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RE: why is it - 4/23/2008 10:56:26 AM

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ORIGINAL: SteelofUtah

Because those types of Doms know that if you shop around. Even on the Bottom shelf Dom's you'll find something better and they are aware of thier own shortcomings.

You will learn that the behavior is common among LongDongDom's who want you to believe thier every word without question.

Ignore, Block, Delete. (God Damnit Now they got ME saying it)

Steel

Yea! but its so much sexier coming from a Dom'ly Dom like you

Oh God Dom'ly Dom.... does this mean I have to start beating my chest and making orders for girls to on thier knees and service my Magnificient Cock?

Cause if that is what it means I think I have to stop playing cause I doubt I got get past the first few seconds without breaking out in fits of Laughter over how stupid I must sound.

........I am curious if you were being serious or not. Cause I really hope I don't present myself as a Dom'ly Dom type. That would be disheartening.

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RE: why is it - 4/23/2008 10:58:45 AM

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Is persuming the same as assuming? The dammed English left us with a screwed up language. OP you have'nt meet anyone in 2 days. Wow that's unheard of in here. You should ask these people for help.

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RE: why is it - 4/23/2008 11:20:13 AM

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Yea! but its so much sexier coming from a Dom'ly Dom like you

Oh God Dom'ly Dom.... does this mean I have to start beating my chest and making orders for girls to on thier knees and service my Magnificient Cock?

Steel sweetie, just forbid her from looking at you and she'll never know if you're laughing whilst you're strutting back and forth. All she will know is that you're stomping about.

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RE: why is it - 4/23/2008 11:27:02 AM

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When I am faced with a miscellaneous 'Submit, bitch' message, I usually respond with one of three standardized responses.
"Not on the first date."
"I'm sorry, I don't speak 'jackass'. Rephrase and try again."
"No thanks, my mom got scared and said 'You're moving with your auntie and uncle in Bel Air'."

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RE: why is it - 4/23/2008 12:58:33 PM

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Can anyone answer this.

Why is it when someone has that they are a slave in thier profile, everyone thinks that you must automatically submit to them, and its wrong for you to "shop around".

There are many people (and, yes, it seems to be mostly men who think this way) who think that this lifestyle is a way to get laid without having to work at it. I guess the thought process is like, "Hey, if I just call Myself a Master, any subby-gal within earshot will have to fall down on her knees for Me--

--and I won't have to pay for dinner, buy flowers, brush My teeth (or actually converse with her--way too scary!) beforehand (or phone her after--way more scary!)

It doesn't actually work this way, of course. If anything, a D/s relationship is more demanding, requires more thought, much more attention to detail, and greater discipline--on the part of the Dom/Domme!--than the average 'vanilla' dating relationship.

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RE: why is it - 4/23/2008 1:22:21 PM

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Ive been here longer then 2 days. But due to circumstances i had to change my online name to protect myself.

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RE: why is it - 4/24/2008 1:34:02 AM

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Steer clear of the "trekkies" Guys who give themselves Sir Lord, whatever nnicknames, and try to sound above human. These are the guys who play D and D, live in moms basement, and take the terminology way too seriously. You should do fine

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RE: why is it - 4/24/2008 3:04:35 AM

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I know one with his self given "Master Asshole" name airbrushed on his car. How insecure is that?

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RE: why is it - 4/24/2008 3:28:00 AM

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I had one of these who was emailing, YELLING at me all night tonight, I'm not sure what for. He was stomping around seething because I'd deleted an email without reading it! oooohhhhh! Was I gonna get it! from a stranger a thousand miles away!
What you do here is just give as good as you get, actually give better for a few rounds of mail- and just as they hit Tasmanian Devil lift off speed block them. Mean, but isn't it satisfying...

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RE: why is it - 4/24/2008 3:29:50 AM

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ORIGINAL: SteelofUtah

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ORIGINAL: LilMissHaven

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ORIGINAL: SteelofUtah

Because those types of Doms know that if you shop around. Even on the Bottom shelf Dom's you'll find something better and they are aware of thier own shortcomings.

