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ChemistryMaster1 -> Preference of color (4/10/2008 6:45:09 PM)
Greetings E/everyone, I started reading a profile n stopped!! she is looking for a White Master. I believe BDSM Master is a Master due to His experience Not His Color.!! W/what Y/you think?

xxblushesxx -> RE: Preference of color (4/10/2008 6:52:27 PM)
There are also many who specify a preference for a black dom(me). I guess you have to go with what you're attracted to. I, personally, don't put my preferences as to weight, age, or colour up, but some do. It does seem a flimsy thing to base a preference on, but, at least she didn't waste your time, and then you find out later that you're just really not 'her type'.

OmegaG -> RE: Preference of color (4/10/2008 6:58:14 PM)
it's a preference, she's entitled.

OmegaG -> RE: Preference of color (4/10/2008 6:59:32 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: xxblushesxx There are also many who specify a preference for a black dom(me). I guess you have to go with what you're attracted to. I, personally, don't put my preferences as to weight, age, or colour up, but some do. It does seem a flimsy thing to base a preference on, but, at least she didn't waste your time, and then you find out later that you're just really not 'her type'. I have alot of preferences as well, but I found that it cuts down on the hate mail of I keep them to myself.

HornyToadsMI -> RE: Preference of color (4/10/2008 7:00:39 PM)
for me, it doesnt matter. But for some, it is still a hang up. It would be a great way to stretch a comfort level for some.....

midgetmafiosa -> RE: Preference of color (4/10/2008 7:05:45 PM)
i put weight and age screeners on mine. that's all. it filters out some chaff for me.

laura2161 -> RE: Preference of color (4/10/2008 7:07:35 PM)
I agree,It's her preference. I state my preference in my profile. I have my reasons (and no its not about the size of someone's penis) and as long as someone doesnt get all beligerent on me I am happy to explain my reasons on a one to one basis. Do I get nasty hatemail because of it? Yes I sure do but that just shows me that I surely would not want to be with that perseon anyway. Some prefer blond hair and blue eyes; Whatever floats your boat.

LadyPact -> RE: Preference of color (4/10/2008 7:09:32 PM)
Yep, it's a preference, just like some have a preference for a Domme under 35. It comes down to something I say a lot. Not everyone is a good match for everybody else.

lronitulstahp -> RE: Preference of color (4/10/2008 7:17:41 PM)
quote: W/what Y/you think? i think we should stick to caps and lowercased letters at appropriate times... i also think, if a person has a preference, it's their own business. Now, i'll take a purple black or a lily white Dominant...just ake him all the things i mentally and emotionally crave....but i try not to judge what gets anyone off. i mean, it's pretty hard to play "Sally and Thomas" with a black Dom...and if that's what takes you over the moon...you gotta have it. ~Hemings slut(from time to time)

Missokyst -> RE: Preference of color (4/10/2008 7:20:10 PM)
I think she has a right to like what she likes. Most people are together for more reasons than just bdsm. I know I like to have things in common, a similar intellect, and a few other regular life requirements in men I choose. And as it happens, I have always dated anglo men, even though I am hispanic and french. So sue me. I also have an aversion to people who use slashy speak. Kyst

peppermint -> RE: Preference of color (4/10/2008 7:37:42 PM)
Some prefer blonds...others red heads. Some are only turned on by dark brown eyes. I love long hair, while others think bald is beautiful. Others are attracted to those who are heavy set while some only consider HWP. It's a preference. I wouldn't consider a Master in his 20s but that doesn't mean that a Master can't be 27. She didn't say that only white men can be Masters. She said she wants a white Master and it seems she knows what she wants.

Leatherist -> RE: Preference of color (4/10/2008 7:39:26 PM)
Dude, people want what they want. pc is an abstract, not a reality-get over it.

TwistedLeather -> RE: Preference of color (4/10/2008 7:39:35 PM)
we like what we don't, we don't what we don't. Is it any different for someone to prefer someone who's tall and skinny to someone who's short and husky? How about those who are attracted to blondes but put off by brunettes? Some preferences can be explained, and some can't. But it doesn't matter. It's not right or wrong even if it may appear racist, sexist, or other prejudicial. It just IS what it IS. Some people are turned off by my looks, some are drawn to it. Some people adore my appearance of innocense and others think it's not suiting for someone in my place. i don't take offense at it. i just let it go and realize that person isn't the right match for me.

OsideGirl -> RE: Preference of color (4/10/2008 7:44:01 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ChemistryMaster1 W/what Y/you think? I think everyone has a type that they're attracted to, and they have the right to persue that. I'm sure you've asked women for their photos, so you could tell if they were attractive to you. So, you're not any better.

charmdpetKeira -> RE: Preference of color (4/10/2008 7:57:12 PM)
I prefer teal, but I am flexible in the matter. Oh wait; not teal, anything but teal.... please. As for what makes a master, that depends on how the term is being used. Other then in a reference to ownership; to me, it is not only about knowledge and experience, but the ability to put the two together in the most productive manner possible; or somthing like that. What do I think; you are taking it too personal. k

bipolarber -> RE: Preference of color (4/10/2008 7:58:50 PM)
If I have my preference, I'd be dating Bettie Page clones exclusively. It's an interesting question... if you like a different race, is it really racisim? (More like a fetish for Xenophiles.)

GreedyTop -> RE: Preference of color (4/10/2008 7:59:56 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: bipolarber If I have my preference, I'd be dating Bettie Page clones exclusively. yummmmmmmmmmmmmmmy :)

Leatherist -> RE: Preference of color (4/10/2008 8:01:28 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: GreedyTop quote: ORIGINAL: bipolarber If I have my preference, I'd be dating Bettie Page clones exclusively. yummmmmmmmmmmmmmmy :) I'd want a mix of betty and lucy lawless-I'm greedier than thou. [:D]

DesFIP -> RE: Preference of color (4/10/2008 8:01:52 PM)
Maybe she hasn't had good experiences in interracial dating before. If someone wants a Catholic or a Buddhist or an Asian or whatever, that's because they get along best with people of the preferred religion, ethnicity, background, etc. No different than not being turned on by short guys, or skinny girls. There's more to a relationship than just scening. You need what you need. And if that means college educated, it doesn't mean you despise people who don't have that degree, just that you know yourself to get along best with people with that background.

kallisto -> RE: Preference of color (4/10/2008 8:02:57 PM)
I think the OP is making a big deal out of nothing. It's a preference and everyone is entitled to their preferences.

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