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RE: MASTERS SEXUAL PLEASURE.... - 5/2/2008 10:14:51 AM   
slavegirljoy


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ORIGINAL: lubegirl
 
Slavegirljoy, it sounds to me like you are in a wonderful relationship and I am very happy for you! 2 1/2 years living and serving your MASTER DAVID sounds very fucking hott!

Yes, lubegirl, i am in a wonderful relationship.  No matter how many times or how many ways i try to express how wonderful it is, the words just don't seem to be adequate.  Sometimes i feel like crying because i am so happy and because of the many long, lonely, frustrated years i spent trying to make relationships work with men who were wrong for me and years trying to go it alone, before finally meeting my Master. 
 
Hott is different things to different people.  And, i happen to think my relationship is pretty hott, although most people wouldn't think so, since a lot of my time is spent cleaning and doing laundry.  There's not a 24-hour orgy going on in this house but, i am very sexually aroused just being here, knowing that i am His property and that i belong to Him and that He can do whatever He wants with me any time He wants.  Yeah, that's fucking hott, to me.

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I am envious I only get my MASTER once a month for a week in person. I hope this is not subfrenzy ladies. I do feel that HE is my life, and I am so happy to have found HIM that I will proclaim it to all I do not care who or where I literally kiss my MASTERS ass.

You don't have to be envious.  If it's meant to be, your relationship will grow and if the two of you really want to be together, there shouldn't be any reason that you can't make it happen.  In the meantime, just keep on enjoying what you've got with him.
 
Subfrenzy is a term that i never heard of until i started reading these forums.  Who cares if some people choose to call the euphoria you're feeling, subfrenzy?  If it feels great, enjoy it.  Enjoy it to its fullest and for as long as it lasts.  Nobody knows what tomorrow may bring.  So, i say enjoy each day any way you can.  Its a precious thing, that feeling of being with someone who has the power to see inside you and understand what you're made of and is able to touch those places inside you that most people never come close to. 
 
It sounds to me like you are enjoying the experience at least as much as he is.  And, if it should turn out that he ends up taking you for a ride, like some people have cautioned you about, oh well, enjoy the ride while it lasts and maybe learn something from it.   Life can have some hard lessons but, that doesn't mean that you should just play it safe all the time and never take a chance.  No relationship comes with a foolproof guarantee.  You sound like you're on cloud 9 right now and i'm happy for you.
 
joy
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RE: MASTERS SEXUAL PLEASURE.... - 5/2/2008 10:18:18 AM   
CalifChick


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ORIGINAL: CalifChick
In general, people that are in deep, secure relationships don't proclaim it at the top of their lungs in every post.

See? I am in a deep and secure relationship, yet I still walk around in a love-crazed frenzy, telling whoever will listen that He is the most amazing, wonderful, sadistic, imaginative, supportive and loving Master in the world.


Hejira, you goofy girl.  You don't go jumping around like a 16 yr old girl with her first big crush, proclaiming true love forever, at the top of her lungs, in every single post.  There is a decidedly different flavor to your style than the OP's.

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RE: MASTERS SEXUAL PLEASURE.... - 5/2/2008 10:26:11 AM   
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ORIGINAL: slavegirljoy

  Who cares if some people choose to call the euphoria you're feeling, subfrenzy?  If it feels great, enjoy it.  Enjoy it to its fullest and for as long as it lasts.  Nobody knows what tomorrow may bring.  So, i say enjoy each day any way you can.  Its a precious thing, that feeling of being with someone who has the power to see inside you and understand what you're made of and is able to touch those places inside you that most people never come close to. 
 
It sounds to me like you are enjoying the experience at least as much as he is.  And, if it should turn out that he ends up taking you for a ride, like some people have cautioned you about, oh well, enjoy the ride while it lasts and maybe learn something from it.   Life can have some hard lessons but, that doesn't mean that you should just play it safe all the time and never take a chance.  No relationship comes with a foolproof guarantee.  You sound like you're on cloud 9 right now and i'm happy for you.
 
joy
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I agree and well articulated, joy!

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RE: MASTERS SEXUAL PLEASURE.... - 5/2/2008 10:29:16 AM   
CalifChick


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Status: offline 		Maybe I'm more conservative than I thought, but I couldn't tell someone to enjoy the ride if there's a possibility they will lose their business in the process. 

Logically, why does someone need to be on a business bank account unless they are a fully participating partner in the business?

And I gotta wonder what kind of business someone is in when they can immediately drop to the floor and stick their ass in the air when their master calls?  A work-from-home business, I hope.

Cali


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RE: MASTERS SEXUAL PLEASURE.... - 5/2/2008 10:54:18 AM   
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RE: MASTERS SEXUAL PLEASURE.... - 5/2/2008 10:58:27 AM   
CalifChick


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ORIGINAL: Dnomyar
Cali when did you get cynical.


Oh, you ain't seen nuthin' yet.  I'm working on stone-cold bitch.  Seriously.

