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RE: Question for all?????????????? - 4/2/2008 7:43:12 AM

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gee .. i cant imagine

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RE: Question for all?????????????? - 4/2/2008 7:44:47 AM

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ORIGINAL: BIllCT

I offer good times and caring is all and fun. Mutual satisfaction I woul dhope and experience.

I dont know about others, but I can get good times and caring from friends and family. Satisfaction? Gimmie a few batteries and I am a happy lil kitten. See how easy it is for us to do what you say you can do? I'm not saying you have to offer the million dollar prize, but look into yourself. What are your strengths? What are you good at doing for others (other than the obvious)?

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RE: Question for all?????????????? - 4/2/2008 7:50:47 AM

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just look around.

Craig's list is far less discreet then what is allowed in papers or on most other sites (save BDSM specific sites). I've seen adds for NSA rape scenes, for people who wish to "abuse" and for those that wish to be "abuses" I've seen ads for just about everything and they are spelled out so there can be hardly any misunderstanding.

And I've seen ads with pictures attached showing just what the guy intends to offer the woman who responds.

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RE: Question for all?????????????? - 4/2/2008 7:54:45 AM

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If you're just looking for the occasional "no strings attached" submission thingy, where the submissive only does it on an ad hoc basis, you may well be finding it harder (huh...) than you wish. And think about it: it makes sense. I know of few submissives who go into this lightheartedly, so that they're unwilling to go with you just for the occasional kinky romp and bum whap with zero committment is not surprising. I'm sure you'll find your joy out there, but you might have to pay for it; if you don't want to do that, perhaps it's time to reconsider your options.

But that's just me and blah blah blah.

I agree with kittinSol.

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RE: Question for all?????????????? - 4/2/2008 7:59:51 AM

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Seems to me he has'nt looked at the list on CM of submissives in his state. I have written to some of them there for a while. So don't give me the whine that there are none there.

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RE: Question for all?????????????? - 4/2/2008 11:01:53 AM

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It just strikes me that this is the lazy way to advertise here, (feeling almost guilty) in these forums. Have you even looked at CraigsList yet? How about any of the other resources in CT? This is the third of such effortless adds youve posted TODAY. I think you could stand to do some actual research and work on your own instead of asking the forum to do it for you. Well actually your right, your not. What it seems like you are doing is just taking the easy way and posting your profile here. As I have not, and in truth probably wont, looked at your profile, and recall your recieving advice on restructuring it, I have no idea how much effort you are actually putting into your search.

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RE: Question for all?????????????? - 4/2/2008 11:17:28 AM

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Please consider this comment to be Frank (and Shirley) with compassion.

What folks are trying to say....

... is that you've just posted the BDSM equivalent of a Horny Net Geek's "How do I get laid?"

It's really a common question, and deserves an honest answer so that such fellows don't mistakenly attract women with false pretexts.

The easiest way I've found to meet a casual play partner is a vanilla bar. It's really not that complicated, but some common sense rules apply. Rule one matters most!

- Be ready! This is a competition! KittenSol is spot on; when it comes to casual relationships, it's a buyer's market and you're selling. If you're not getting your fix, it's because you're not getting ahead in the race.

- Be in shape, dress nice, smell nice, have your physical aspects completely addressed. This contributes to:

- Be confident! If you feel you should apologize for talking to a girl, you probably should and not have bothered her in the first place.

- Be friendly! If you come off desperate, annoying, or irritating, there's absolutely no reason for the girl to tolerate your company more than five minutes. If you genuinely approach the girl like you could be her friend, you have a much greater chance of being her friend. That's when the golden moment comes from "lets have coffee... wink" to "lets go to my place... wink."

- Be up front! If all you really want to do is tie her up and spank her, make sure she knows that within the first hour or so. If you don't tell her then, you make it into a big and creepy thing. If she knows about it up front, it may be even more enticing to her. If not, you cut the dead weight free, and move on.

- Be honest! Don't promise marriage and kids, just to get her in bed. Too many women want a fling to have to hurt those who don't.

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