You will learn that the behavior is common among LongDongDom's who want you to believe thier every word without question.

Ignore, Block, Delete. (God Damnit Now they got ME saying it)

Steel

Yea! but its so much sexier coming from a Dom'ly Dom like you

Oh God Dom'ly Dom.... does this mean I have to start beating my chest and making orders for girls to on thier knees and service my Magnificient Cock?

Cause if that is what it means I think I have to stop playing cause I doubt I got get past the first few seconds without breaking out in fits of Laughter over how stupid I must sound.

........I am curious if you were being serious or not. Cause I really hope I don't present myself as a Dom'ly Dom type. That would be disheartening.

Steel

Haha!! too cute, you are the last person I'd accuse of being one of those Dom'ly Dom types thats what made it so funny.

*hugs*
Haven

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RE: why is it - 4/24/2008 4:13:59 AM

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ORIGINAL: domsoldier

Steer clear of the "trekkies" Guys who give themselves Sir Lord, whatever nnicknames, and try to sound above human. These are the guys who play D and D, live in moms basement, and take the terminology way too seriously. You should do fine

EXCUSE ME!!! Some of us here are trekkies. When I say us, I mean them of course. Cuz I'm not a trekkie. No way, no how. I meant "them", you know.

has anyone got the details for the next convention please?

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RE: why is it - 4/24/2008 5:42:59 AM

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thank you couldn't of said it better. Resume's to the front of the class..

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RE: why is it - 4/24/2008 5:46:16 AM

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ORIGINAL: shykitty1
Why is it when someone has that they are a slave in thier profile, everyone thinks that you must automatically submit to them, and its wrong for you to "shop around".

Because it is not 'everyone' and those mailing with that attitude obvious in the first mail are doing you a favour.... in ruling themselves out nice and early so you can block/delete and not waste your time.

Bottom line, it doesn't matter if you are sub or slave, until you submit then you owe no-one anything.

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RE: why is it - 4/24/2008 5:49:38 AM

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Im trying to beam MM up.

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RE: why is it - 4/24/2008 9:24:45 AM

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ORIGINAL: deliciousmorsel
What you do here is just give as good as you get, actually give better for a few rounds of mail- and just as they hit Tasmanian Devil lift off speed block them. Mean, but isn't it satisfying...

Oooh, morsel, you do have lovely wicked ideas!

pip, rubbing hands and chuckling devilishly

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RE: why is it - 4/25/2008 5:24:13 AM

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Maybe for the same reason that when a Domme says that she is looking for a sub that almost every response that she gets assumes that she is automatically interested in him and that she should jump right into a session. : ) Sometimes people tend to move too fast, especially on the internet.

You do not have to obey anyone that has not earned your trust, just like I do not have to command anyone who comes to me believing that they completely understand what they want.

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RE: why is it - 4/25/2008 12:26:55 PM

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ORIGINAL: shykitty1
Ive been here longer then 2 days. But due to circumstances i had to change my online name to protect myself.

Sweeping judgmental statements and changing identities might be a sign you need to look inward at how you are conducting your contact with people. Maybe you can do something to improve the quality of your communication to prevent “hiding” or needing to “protect” your identity.

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RE: why is it - 4/25/2008 1:24:30 PM

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why? because they wish you to be blinded by their domliness and accept them as the twue master they believe they are. ignore, block, move along.
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RE: why is it - 4/25/2008 7:50:48 PM

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Just remember you too can vote!!!! and use those feet to Run, not walk, away.

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RE: why is it - 5/3/2008 7:40:30 PM

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ORIGINAL: shykitty1

Can anyone answer this.

Why is it when someone has that they are a slave in thier profile, everyone thinks that you must automatically submit to them, and its wrong for you to "shop around".

Not everyone!

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