tsatske
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Joined: 3/9/2007 From: Louisville, KY Status: offline
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I have to ask who's the dom in the relationship? To my way of thinking I decide when where what who I collar. Your post makes it sound like she has been begging for this for quite some time? SB, When it was clear that our relationship was progressing in that direction, i asked Master in plain English which He preferred - that a girl beg for a collar, or wait for one to be offered. Both dynamics are common, and both are used. He said He had no preference and things would progress naturally. Then He let me know that, for Him, a collar was a very separate thing from His contract, and being offered the opportunity to sign His contract would not necessarily mean i would be offered a collar. He told me that a contract with Him, if it would be offered, would be offered at the end of a 'trial weekend' together, distinct from other time we had spent together, a specific attempt by Him to show me what being His looked and felt like. He invited me for such a weekend, so i knew to expect the possibility, if i pleased Him, of being offered His contract on Sunday. By Saturday night, i knelt and begged Him for it. He is pleased that she begged to be His. i will say, however, that i would have accepted a no with grace, and would not have begged again, had i been told no. i signed His contract on Sat, and he collared me on that Sunday. He didn't exactly ask, or 'offer', either. Just walked up behind me and put it around my neck.
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