Cali


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RE: MASTERS SEXUAL PLEASURE.... - 5/2/2008 11:00:03 AM   
lanie38


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I woudln't worry too much about it...cause personally I think she's actually a guy...he's unemployed, lives in his mom's basement, spends his days in a wife-beater T, dirty boxer shorts, surfing bad porn...please...have you read some of these responses...they're right out of a bad country song..not too mention that some are very repetitive, like copied and pasted repetitive...yep it's a guy, I'd bet money on it!

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RE: MASTERS SEXUAL PLEASURE.... - 5/2/2008 11:05:50 AM   
Dnomyar


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Status: offline 		lanie it could be worse. It could be a polka.

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RE: MASTERS SEXUAL PLEASURE.... - 5/2/2008 11:09:49 AM   
Lynnxz


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ORIGINAL: lanie38

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I woudln't worry too much about it...cause personally I think she's actually a guy...he's unemployed, lives in his mom's basement, spends his days in a wife-beater T, dirty boxer shorts, surfing bad porn...please...have you read some of these responses...they're right out of a bad country song..not too mention that some are very repetitive, like copied and pasted repetitive...yep it's a guy, I'd bet money on it!


I'm glad I'm not the only one who noticed that... but then again the pictures seem real enough... idk.

I'd never put someone on my business account.. then again I don't see myself as the slave-type.... more power to you I guess?

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RE: MASTERS SEXUAL PLEASURE.... - 5/2/2008 11:12:52 AM   
mistoferin


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ORIGINAL: slavegirljoy
Life can have some hard lessons but, that doesn't mean that you should just play it safe all the time and never take a chance.  


I'm all for taking chances. We all take chances and risks every day. I at least try to calculate the risks I take though. Ever hear the saying "Only fools rush in"? Lots of wisdom in that saying. Just saying....

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RE: MASTERS SEXUAL PLEASURE.... - 5/2/2008 11:13:38 AM   
lanie38


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RE: MASTERS SEXUAL PLEASURE.... - 5/2/2008 11:14:33 AM   
faerytattoodgirl


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I woudln't worry too much about it...cause personally I think she's actually a guy...


i HIGHLY doubt a woman would call themselves lubegirl.

wtf?!?!?!


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RE: MASTERS SEXUAL PLEASURE.... - 5/2/2008 11:18:47 AM   
OmegaG


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Status: offline 		ya know, m'Lord is helping curb my impuse buying as I need to save money now-- and I need the extra nudge not to spend small bits of money on superfluous stuff.

With that said, our relationship is maybe a tad bit over 6 months and we haven't evolved to the amount of control and liability as lubegirl.  Personally, that his alot of responsibility he is taking by adding his name to her business.

But who knows, she might be the one to beat the odds.

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RE: MASTERS SEXUAL PLEASURE.... - 5/2/2008 12:05:06 PM   
Bound2One


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ORIGINAL: OmegaG
But who knows, she might be the one to beat the odds.


You never know.  I think Joy has a point in enjoying the sensations and feelings as they come, but I just get a bad feeling from lubegirl.  She's so over-the-top ecstatic, which is not my style at all, so I just roll my eyes a bit (kinda like when I'm listening to a 16yo go on and on about how cute her boyfriend is) ... but when she mentions that he's got his name on her business bank account, my alarms go off.  I don't care how hot the sex is and the control is ... that just sounds like trouble to me. 
 
Lubegirl, I just hope you're going to be okay.  Here's a link for an interesting article I found on 'subfrenzy' that I read this morning after reading this thread.  http://www.submissiveloving.com/subfrenzy.html  
 
As with all things, YMMV, and I do hope things work out really well for you and you're here in 6 months still extolling his virtues in all caps, deliriously happy.  It's just that whenever anyone sounds so EXTREME it stands out. 

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RE: MASTERS SEXUAL PLEASURE.... - 5/2/2008 1:25:52 PM   
xxblushesxx


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Status: offline 		Yes, it does sound a lot like a guy fantasizing how the 'perfect' sub would behave.
Otoh; before I began looking (seriously) for a master, I spent a LOT of time reading the forums, and I saw sub-frenzy in action. It looks a lot like this. Because of these forums, I knew I *would* go through sub-frenzy, and knew to wait, take my time, and to get past the worst of it before looking for the one for me.  Sub-frenzy reminds me of a poem; 
"I burn my candle at both ends, it gives a lovely light, but ah my foes and oh my friends, it will not last the night"
On the assumption that lubegirl is a real person...
*if* for some strange reason this doesn't end up being a forever thing;
take is slowly next time
if he does steal from you, prosecute him to the fullest extent of the law
just because someone gives themself the title of 'dom' or 'master' does not necessarily make it true.
'because I said so', from a 'dom' is not a good reason to do something that is contrary to common sense, or to your physical, emotional and/or financial well-being.
learn what sub-frenzy is, and how to recognize it.
realize also, that many of the relationships which begin so wonderfully here, just aren't meant to be forever. Even if we want them to be, and especially if they are based on deceiving others.

And...*if* this is a fake profile, set up just to get people riled up, you should be ashamed of yourself. People care about other people, and it's human nature to try to help others out, even when they don't realize they need it; it's pretty crappy to take advantage of that.

