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RumpusParable -> RE: hairy submissives and slaves (3/16/2008 7:28:31 PM)

I dislike hairy male bodies.  Conversely, I've never much liked the entirely-hairless-slave thing either.

I prefer hairless chest, back, and face; normal body hair on legs and arms (assuming it's naturally not very thick), tidily trimmed underarm and pubic hair.



Leatherist -> RE: hairy submissives and slaves (3/16/2008 7:31:34 PM)

And people say fireplay is useless. Really, no quicker way to get hairless-tho it does get a bit stinky.



LadyHibiscus -> RE: hairy submissives and slaves (3/16/2008 7:55:05 PM)

A top friend of mine has the most awesome body hair........it's like a silky pelt!  I want to pet him (and do!) but he also makes me want to indulge my love of shaving.......



subfromnj -> RE: hairy submissives and slaves (3/16/2008 8:03:13 PM)

[:)]  If I had a domme or master that wanted it shaved I would let them do it for me or with there help I would do it in front of them I feel subs should do what's asked - within reason of course and that to me is not alot to ask of a sub and who's will know execpt the 2 of them.  I would not want to be dismissed because I refused and there is all kinds of stuff to help when the stubble comes..



MDman422 -> RE: hairy submissives and slaves (3/16/2008 8:11:13 PM)

i love a hairy woman a bushy pussy is so sensual mmmmm



MissHarlet -> RE: hairy submissives and slaves (3/16/2008 8:17:32 PM)

I like  man that has well trimed pubic hair .. hairless balls and anus and chest hair....trimed underarm hair ......I also love facial hair on most men ....



pixelslave -> RE: hairy submissives and slaves (3/16/2008 8:23:02 PM)

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ORIGINAL: petdave

i'm a bit surprised to see all the replies that chest hair is okay, but back hair isn't... i would have expected it to be pretty interchangeable.



Interesting indeed!  At 17, I remember thinking "When, if ever, will my chest hair finish growing in?"  At 30, it was more like "Where did it all come from?  It's starting to get so thick that now I sometimes need to trim it back on occasion!"  Now at 50, I look in the mirror and ask, "Where did all the hair on my back suddenly come from?  I don't remember it being there 10 years ago!"  Quite amazing how the body changes with time... [;)]
 
 - pixel



Ladylocks -> RE: hairy submissives and slaves (3/16/2008 8:31:27 PM)

I absolutely hate body hair and my boy dainty is totally bare except for his eyebrows. I enjoy shaving him myself sometimes as an intimate time together. He is so silky soft and nice to cuddle to. I like him soft and pretty.



MistressFaye1 -> RE: hairy submissives and slaves (3/17/2008 5:54:35 AM)

Pubic area, shaved... I like facial hair IF it's neatly trimed.  Silky chest hair is nice but I don't want it so long that you can braid it and you have to plow through it to get to the nipples.

Faye



Shawn1066 -> RE: hairy submissives and slaves (3/17/2008 7:04:40 AM)

I have no hair whatsoever, well, aside from my head.  This is something I try my hardest to maintain.  This is also something I started at since before I was in the lifestyle, and my Owner has supported me in since I've been her's.

I hate body hair.  Nothing disgusts me more.

If my Owner really had an intense desire to humiliate me, then making me grow my hair out would be up there.

DV's Fox



Urdok -> RE: hairy submissives and slaves (3/17/2008 7:23:19 AM)

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ORIGINAL: pixelslave

quote:

ORIGINAL: petdave

i'm a bit surprised to see all the replies that chest hair is okay, but back hair isn't... i would have expected it to be pretty interchangeable.



Interesting indeed!  At 17, I remember thinking "When, if ever, will my chest hair finish growing in?"  At 30, it was more like "Where did it all come from?  It's starting to get so thick that now I sometimes need to trim it back on occasion!"  Now at 50, I look in the mirror and ask, "Where did all the hair on my back suddenly come from?  I don't remember it being there 10 years ago!"  Quite amazing how the body changes with time... [;)]
 
 - pixel



Yes- I remember when I was 12 and my chest hair first started growing, I thought it was great. By the time I was 17, I was more or less horrified at how thick it had gotten and the fact that it was spreading everywhere. Now I'm 25, and I'm completely comfortable with it and I welcome the hair's slow march down my back.

