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Sandpaper Masturbation, Why! - 3/16/2008 7:30:14 PM   
Urza


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Status: offline 		    I'm a little confused and somewhat in pain.

I just masturbated with my hand covered in sandpaper.

Blood, Pimples on the head of the cock. The most horrid pain on the penis I've had.


Problem is, why oh dear god why, did I just get well and truly off on it! How intense.

Is this safe? Does anyone else do this?

Can I do it safer if it isn't?  

a sobbing but relieved urza.  


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RE: Sandpaper Masturbation, Why! - 3/16/2008 9:30:17 PM   
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Status: offline 		Urza,
I can't guess WHY you did it but I can guarantee you, you are not the first/only..lol.

I have heard of it before, many times. I can imagine what it does to the skin.

Maybe try something scratchy but a tad gentler, and less..mm.. sandy..like a rough sponge or something.


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RE: Sandpaper Masturbation, Why! - 3/16/2008 9:41:58 PM   
DefiantFlower


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Status: offline 		Why do people shove aeresol cans up their butts? Why do people feel the need to push spiky pipe cleaners into their urethras? It's a novelty. May not be healthy, but it's exciting and dangerous, and may possibly feel somewhat good. But I would definitely not keep doing that. Make sure to clean the area well, now and if you end up doing it again.

Perhaps try thinking about what made you get off on it? Was it the pain, the destruction, the pervertable? Maybe you could pin down the hot spot, and find a safer way of getting that same effect. The rough sponge thing might work. The whole "your kink is ok" thing applies here, but it doesn't sound very good for you or Mr. Blistered and Chafed.

Good Luck!

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RE: Sandpaper Masturbation, Why! - 3/16/2008 11:16:04 PM   
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Status: offline 		Ouch!  Watch for infection, please ...

Is this the first time you got off with pain involved?  I'd perhaps tone it down, find something less gritty to use next time and see if it feels as intense for you.  You may want to wait a few days, though....

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RE: Sandpaper Masturbation, Why! - 3/17/2008 7:01:46 AM   
Urza


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Status: offline 		Thanks everyone for the comments,

It's not the first kink I've got. I'm a young one and have been experimenting since early puberty. When I came of age I met a Pro-Domme and did housework for Her for sessions. I guess when that stopped i've been going solo, but the more years go by the more extreme it gets.

It's the morning, it's not gone septic but it hurts in the non erotic kind of way. However the rush of actually having done it was a big turn on.

I'm wondering how far it's going to go, I have a major nipple torture fetish, i started with clothes pegs. Now i'm on tightened clover clamps with heavy objects dangling from them. I'm wondering if people get like this, build up further and further their kinks until it's more shocking than kinky.

I'm a little worried to be honest. It damn well hurts like hell to masturbate now though.     


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RE: Sandpaper Masturbation, Why! - 3/17/2008 7:09:12 AM   
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Status: offline 		Make certain you clean your cock really, really well after this. Sandpaper sheds grit, and you want to make sure all the skin you removed is gone. Also, try to keep this infrequent- it seems like a great way to turn your cock into a mass of scars.

With kink, as with anything else, there's always a possibility of getting into increasingly extreme scenes. You might build up pain tolerance, or the novelty of what you were doing might wear off, or (not saying you are doing this) someone might just want to one-up everyone. It happens. Just know yourself and know why you are doing things. Something like jerking off with sandpaper shouldn't be a spur of the moment thing. Far too risky.

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RE: Sandpaper Masturbation, Why! - 3/17/2008 7:22:00 AM   
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Status: offline 		Resisting the urge to post the following............................Dip it in some iodine, make sure you are sitting down when you do this and then send me the voicemail of your screams.......Seriously, please dont do it again...not because I think you are a freak, far from it, but......its making my  parts cringe at the thought....I can understand intensity and yes building up tolerances to stuff others may find edgy or downright "bad pain" painful....but seriously, take care of it, of course that is unless you are into losing your boy parts.
Oh I was kidding about the suggestion above, Im just not feeling well and it makes me evil.
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RE: Sandpaper Masturbation, Why! - 3/17/2008 7:36:48 AM   
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Status: offline 		I like the suggestion of using a scrub pad (rough sponge). Anything you use, buy a sample one first, and go rub it back and forth across something - your table, cutting board, brick fireplace, something, to see how much it sheds. Find something that is rough enough for you but does not shed.
escalating is a problem with self torture. Get yourself to a munch, start meeting people. You, like me, and so many other subs, sound like you would be safer with some nice, sane Top directing your play.
Go to a doctor if it swells or does not get better. If you get to a point where it is keepign you from peeing, get to a doc or ER posthaste.
Good luck. Be good to yourself. Have fun.

