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RE: Preference of color - 4/12/2008 10:05:04 AM

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Tell her you're white. When the two of you meet, no doubt she'll be taken aback and she'll be looking for an explanation. "World opinion is divided on the matter: I believe I am white; the rest of the world believes I am black" should suffice. Ultimately, you're not responsible for the whims of the rest of the world, so the two of you can only emerge from this discussion with her backing into her corner.

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The most brilliant post on the thread. Colour is a question of perception.

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RE: Preference of color - 4/12/2008 10:27:18 AM

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it's $2 ho - not hoe (in which you farm with)

so you're looking for a TWUE submissive - nice and that's your preference just as it's another's to prefer one color/race over the other.

My word is intended to be understood as written, I wouldnt insult a woman n call her names such as 'ho', which is sexually related and cheap. I said hoe, so she is to be an extra tool for achievements and to dig deep.

*graciously and lovingly thanks her Daddy for not thinking of His daugher as cheap gardening tool*

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RE: Preference of color - 4/12/2008 10:27:27 AM

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Thank Y/you all for Y/your feedback!

With all due respect, I don’t think like that and I think she needs some discipline, so she can pass that level of shallowness. she has to learn NOT to judge BDSM Masters by the shell They come in.

I don't think that's what it's about at all. You're making it into an issue of judgement, like she's judging black doms to be bad doms. When in fact it seems more like a physical preference, like preferring blondes or brunnettes.

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RE: Preference of color - 4/12/2008 10:41:40 AM

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I have a feeling unless you plan to teach the neighbors wife something that is all you are going to find.

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RE: Preference of color - 4/12/2008 10:49:45 AM

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This is really funny!!!

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RE: Preference of color - 4/12/2008 11:16:25 AM

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You're making it into an issue of judgement, like she's judging black doms to be bad doms.

I tend to agree with this statement, although CM1 didn't say her profile said she didn't like black or varying shades of brown, just that she seeks white. If she made some grand, sweeping statement that all _____ Dom/sub/whatever stink at being a Dom/sub/whatever, then maybe there'd be reason for getting ones feathers ruffled at the fact that someone is so dense. I don't think she has done that, and it still seems to have gotten into his craw.

BTW, I think that many of us are of the mindset that submissive types are not under some obligation to be deferential or stand eyes downcast at any and all Dominant types. In my world, you may be Dominant, but you are not my Dominant, and until that changes, you be treated as my equal, respected as a human being I share the earth with, but nothing more. In the same regard, submissives are not expected to be deferential to my Dominant side unless we "take it there." I only expect to be treated with the same kindness and respect that I give. I do not call other D-type men "Sir" because it makes me want to giggle as they are not mine. That is a lovely title best reserved for the one who gives her/himself to that person.

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RE: Preference of color - 4/12/2008 11:29:39 AM

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You're making it into an issue of judgement, like she's judging black doms to be bad doms.

I tend to agree with this statement, although CM1 didn't say her profile said she didn't like black or varying shades of brown, just that she seeks white. If she made some grand, sweeping statement that all _____ Dom/sub/whatever stink at being a Dom/sub/whatever, then maybe there'd be reason for getting ones feathers ruffled at the fact that someone is so dense. I don't think she has done that, and it still seems to have gotten into his craw.

BTW, I think that many of us are of the mindset that submissive types are not under some obligation to be deferential or stand eyes downcast at any and all Dominant types. In my world, you may be Dominant, but you are not my Dominant, and until that changes, you be treated as my equal, respected as a human being I share the earth with, but nothing more. In the same regard, submissives are not expected to be deferential to my Dominant side unless we "take it there." I only expect to be treated with the same kindness and respect that I give. I do not call other D-type men "Sir" because it makes me want to giggle as they are not mine. That is a lovely title best reserved for the one who gives her/himself to that person.

brilliantly said, you sexy bundle of womanliness!!

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RE: Preference of color - 4/12/2008 11:33:59 AM

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I don't think that's what it's about at all. You're making it into an issue of judgement, like she's judging black doms to be bad doms. When in fact it seems more like a physical preference, like preferring blondes or brunnettes.

i have to say i agree completely with this.. i personally have a preference for white men, is that racist? no.. If it is.. then i guess my preference for tall men makes me biased against the shorter Dom's. If i was seeking and connected well with a black or indeed short Dom, my preference wouldn't stand in the way, for others these things are more rigid.. But thats just about what we seek personally, not a reflection of how we view those that fall outside of that box..
i have been accused of racism myself by a black Dom in the past whom i rejected & certainly not because of His colour.. frankly i found it hurtful.. i have no problem with people of any race, this guy just had a bad attitude towards women.
As was said earlier in the thread.. a chip on the shoulder is not attractive in any colour.

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RE: Preference of color - 4/12/2008 11:38:52 AM

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GT, you make me blush you smiling bunch of yumminess!

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RE: Preference of color - 4/12/2008 1:00:20 PM

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*blink*

ok.
I'm sure that made sense to SOMEONE.... *shrug*

Well I wouldn't be too confident on that GT.

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RE: Preference of color - 4/12/2008 1:27:39 PM

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*blink*

ok.
I'm sure that made sense to SOMEONE.... *shrug*

Well I wouldn't be too confident on that GT.

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RE: Preference of color - 4/12/2008 1:38:22 PM

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Well, "brother", apparently ignorance isn't bias. Perhaps what you need is a female Dom to teach you a little humility. I'm sure some of the ladies here wouldn't mind helping you on your path of learning and understanding.

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RE: Preference of color - 4/12/2008 1:39:14 PM

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Well, "brother", apparently ignorance isn't bias. Perhaps what you need is a female Dom to teach you a little humility. I'm sure some of the ladies here wouldn't mind helping you on your path of learning and understanding.

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RE: Preference of color - 4/12/2008 3:19:33 PM

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actually black and white are not colors (besides the computer generated colors)
so..that ends the issue

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RE: Preference of color - 4/12/2008 3:41:50 PM

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Well, "brother", apparently ignorance isn't bias. Perhaps what you need is a female Dom to teach you a little humility. I'm sure some of the ladies here wouldn't mind helping you on your path of learning and understanding.

There are a few female subs who wouldn't mind helping out on that, too.

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RE: Preference of color - 4/12/2008 4:02:24 PM

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Well, "brother", apparently ignorance isn't bias. Perhaps what you need is a female Dom to teach you a little humility. I'm sure some of the ladies here wouldn't mind helping you on your path of learning and understanding.

Thank you. i have to agree with you, and was wondering if that was not his initial intent. as a former interrogator type, i found that he would have been the first interview.
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RE: Preference of color - 4/12/2008 6:44:14 PM

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More than anything, I believe this thread is a cry for attention.

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RE: Preference of color - 4/12/2008 6:49:16 PM

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We need a chest beating emoticon.

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RE: Preference of color - 4/12/2008 6:52:58 PM

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yea thats so true because the opening poster is being a winey baby and needs to be made a slave to someone till he learns. AND Sir is right and all he says here.
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RE: Preference of color - 4/12/2008 7:03:51 PM

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We need a chest beating emoticon.

Would you settle for a hissy-fit?

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