As for back hair- alot of the time it does not grow in thick enough for it to look good. A few wayward wisps of hair is rarely appealing. Body hair needs to grow in fairly heavily for it to look good. I used to keep my back/shoulders clean shaven until around a year ago, when the hair became thick enough that it didn't look silly. Now I just trim in key areas.

If a dom/me ever asked me to shave, I'd have a real problem doing it. My body hair is a huge source of pride for me. Shaving it would be beyond humiliating.



LadyHibiscus -> RE: hairy submissives and slaves (3/17/2008 7:44:05 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Shawn1066

I hate body hair.  Nothing disgusts me more.

If my Owner really had an intense desire to humiliate me, then making me grow my hair out would be up there.

DV's Fox


ummm.......aren't you a fur?  or is that Tammyjo's Fox?  Sorry if I'm confused!



aidan -> RE: hairy submissives and slaves (3/17/2008 8:14:52 AM)

I hate my body hair, mostly because it grows in the two places that have been described as being least desirable and it takes a terrible amount of resources to keep those areas even partially groomed. I can't afford to do regular waxing or even have the space to do it myself at home. >_<



Shawn1066 -> RE: hairy submissives and slaves (3/17/2008 12:06:21 PM)

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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

quote:

ORIGINAL: Shawn1066

I hate body hair.  Nothing disgusts me more.

If my Owner really had an intense desire to humiliate me, then making me grow my hair out would be up there.

DV's Fox


ummm.......aren't you a fur?  or is that Tammyjo's Fox?  Sorry if I'm confused!


I am not a fur(At least until my Owner says I am. :-p).  I'm not sure if you're thinking of TammyJo's Fox or not...  I don't -think- so, but I could be wrong as I don't exactly know the two of them personally.

Don't worry, you're not the first person to mistake me for a fur because of the pet name. :-)

DV's North American Hairless Fox



DiurnalVampire -> RE: hairy submissives and slaves (3/17/2008 8:57:10 PM)

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ORIGINAL: LadyMarmalade1
And does any one have any ideas about why subs are generally expected to be hairless? or is it just personal preferance?

For me its personal preference becasue I like my boys effiminate. However, Angel is of german decent, and being that he is active in sports and now the military, shaving is out of the question. He is quite hairy naturally, on his arms and legs, but not his chest. His facial hair deends on his mood and level of laziness at any given time.

Fox has a major hatred of body hair, and was waxing his legs even before I got him. I like him being smooth becasue he enjoys it so much. I wouldnt force it, as i dont with Angel, but since it is his preference anyway, I can certainly enjoy it. We have bought girly razors together and everything.

DV



hopelesslyInvo -> RE: hairy submissives and slaves (3/18/2008 12:12:16 AM)

it varies so much from person to person.  some people look good with hair in certain places, some people have different hair appearance (aside from color).  as much as i hate body hair, i think i look stupid if i get rid of it all, so i just got rid of most.

i don't have much hair to begin with, but i still didn't like what i had, so what i got rid of was dependent on both aesthetics and feel.  i would worry on both what i think and like as well as how i would present myself.



MasterFireMaam -> RE: hairy submissives and slaves (3/18/2008 1:59:02 AM)

I think the boy = hairless trend actually has history based in the gay leather community. However, even that community is branching out! Bears (hairy men) are no longer always Tops.

Don't worry about what everyone else likes. Look for what YOU want.

Master Fire



Sunnyfey -> RE: hairy submissives and slaves (3/18/2008 2:00:58 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Leatherist

And people say fireplay is useless. Really, no quicker way to get hairless-tho it does get a bit stinky.


so much better then waxing last weeks longer then shaveing..and the smell is irritateing...but man i think thats one of the biggest reason i like it besides it feels so cool



chezzy52 -> RE: hairy submissives and slaves (3/18/2008 2:43:41 AM)

What is hair??..LOL..I have a few curls if you will..hardly noticeable in the middle of my chest..outside of that..i think i have more hair growing out of my damn ear...which i trim of course as much as possible..rather unsightly.



MissLily -> RE: hairy submissives and slaves (3/18/2008 5:12:26 AM)

I like a hairy manly chest too. A man without any hair looks a bit odd.... But not TOO hairy. I don't do bears.... I hunt them, lol!

However, if he's a bit too hairy or everyonce in a while, having him straped on a table for a good wax job can be fairly amusing. lol, I mean, I just LOVE waxing a man! It's so funny! They whimper like girls!!!

LOL!!!!

Miss Lily



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