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RE: Sandpaper Masturbation, Why! - 3/17/2008 7:47:07 AM   
Urza


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Status: offline 		Thanks everyone.

I agree it was a stupid thing to do, I'm probably going to try the scouring pad idea, the idea of my cock in crimson was a huge turn on at the time because of the shock. But yeah sanity should be placed over what gets me off.

Again thanks for the reply, I thought i'd get a bit of ridicule and some people going "You dick" or something but the support is nice.

Oh, Lucy. There wasn't much screaming, it was more the sobbing in the bathroom at the fact the pain hasn't gone away for 3 hours.

It's a dangerous chastity play too, because i can't touch my cock as it hurts so much, lol. (no i know i shouldn't be making a joke out of that!)


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RE: Sandpaper Masturbation, Why! - 3/17/2008 8:29:16 AM   
domahpet


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Status: offline 		Urdoc mentioned scars. Scars in cettain places
resrtict mobility. im just wondering if this issue
could cause a problem with achevieing
an erection?

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RE: Sandpaper Masturbation, Why! - 3/17/2008 10:08:58 AM   
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Status: offline 		I don't know about the mobility issue, but they'd kill alot of sensativity. I have abrasion scars from road rash due to a skating accident when I was younger, and they're alot less sensative than they should be.

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RE: Sandpaper Masturbation, Why! - 3/17/2008 3:03:15 PM   
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Status: offline 		I don't even have a cock and this thread is making me cringe.

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RE: Sandpaper Masturbation, Why! - 3/18/2008 12:43:53 AM   
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You just did abrasion play........doctors will freeeeak out at this sort of thing - not just because you need to take excellent care of your wounds - but by using objects like sandpaper, you can get all sorts of bacteria (and bits of sand!) in your wounds - you can't sterilize sandpaper.  Aaand then the subject goes into how much contact you have with others/spreading bacteria/staph infections..............
Careful!!!


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RE: Sandpaper Masturbation, Why! - 3/18/2008 5:38:57 PM   
Urza


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Status: offline 		Heh, two days later and i'm looking back and thinking.

Man i'm such a pleb for doing that.

The downstairs area is healed up though, and won't go through that again.     


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RE: Sandpaper Masturbation, Why! - 3/18/2008 5:44:48 PM   
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Status: offline 		There are conditions where scarring on or in the penis that cause "bent" penises.  Then to fix the problem surgery is needed. Now if you are into edge play you need to see this surgery. Essentially, the penis skin is skinned back to the testicals, and little "darts" ( a little sewing terminology) are taken in the tissue under the skin. Made me cringe and I don't have one!
As I understand it, the "bentness" causes pain during intercourse.

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RE: Sandpaper Masturbation, Why! - 3/18/2008 5:48:27 PM   
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Status: offline 		Im wondering how much of the sand from the sandpaper is under the apparently healed skin that will cause problems later .. and be spread to others upon penetration .. and as has been noted .. that cant be sterilized and can be a big health issue <sigh> talk about non consensual

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RE: Sandpaper Masturbation, Why! - 3/18/2008 6:37:48 PM   
Urza


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Status: offline 		Jesus, can i really transmit infection through sand on sandpaper?     

Is the human body's immune system that bad? :(  




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RE: Sandpaper Masturbation, Why! - 3/18/2008 6:38:59 PM   
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RE: Sandpaper Masturbation, Why! - 3/18/2008 6:41:15 PM   
Urza


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Status: offline 		:( Now I really am getting scared.

To be honest though, it was washed a lot, despite my whimpering.

How many other people do this, and how many others say they do, it's getting me worried


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RE: Sandpaper Masturbation, Why! - 3/18/2008 6:45:22 PM   
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Status: offline 		try exfoliating gloves next time.  Can still leave tender bits nice and, well...tender, but they were designed for use on the skin...

< Message edited by BossyShoeBitch -- 3/18/2008 7:24:59 PM >

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