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RE: MASTERS SEXUAL PLEASURE.... - 4/30/2008 1:47:55 PM   
CalifChick


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Gently there, subtee, gently.

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RE: MASTERS SEXUAL PLEASURE.... - 4/30/2008 1:49:07 PM   
CalifChick


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Dnomyar

Cali stay submissive. That would please me. I need to learn how to will over someone. Everytime I ask someone if they will they tell me to get lost.


There's your problem hon. You're asking.

Cali


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RE: MASTERS SEXUAL PLEASURE.... - 4/30/2008 2:15:12 PM   
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ORIGINAL: subtee

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ORIGINAL: lubegirl

HIS pleasure is all that matters now because when HE is happy everything is better and i am happy.
[snip]


Hang on here...so what you're saying is HIS pleasure is what matters? In your D/s relationship? And that pleases you? Huh...


I don't understand the confusion...

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but it needed to be at least.... four times bigger.


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RE: MASTERS SEXUAL PLEASURE.... - 4/30/2008 2:21:45 PM   
CalifChick


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She was being a wee bit sarcastic.

Cali


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RE: MASTERS SEXUAL PLEASURE.... - 4/30/2008 2:31:40 PM   
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o for me, slave! and again! o at my command!


.....you are in my sexual power......


*waves hands in the air like jimmy page playing the theremin*


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RE: MASTERS SEXUAL PLEASURE.... - 4/30/2008 2:49:22 PM   
subtee


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ORIGINAL: CalifChick

She was being a wee bit sarcastic.

Cali



You so get me.

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RE: MASTERS SEXUAL PLEASURE.... - 4/30/2008 4:57:00 PM   
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ORIGINAL: tigerstyle

o for me, slave! and again! o at my command!


.....you are in my sexual power......


*waves hands in the air like jimmy page playing the theremin*



you musta been talkin to Daddy.  *giggling*

kitten

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RE: MASTERS SEXUAL PLEASURE.... - 4/30/2008 5:49:37 PM   
kallisto


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ORIGINAL: CalifChick

Seriously?  You sound so surprised.  If it wasn't about someone else's pleasure, I wouldn't be submissive.

Cali



Exactly right, Cali.  

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RE: MASTERS SEXUAL PLEASURE.... - 4/30/2008 6:52:55 PM   
abcbsex


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ORIGINAL: subtee

quote:

ORIGINAL: CalifChick

She was being a wee bit sarcastic.

Cali



You so get me.


oh durr. sorry! and I'm usually a sarcasm sponge! I'm finally getting this blonde thing I guess.


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RE: MASTERS SEXUAL PLEASURE.... - 4/30/2008 6:58:13 PM   
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hehe guess I am not submissive then cause it's never been about his pleasure soley it's been about OURS combined* grins* Course I do tell james all the time I am a switch I never said I was submissive:)
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ORIGINAL: CalifChick

Seriously?  You sound so surprised.  If it wasn't about someone else's pleasure, I wouldn't be submissive.

Cali


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RE: MASTERS SEXUAL PLEASURE.... - 4/30/2008 8:14:03 PM   
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ORIGINAL: YourhandMyAss

hehe guess I am not submissive then cause it's never been about his pleasure soley it's been about OURS combined* grins* Course I do tell james all the time I am a switch I never said I was submissive:)
quote:

ORIGINAL: CalifChick

Seriously?  You sound so surprised.  If it wasn't about someone else's pleasure, I wouldn't be submissive.

Cali




OMG you arent "twue" then!

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RE: MASTERS SEXUAL PLEASURE.... - 4/30/2008 8:18:04 PM   
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ORIGINAL: YourhandMyAss

hehe guess I am not submissive then cause it's never been about his pleasure soley it's been about OURS combined* grins* Course I do tell james all the time I am a switch I never said I was submissive:)

Well, i know i'm not a 'switch' because, as my Master always says, there isn't a Dominant bone in my body.  But, i'm also not falling under the "it's all for His pleasure" category of submissiveness. 

The relationship that i have with my Master is based on the fact that He has needs and desires that i am willing, able, and eager to satisfy and i have needs and desires that are satisfied by being with Him.  There's nothing 'selfless' about what i do for my Master.  i don't serve without any expectation of recieving a benefit in return.  If my needs weren't being met, i wouldn't be here.

