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RE: SEX: What's the longest you've gone without it? - 4/28/2008 4:12:54 AM   
MRandme


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for me, four years...

my (soon to be ex-) hubby is in jail and i was faithful to him, as i had been for the entire 18 years we had been married. i did not find my Master until a few months after i told the SOB that i wanted a divorce, so that was the entire four years he had been in jail that i went without.

And to be truthful it was not the lack of sex that bothered me, it was the lack of intimacy and simple things like cuddling, a kiss on the forehead or temple, being able to caress or massage. i am a very affectionate person and not being able to express that part of me was like shriveling inside. 

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RE: SEX: What's the longest you've gone without it? - 4/28/2008 4:15:09 AM   
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I have never gone longer than 3 months without sex.When I was married I had sex maybe 5 times a year. This is defined as a sexless marriage. It was boring when it did happen. I am much happier and fulfilled now.

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RE: SEX: What's the longest you've gone without it? - 4/28/2008 4:36:49 AM   
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I am gettin' some TODAYYYYYYY (yeah i just like that pineapple lol) YAYYYYY camille is gettin SEX, makin WHOOPIE, n stuff. 

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RE: SEX: What's the longest you've gone without it? - 4/28/2008 4:40:54 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist

Adrenaline needle.. kisses, sex, death… sounds like the making of a male multiple orgasm. … that’s better than some have while a live.

Your extreme consideration speaks well of you and those that have trained & owned you.


i'm trying to decide if this is sarcasm.....

but if it comes with sweet potato pie and corn on the cob, i'm willing to bear with it if it IS sarcasm!

< Message edited by KMsAngel -- 4/28/2008 4:43:24 AM >


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RE: SEX: What's the longest you've gone without it? - 4/28/2008 4:45:15 AM   
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Two years. Casual, meaningless sex doesn't satisfy me any more than masturbation does. When it's over all that's left to do is clean up the mess and wonder what else I could've done with that time.

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RE: SEX: What's the longest you've gone without it? - 4/28/2008 5:31:41 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19

I have never gone longer than 3 months without sex.When I was married I had sex maybe 5 times a year. This is defined as a sexless marriage. It was boring when it did happen. I am much happier and fulfilled now.


poor thing!  i would have died if i had to have sex that many times a year when i was married!  rofl

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RE: SEX: What's the longest you've gone without it? - 4/28/2008 6:19:42 AM   
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Went without for over one year. Lost that lovin feeling?????


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RE: SEX: What's the longest you've gone without it? - 4/28/2008 8:10:47 AM   
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About 9 weeks, between relationships after a bad break and not in the mood to indulge Myself with playpartners at the time.

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RE: SEX: What's the longest you've gone without it? - 4/28/2008 8:14:16 AM   
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Probally about 3 months but didn't notice much as I was busy keeping my head down from flying lead..lol

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RE: SEX: What's the longest you've gone without it? - 4/28/2008 10:18:40 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: camille65

I am gettin' some TODAYYYYYYY (yeah i just like that pineapple lol) YAYYYYY camille is gettin SEX, makin WHOOPIE, n stuff. 


if we were together sex would be ..um...non.....stop. 

vrooooooooooooooooooooom



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RE: SEX: What's the longest you've gone without it? - 4/28/2008 11:47:03 AM   
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Surprising how one forgets - I was thinking sheesh, two weeks feels a long time these days and then Christine's note reminded me what I'd actually more or less forgotten - more or less the same story kid and the same "never realized i had gone that long". 

So I suppose the good thing is bad things don't last forever.

Smoking helps too  


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ORIGINAL: christine1

the last 7 years of my marriage we didn't even sleep in the same room together and i didn't mess around on the side.  then there was the divorce and i went on for another year after that so the longest was 8 years.  wow, i never realized i had gone that long.

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RE: SEX: What's the longest you've gone without it? - 4/28/2008 11:52:52 AM   
PanthersMom


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about a year.  medical problems can be a pain in the butt and interfere more than you think.  thank goodness it's better now!
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RE: SEX: What's the longest you've gone without it? - 4/28/2008 11:54:56 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: AcademyForSlaves

What's the longest you've gone without SEX?

And why?


does sex require actually having 2 people in the room?  if so, its been since september of 06....if solitare counts, never more than a couple of days.....

edited to add the why......them that wanna dew me make me run like hell, and them i would dew run like hell from me......but i got high hopes-lol

thats halfway joking....actually, i just havent made finding someone a priority......maybe some day soon.  i keep hoping to have a lover fall in my lap like the last one did.

< Message edited by SeeksOnlyOne -- 4/28/2008 11:57:05 AM >


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RE: SEX: What's the longest you've gone without it? - 4/28/2008 11:59:28 AM   
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depends on how you define sex.
 
if you define it as ONLY intercourse involving a penis and a vagina...the first 15 years of this slave's life was the longest she went without it...after that, maybe 6 months---two times, over the last 26 years.
 
if participating in hand jobs, oral, anal, consensual frottage and/or masturbation with or without climaxing to an orgasm counts as "sex", then, the first 5 years of this slave's life would be the longest she went without some sort of sexually driven stimulation resulting in gratification with or without orgasm.
 
and no, she wasn't molested by anyone, prior to turning 15.

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RE: SEX: What's the longest you've gone without it? - 4/28/2008 12:04:34 PM   
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What time is it?

(bah dum dum)

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RE: SEX: What's the longest you've gone without it? - 4/28/2008 12:07:57 PM   
MasterRenegade77


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Four years & two+ months...
Because there are no slaves in My vicinity that are not taken or good enough for Me!!!


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RE: SEX: What's the longest you've gone without it? - 4/28/2008 12:11:15 PM   
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I was celibate for 7 years.....divorced my ex, got burned once, and then just didn't find anyone worth getting nekkid for......I had offers, but they were married, and quite frankly, I don't really need sex alot.  I was just at a point in my life where I was so tired of the dance that I chose to sit it out.  I had my son, worked all sorts of screwy hours at my job, my priorities were more centered on my son than myself. 

What sucked was that the first relationship I got into after the 7 years ended up the same way my first one did after the divorce......we were planning a wedding, unfortunately, HE was planning on marrying someone else!  Bastard.....so I doubt I will EVER think, speak about or consider marriage again.  Besides, I like my independence.

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RE: SEX: What's the longest you've gone without it? - 4/28/2008 12:11:50 PM   
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A year, 8 months, and 3 days.  It was hell...lol

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RE: SEX: What's the longest you've gone without it? - 4/28/2008 12:22:52 PM   
LadyHibiscus


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Seven plus years of glorious celibacy!  I decided to have some sex again last fall, but then tax season got in the way of any more.  Meh.  The best sex you can ever have is with yourself!

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RE: SEX: What's the longest you've gone without it? - 4/28/2008 12:31:50 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: KMsAngel
quote:

ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist
Adrenaline needle.. kisses, sex, death… sounds like the making of a male multiple orgasm. … that’s better than some have while a live.
Your extreme consideration speaks well of you and those that have trained & owned you.

i'm trying to decide if this is .....
but if it comes with sweet potato pie and corn on the cob, i'm willing to bear with it if it IS sarcasm!


<--- Not sarcasm.  Was being more formal because your screen name denoted ownership.  Sincere guy, has sweet potato pie and corn on the cob for you anyway.

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