*if* you are really who you say you are, just ignore that last bit. And also, if you really are who you say you are, you might just want to think about the fact that many people have given you advice, not because they are envious, and don't want you to be 'hott' and happy, but because we've seen too many 'firecracker romances'. They burn hot, but they burn quickly, and then they're forgotten. (except by those who were burned). So perhaps there are a few grains of invaluable information that has been offered to you here.

I'm just sayin'...

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RE: MASTERS SEXUAL PLEASURE.... - 5/2/2008 3:31:12 PM   
hejira92


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ORIGINAL: CalifChick

Hejira, you goofy girl.  You don't go jumping around like a 16 yr old girl with her first big crush, proclaiming true love forever, at the top of her lungs, in every single post.  There is a decidedly different flavor to your style than the OP's.

Cali



Yeah, but I FEEL like a 16 yr old girl (Master and I actually have a joke about it. I used to say I feel like a 14 yr old, but now we've been together for two years- so it's 16).
 
It's just my more reticent style (and fear that I won't be taken seriously) that keeps me in check. Hell, read some of my early journals- all caps and exclamation points. Master is only my second serious D/s relationship, so I considered myself novice, too (still do, actually).
 
I have read other posts by lubegirl and I think her real. I understand her feelings, her devotion and her amazement at how deep and true and RIGHT this relationship feels. When I found Master, I couldn't get over it (still can't). All my mistakes and misjudgements from the past- explained! Finally feeling comfortable in every aspect of the relationship. Being able to truly let go and be the sex craving nympho deviant I was meant to be!
 
It's wonderful. And the impulse to yell it from the rooftops is equally strong.
 
Lubegirl:
Subfrenzy is NOT a bad thing. It feels wonderful. Enjoy it, cherish it. The people here are just trying to remind you not to lose your better judgement to it. The first time I was in its throes, I ignored several red flags I should have seen (not Master- previous relationship). I was ok, but it took some perspective for me to straighten it out.

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RE: MASTERS SEXUAL PLEASURE.... - 5/2/2008 4:44:38 PM   
slavegirljoy


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ORIGINAL: hejira92

Subfrenzy is NOT a bad thing. It feels wonderful. Enjoy it, cherish it. The people here are just trying to remind you not to lose your better judgement to it.

This is how i feel, except that using 'better judgement' can sometimes stop you from taking that leap of faith and finding something amazing on the other side.  Sometimes doing something 'crazy' is the best thing you can do for yourself.  Of course, i realize that i'm a lot less cautious and a lot more trusting than many people and everyone has to follow their own rules about when to play it safe and when it's worth the risk.

Everyone has to do what they feel is right for them but, for me, if subfrenzy or whatever you want to call it, is part of the experience, then i say, "fine".  It's not going to stop me from following my heart.  To me, it's not something to be feared or to avoid, at all costs.

What's wrong with feeling excited and passionate and alive and maybe doing something stupid?  What's wrong with throwing caution to the wind and experiencing something unexpected and fantastic, even if it doesn't last or doesn't end up being 'happily ever after'? 

Sometimes things go wrong but, that doesn't ruin the experience for me or erase all the good things about it.  In fact, for me, that's just part of life.  If i fall or get knocked down, i get back up, dust myself off, maybe have a good cry and i try to hold on to every sensation i felt.  i would rather die by falling off a cliff than by rusting away on my front porch.  For me, doing things with passion and gusto and excitement and fearlessness is the best part of life. 
 
joy
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RE: MASTERS SEXUAL PLEASURE.... - 5/2/2008 6:00:24 PM   
laura2161


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ORIGINAL: OmegaG


But who knows, she might be the one to beat the odds.


For her sake I really hope she does.

That business bank acct set off my radar; everything else I just kind of laughed off.

It's going to be a 'big bad crash' ....if she doesnt beat the odds.


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RE: MASTERS SEXUAL PLEASURE.... - 5/3/2008 9:21:39 AM   
CalifChick


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Status: offline 		Dear lubegirl:

Thank you so much for the nice cmail you sent me on the other side.  I was flabbergasted that you would give me your phone number, when we have never even chatted.  Did you know that when you look up that name and phone number online, it shows that you are a lady of a certain profession who requires a "donation" (what a cute euphemism) of $400 per hour, with "no discounts available." 

Unfortunately, one of your many advertisements said not to contact you if you are "overweight or ugly" because your time is "very valuable".  Well yes, I would say $400 an hour is quite "valuable." But alas, I feel that I just don't meet your standards of beauty.

What I find most pathetic though, is that you see how strangers here are (were) concerned that you are being taken advantage of, and yet you continued with your little charade.  Well I think now we know why your "Master" is on your business account and what type of business that is, that you can drop to the floor with your head down and your ass up the moment he calls.

Good luck with in the future.  We'll miss you around here.  You were actually kind of cute, all bubbly and whatnot.

Cali


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RE: MASTERS SEXUAL PLEASURE.... - 5/3/2008 9:31:23 AM   
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