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LadyHibiscus -> RE: Dommes & penetration (12/11/2007 11:43:50 AM)

Your mom is really smart!

My mom is a virgin, she would never tell me anything like that...




thetammyjo -> RE: Dommes & penetration (12/11/2007 3:11:14 PM)


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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

Your mom is really smart!

My mom is a virgin, she would never tell me anything like that...


My parents are odd -- my mother was and still is to a degree very emotionally an psychologically abusive but she was also very straight forward about somethings and for that I'm grateful.




LadyChef -> RE: Dommes & penetration (12/11/2007 4:25:17 PM)

Imagine that! A little penetration from a real man and I'm getting satisfied? Hmmmm, let Me think...yes- I could live with Myself and still Dominate him while I'm doing it, mind, body and soul! [:D]




jdtallfem -> RE: Dommes & penetration (12/11/2007 5:08:52 PM)

I love it and when I came back to this scene I was amazed that there were so many subs/slaves who hadn't done it in years or who couldn't have vanilla sex, even if I would have ordered them to.  Some of the stories I've heard, alas....
As many Domme's have pointed out (and as I have told many) what difference does it make if I'm the one ordering them to do it?
But it seems to be hard to find a stud sub/slave, lol.





SweetDommes -> RE: Dommes & penetration (12/11/2007 5:53:48 PM)

I totally don't understand why so many have that mindset.  I LOVE sex ... why on earth would I want to deny myself that just because some dumbass told them along the way that it made me less dominant to like sex? 




unforegvn -> RE: Dommes & penetration (12/11/2007 6:13:22 PM)

I always fuck the cock I want - my pleasure is always priority




LadyHibiscus -> RE: Dommes & penetration (12/11/2007 7:39:10 PM)

I am so glad to hear so many of you agreeing with liking sex!  (did I say this already? sorry...)  So many subs seem to be into the oral "service" trip.  I HATE oral sex.  Who got the idea that it was some kind of service, anyway?  I want what I want, and that's what I expect from whoever is serving me--IF they are allowed physical contact with me at all.  I think that's why I have sex with tops and vanillas, so few sub males that I encounter have what it takes to interest me, let alone keep me pleased.




Wickad -> RE: Dommes & penetration (12/11/2007 7:54:54 PM)

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Greetings,

I am one of 'those Dominants' who doesn't like or allow sex with her slaves.  I am attached but by no means is 'my hole reserved for my partner'.  The very idea that I would agree to such a thing is insane. 

My partner and I have negotiated our relationship with what each of us is comfortable with the other doing.  I have great respect and love for my partner and thus would never want to hurt him with actions that are not necessary to fully express my dominance.  I do not believe that one needs to 'fuck' or 'be fucked' by someone in order to assert their dominance and thus I don't.  This of course may change as we change or, it may not change.  Who can say what the future holds.

This aside, I find that many women Dominants are seeking a full (ie: sexual, live-in, romantic, D/s, SM, etc) relationship with a submissive man.  Sex is part of living a lifestyle and as such I see no reason why anyone who lives a full and productive lifestyle (D/s or vanilla) would not want to include it.  For these women (which seems to be the majority) conventional sexual positions or D/s ones are all fair game and should be so.  After all, who are we to set limits on those who embrace a lifestyle choice that celebrates a woman's freedom and empowerment.

Wickad




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