such as masturbation or oral? If not, then can you live with that?

If you want to try to work this out, then start looking for positives, finding the things that made you fall in love in the first place. A smile, holding your hand, just being with him, cuddling. Focusing on the negatives will only reinforce them...

Best of luck.

Rain


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RE: I hate it when........ - 1/14/2009 10:56:44 AM   
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That's a good first step, YHMA. It might take a while through the county (my ex lives in Santa Clara County, in San Jose) but maybe they have referrals to sliding-fee scale clinics as well. Or he might be able to get samples to get started until he can get into a clinic.

Keep in mind that your overall unhappiness will reflect on the relationship and your attitude and outlook will determine how things go on your part. You can only do so much, then your partner has to do their part as well. A manager once told me that a relationship isn't 50-50 like people think but somedays will be 70-30, 90-10, maybe 20-80 on your part, or even 150% and 150% on both of your parts. There's give and take, some days you take more, some days you give more.

There's a make or break point and sometimes, the best thing you can do is move on with your life. Whichever way that is....

Rain


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RE: I hate it when........ - 1/14/2009 11:08:03 AM   
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Hey Gywn I want in on that Food challenge....I may not be pure dom.but I can Cook!


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Honey I never met a Dom with a pedigree. *smiles and winks*

You are so on.

~Greedy your boss is an idiot.. and he will hear from corporate... you know he will when it is all done and finished. Thankfully it is not on your head.

~ sends Wanders some of her Tandorri Chicken with Garlic Naan.

~ Potty you were nice because it is your duty to do your job to the best of your ability regardless of who is in the back. You know as well as I do there are a lot of nasty, awful people out there. But even they deserve the best of your care when you are on duty. You are above lowering your standards of care, because then that would make you out to be the bad one. *hugs you tightly dear lady*

~Greedy Ohh so thats what had your ire up... damn co worker. Make the boss make his ass come in. That simply is not fair. You are not there to be everyones bitch.

~ya'll shoulda heard her on the phone... LOL You would have really been hiding behind your couches.

~Kyttyn have a warm bath, some hot tea, and 2 mydol. Call me in the morning.

~ makes rice stuffed huge socks for all of her Candian buddies to wrap around their sholders and necks. Mine is up against my ear ache.. Owwwwwwwwwwwwww.

~ Dittoing Linnaea on the um being with the idiot father who is a wreckless driver.

Gwyn,
Who has a raging ear ache and neck ache. ~ I hate that.




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RE: I hate it when........ - 1/14/2009 11:15:30 AM   
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*drools*

Chicken tandoori...... OMG, I so need to eat!!!! (But Lumus has said that I can go have sushi real soon!)

Gwyn, you take care and get plenty of rest. Let soft take care of ya too... She's a treasure and I'm enjoying our cmails!




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RE: I hate it when........ - 1/14/2009 12:02:59 PM   
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I hate it when people think they are slamming me and are in reality proving my point.  I am sitting here giggling about it with noone to giggle with me. 
le sigh.



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RE: I hate it when........ - 1/14/2009 12:21:02 PM   
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*drools*

Chicken tandoori...... OMG, I so need to eat!!!! (But Lumus has said that I can go have sushi real soon!)

Gwyn, you take care and get plenty of rest. Let soft take care of ya too... She's a treasure and I'm enjoying our cmails!





Chicken Tandorri was her one wish for a welcome home meal. *smiles* It was also the 2nd thing I ever cooked for her.

I miss my old market down in Fort Myers. Maybe i can get Cj to go for me and send me up some supplies. I am out of my normal tandorri mix. *sighs*

I miss Sushi. It is on the banned foods list. I can only eat the cooked stuff. *whimpers*

Soft is my doll baby. She has been so damn good to me and the um. She really takes care of us.

She let me sleep in today, and called the Dr's office to reshed. I was so tired, and achey.. and it was damn cold this morning. I do not do good in cold weather.. I curl up into a little arthritic ball and cry.

She got me hot tea, my heatting pad, my rice sock, and everything else she could think of to try and help me.

My ear is hurting like a mofo so she went off to walk up to the drug store for me. I love her so much. *happy smile*

She even put my fuzzy PJ's and fuzzy socks on me this morning when I hurt too much to bend my legs or hardly move.

I just can not get over how lucky I am to have her. ~ and the amazing fact that we are so well suited for each other and that she loves me right back.