 
Being told what to do by my Master and giving Him what He wants when He wants it and how He wants it and knowing that i'm fulfilling a purpose in His life and helping to make His life more enjoyable, easier, and more satisfying gives me a very good feeling.  But, my fantasies are still my fantasies and my needs are still important and there is a balance between taking care of my Master's needs and meeting my own needs. 
 
He has my loyalty, my fidelity, and my obedient service for as long as He wants it.  But, if ever a time came that my needs were not being met in this relationship, i would have to consider making a change, including the possibility of leaving.  And, knowing that my Master cares about me and wants me to be happy, if i told Him i wanted to leave, He would help me to find a new place to call home.  Actually, i feel like i don't do enough for my Master.  He gives me so much and i feel very indebted to Him.
 
joy
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RE: MASTERS SEXUAL PLEASURE.... - 4/30/2008 8:23:11 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: tigerstyle

o for me, slave! and again! o at my command!


.....you are in my sexual power......


*waves hands in the air like jimmy page playing the theremin*



*snort*


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RE: MASTERS SEXUAL PLEASURE.... - 4/30/2008 9:07:44 PM   
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I do that with my mom, and my vanilla partner, and my nephews, and myself. 

For me it's a symptom of love.  What they want for their lives, I want for them.  That's what love is to me- encouraging them to experience who they are and what they want for themselves.  It's part of why I'm such a good present giver, I really can just step outside and know what THEY want fulfilled for themselves.

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RE: MASTERS SEXUAL PLEASURE.... - 4/30/2008 9:16:29 PM   
CalifChick


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Joy, I think you're reading more into it than was intended.  We were expressing surprise that the OP was shocked that she enjoyed it when her Master was pleased. 

Nobody said that our own needs aren't being met, won't be met, etc. 

Cali


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RE: MASTERS SEXUAL PLEASURE.... - 5/1/2008 2:40:41 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross
For me it's a symptom of love.  What they want for their lives, I want for them.  That's what love is to me- encouraging them to experience who they are and what they want for themselves.  It's part of why I'm such a good present giver, I really can just step outside and know what THEY want fulfilled for themselves.


Exactly!  i'm also that way at work, not only with my superiors but with my subordinates.  i want them to be fulfilled, successful, empowered. 

Master doesn't own me to submit to me, He owns me for His pleasure and His happiness.  i can't see why He would own anyone who did not serve Him, who was not thrilled to be the vehicle for His pleasure.  He has introduced me to things i would not have thought of as something i would crave.  Yes, it is His arousal that arouses me, it's His pleasure that pleases me.  In this way both our needs are met.

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RE: MASTERS SEXUAL PLEASURE.... - 5/1/2008 8:20:23 AM   
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I am a little lost, I did not get the sarcasm, perhaps MASTER is right and I am just a stupid whore! I LOVE MY MASTER.
It amazes me how much POWER HE HAS over my very being. I will be his servant until the day I die then buried next to HIM. HE is my ONE TRUE MASTER and I am such a lucky bitch.
Today MASTER had me orgasm just by kissing HIS feet head down ass up..worshiping HIM licking in between HIS toes and kissing HIS underfoot.
That has never happened before...where I orgasm without any penetration or touching ,rubbing  of HIS pussy.
Lubegirl

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RE: MASTERS SEXUAL PLEASURE.... - 5/1/2008 8:24:36 AM   
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I have this so bad.  I'm now at the point where if Master ever asks me what I want him to do to me, my mind is a total blank.  I want him to what the fuck he likes, period.  To say anything else feels fraudulent, even when he bitches about my lack of imagination.  I have plenty of imagination, I just get the biggest kick from serving him.  Everybody wins.


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RE: MASTERS SEXUAL PLEASURE.... - 5/1/2008 9:07:46 AM   
GreedyTop


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~OT~

love the sigline, owned! (terry ROCKS!!)

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RE: MASTERS SEXUAL PLEASURE.... - 5/1/2008 9:31:34 AM   
subtee


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quote:

ORIGINAL: lubegirl

Today MASTER had me orgasm just by kissing HIS feet head down ass up..worshiping HIM licking in between HIS toes and kissing HIS underfoot.
That has never happened before...where I orgasm without any penetration or touching ,rubbing  of HIS pussy.
Lubegirl


Yes! There it is!!!

Good on ya, Lubester.

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