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Your orientation - 3/29/2008 2:58:11 PM

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Did this WIITWD solidify, change or expand your sexual orientation? Does that impacy who may be your LTR selection versus a passing relationship?

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RE: Your orientation - 3/29/2008 3:03:21 PM

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I would have to say it solidified it. I'm straight. Always have been, always will. Believe it or not, this has been a disappointment to some. (For the laugh factor here, I'll say including My husband.)

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RE: Your orientation - 3/29/2008 3:04:35 PM

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My orientation has been solidly fixed for years, it would not change based on WIITWD.

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RE: Your orientation - 3/29/2008 3:08:37 PM

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It has not changed my orientation, which is straight. I will say, however, many years ago it played a role in cementing my acceptance of other people's orientations.

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RE: Your orientation - 3/29/2008 3:15:23 PM

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have been any orientation you can think of straight male, bi-male, gay male, sraight female,bi female, gay female and anything i left out.... but now am 100% lesbian.

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RE: Your orientation - 3/29/2008 3:57:34 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyHathor

Did this WIITWD solidify, change or expand your sexual orientation?

The two have nothing to do with each other.

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RE: Your orientation - 3/29/2008 4:31:15 PM

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Does that impact who may be your LTR selection versus a passing relationship?

Yes, and Yes.

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RE: Your orientation - 3/29/2008 4:37:55 PM

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It hasn't changed me as far as I can tell.... I am an equal opportunity sadist, and mostly into men for sex. But girls are better for everything else.

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RE: Your orientation - 3/29/2008 5:10:31 PM

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In terms of simple sexual orientation, I'm still straight. I never look at a woman and think "that's nice" and get turned on -- that can still happen with men for me.

However in terms of SM or Ds, I've had female subs and bottoms and I'd happily have another one. If something further developed, I'd be open to it.

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RE: Your orientation - 3/29/2008 5:41:46 PM

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it started to make more sense of things to me. i came to realize i am straight with basically 0% possibility of ever liking men or even appreciating them close to the same way i do women, but i also learned the reason i am so highly unattracted to them is not because of a penis, it's who it's attached to. =p

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RE: Your orientation - 3/29/2008 6:23:01 PM

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It hasn't changed my sexual orientation but it has made me more open to exploring options.

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RE: Your orientation - 3/29/2008 6:41:38 PM

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quote:

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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyHathor

Did this WIITWD solidify, change or expand your sexual orientation?

The two have nothing to do with each other.

~stef

No, they do not, however, it does open opportunities under a guise that might not be found in vanilla, based on that opening, one could feel a latent awakening.

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RE: Your orientation - 3/29/2008 7:22:46 PM

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I have found that it is mostly the males that seem to "find" that latent awakening.

I don't think I have ever met any women that were not bisexual and became bisexual based
on WIITWD.

It seems to be a mostly male latent "awakening". How many times have you heard "I will only do
THAT if you make me do THAT".
I would never do THAT on my own, ma'am.

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RE: Your orientation - 3/29/2008 8:16:09 PM

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have been any orientation you can think of straight male, bi-male, gay male, sraight female,bi female, gay female and anything i left out.... but now am 100% lesbian.

Not many people can claim all those titles, very cool

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RE: Your orientation - 3/30/2008 1:26:24 AM

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You may consider this bragging but i lived every man's fantasy at the ripe old age of 19.Not one not two but three women in bed at one time and of course they were all over each other as well.Then about 5 weeks later,i was introduced to BDSM by a Pro Domme for my 20th birthday and the latter continued on in a non-professional relationship as i was overly eager to be a part of this lifestyle.She of course was nothing more than a friend but she couldn't turn down someone who was so passionate about wanting to learn and know about this thing that was in the back of my mind for a long time but had no clue what it was.The nice thing is i am still learning..so to answer the question...how could i be anything else but straight after those two episodes in my life??Oh and to clarify...i am a one woman man.You lose perspective when you have three pairs of protuberances shaking in your face but at the time it happened you think...hey all that Hustler baloney is true.

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RE: Your orientation - 3/30/2008 2:59:06 AM

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It's expanded my orientation...or at least allowed me to recognize and explore it.

No, it won't impact the Master/slave long term relationships I have. Those are chosen on a spiritual, not sexual, base.

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RE: Your orientation - 3/30/2008 5:01:39 AM

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It's expanded my orientation...or at least allowed me to recognize and explore it.

No, it won't impact the Master/slave long term relationships I have. Those are chosen on a spiritual, not sexual, base.

Master Fire

These are just a few of the many reasons I admire you, your approach to this life ans your approach to life in general (from what you share here at least).

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RE: Your orientation - 3/30/2008 5:28:29 AM

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Men don't really squick me, sexually. Moreso, they just bore me. There are qualities found exclusively in women that I find more sexually fullfilling and intriguing. That being said, it just makes more sense for me to only be interested in females.

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RE: Your orientation - 3/30/2008 9:02:24 AM

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ORIGINAL: khem

quote:

ORIGINAL: faerytattoodgirl

have been any orientation you can think of straight male, bi-male, gay male, sraight female,bi female, gay female and anything i left out.... but now am 100% lesbian.

Not many people can claim all those titles, very cool

yes..it is a power of being intersexed...that i can do!

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RE: Your orientation - 3/30/2008 12:05:12 PM

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i'll chime in similarly...it's one of the things that's encouraged me to see my sexuality as more fluid and contextual.

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