We even have the same "warped" ok what others would concider warped... kinks. *happy dances*

She has really been enjoying talking with you too hun. She is excited, and a bit concerned over being the stay at home parent/teacher. I am simply not cut out to be a stay at home mom. I go stir crazy. She is a great little house mouse. ( you should see my floors!) I love the idea of comming home to her and the ums. *happy sighs*

Gwyn

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RE: I hate it when........ - 1/14/2009 1:01:02 PM   
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Can he do that without being whacked by the gods that set per diem rates? 

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I hate that in a couple of weeks, Tampa is going to be drowning in superbowl stuff.  The route I have to take to and from work goes RIGHT NEXT TO THE FRIGGIN STADIUM!!  *grumbles*.
I hate that I was told by the boss tonight that we're not honoring the Gov't rate during the 4 days of superbowl (29th-2nd). I hate that this may bite him in the ass afterwards, since the majority of our guests ARE Govt people.
I hate that the boss doesnt seem to understand that it would be better to leave at least 10 rooms available at the govt rate so that we dont totally alienate those who are our bread and butter!

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RE: I hate it when........ - 1/14/2009 4:15:55 PM   
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I hate it when Greedy gets so pissed off at her co-worker she goes on a rampage. Evading the police, bucket trucks, and all!!!!!!!!!!

*sniffs* Damn it Greedy.. you didnt even tell me you were on this side of the bridge!

Gwyn

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RE: I hate it when........ - 1/14/2009 4:24:56 PM   
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RE: I hate it when........ - 1/14/2009 4:37:42 PM   
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Rain they wanted to know his name his date of birth his SSN where he lived,  and his telephone number and then they said they'd call back with in 48 hours and do a phone assessment.

My question is assessment for what? I mean other than clearly if he needs to be admitted to a psychiatric hospital, since he is having mental break downs and suicidal thoughts. He's worried they will want to commit him, since he freely admits he's a danger to himself.

Other than a commitment to a hospital, what would be they assessing? Weather or not he could be helped, or weather or not there's programs available?


And if someone is calling for help, why wait up to 48 hours to do an assessment, wouldn't it kind of seem if you were calling you'd be close to being a danger to yourself or at the very least shouldn't have to wait to talk to an assessor?

The wait is driving him nuts. And of course he's got work today, so if they call any time from now on*4:30 to 9* he won't be home.
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ORIGINAL: Rainfire

That's a good first step, YHMA. It might take a while through the county (my ex lives in Santa Clara County, in San Jose) but maybe they have referrals to sliding-fee scale clinics as well. Or he might be able to get samples to get started until he can get into a clinic.

Keep in mind that your overall unhappiness will reflect on the relationship and your attitude and outlook will determine how things go on your part. You can only do so much, then your partner has to do their part as well. A manager once told me that a relationship isn't 50-50 like people think but somedays will be 70-30, 90-10, maybe 20-80 on your part, or even 150% and 150% on both of your parts. There's give and take, some days you take more, some days you give more.

There's a make or break point and sometimes, the best thing you can do is move on with your life. Whichever way that is....

Rain



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RE: I hate it when........ - 1/14/2009 5:07:25 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Gwynvyd

I hate it when Greedy gets so pissed off at her co-worker she goes on a rampage. Evading the police, bucket trucks, and all!!!!!!!!!!

*sniffs* Damn it Greedy.. you didnt even tell me you were on this side of the bridge!

Gwyn


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RE: I hate it when........ - 1/14/2009 5:25:18 PM   
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i hate it when my brain is determined to send me down into a spiralling well of self-loathing and misery and everything i try to get out of it backfires and there's no one to talk to

[/whine]

ugh ugh ugh

i feel like nobody on the planet likes me very much (except my pets, i guess. pets are nice).
it's crappyyyyyyyy

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RE: I hate it when........ - 1/14/2009 5:34:20 PM   
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You too baby? I feel like there is a little troll inside of my tummy with a sharp rake just dragging it through my uterus.  Ughhhhhh. Early menopause anyone? Heading to the kitchen for some more tea and maybe a splash of brandy will umm fall in?  Feel better hon.


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ORIGINAL: KyttynTheMynx

I hate having girly part related issues.  I hate even more that I just had cramps so bad i ended up on the floor howling like a wounded walrus.  I hate even more that I ended up laughing at the way I was howling in pain...lol


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