RavenMuse
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OK I'm not a switch, but this question caught My eye and is something I covered a number of years ago when I Owned a switch. I only ever saw/felt her submissive side. I percieved her as a sub with slave tendencys who enjoyed topping... but as I got her to understand that didn't mean that was who she was... just what My perception of her was because of the way WE interacted. I drew her submission so of course that was to the fore and would be what I saw of her. After that conversation she begged for and got permission to take on a pet of her Own. Now he only ever felt her Dominant side, he percived her as a Domme who, for some strange reason that he couldn't fathom, submitted to a Master. But again it didn't matter and didn't change who SHE was, it was another matter of perspective. she was My Owned girl, she was his Mistress, neither caused conflict.... she was just her and it worked. Each relationship functioned within its Own perameters. OP: you seem to be saying that you are not a switch any more because someone ELSE said so..... what do YOU feel inside yourself? What is YOUR perspecive of you?
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This above all: to thine own self be true, And it must follow, as the night the day, Thou canst not then be false to any man. Owner of metalmiss
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