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ORIGINAL: abcbsex

Now, my cat would be a great submissive were he a human. He's attentive, stays out of the way for the most part and knows how to communicate his wants and needs (and sometimes tops from the bottom but in true Domme fashion I can just ignore it). Just for the record, none of this is sexual or s&m related (and I'm not looking to become more dominant myself), but I'm wondering if Dom/mes view their subs as I view my cat. I love him and take care of him because he is my responsibility, he in turn gives me companionship, obedience (most of the time) and quite literal praise. Is this a similar relationship a dominant person would have with their sub? I know people take literal pets in this lifestyle but I'm wondering on a more general basis.

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Excerpts from a Cat's Diary

Day 983 of my captivity. My captors continue to taunt me with
bizarre little dangling objects.

They dine lavishly on fresh meat, while the other inmates and I are
fed hash or some sort of dry nuggets. Although I make my contempt for
the rations perfectly clear, I nevertheless must eat something in
order to keep up my strength. The only thing that keeps me going is
my dream of escape.

In an attempt to disgust them, I once again vomit on the carpet.

Today I decapitated a mouse and dropped its headless body at their
feet. I had hoped this would strike fear into their hearts, since it
clearly demonstrates what I am capable of. However, they merely made
condescending comments about what a "good little hunter" I am.
Bastards!

There was some sort of assembly of their accomplices tonight. I was
placed in solitary confinement for the duration of the event.
However, I could hear the noises and smell the food. I overheard that my
confinement was due to the power of "allergies." I must learn what this
means, and how to use it to my advantage.

Today I was almost successful in an attempt to assassinate one of my
tormentors by weaving around his feet as he was walking. I must try
this again tomorrow -- but at the top of the stairs.

I am convinced that the other prisoners here are flunkies and
snitches. The dog receives special privileges. He is regularly released -
and seems to be more than willing to return. He is obviously retarded. The
bird has got to be an informant. I observe him communicate with the guards
regularly. I am certain that he reports my every move. My captors have
arranged protective custody for him in an elevated cell, so he is safe.
For now

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ORIGINAL: abcbsex

A number of messages I've recieved on the other side from submissive men have been along the lines of "you'd be a great Domme" as well as "please consider dominating me". My reply to them has always been, "no thanks, the only living thing I feel comfortable being in charge of is my cat"

Now, my cat would be a great submissive were he a human. He's attentive, stays out of the way for the most part and knows how to communicate his wants and needs (and sometimes tops from the bottom but in true Domme fashion I can just ignore it). Just for the record, none of this is sexual or s&m related (and I'm not looking to become more dominant myself), but I'm wondering if Dom/mes view their subs as I view my cat. I love him and take care of him because he is my responsibility, he in turn gives me companionship, obedience (most of the time) and quite literal praise. Is this a similar relationship a dominant person would have with their sub? I know people take literal pets in this lifestyle but I'm wondering on a more general basis.

I am honestly really curious about this, because it's the only experience I have with being in charge. I'm just trying to relate it to something I know. Also, it might be a good model for my relationship with my Alpha, as long as I don't start shredding the couch, right? thanks for any input.

-C

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ORIGINAL: tolovetolaugh

<------wants the other 982 pages to read

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ORIGINAL: abcbsex

Now, my cat would be a great submissive were he a human. He's attentive, stays out of the way for the most part and knows how to communicate his wants and needs (and sometimes tops from the bottom but in true Domme fashion I can just ignore it). Just for the record, none of this is sexual or s&m related (and I'm not looking to become more dominant myself), but I'm wondering if Dom/mes view their subs as I view my cat. I love him and take care of him because he is my responsibility, he in turn gives me companionship, obedience (most of the time) and quite literal praise. Is this a similar relationship a dominant person would have with their sub? I know people take literal pets in this lifestyle but I'm wondering on a more general basis.

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ORIGINAL: abcbsex

A number of messages I've recieved on the other side from submissive men have been along the lines of "you'd be a great Domme" as well as "please consider dominating me". My reply to them has always been, "no thanks, the only living thing I feel comfortable being in charge of is my cat"

Now, my cat would be a great submissive were he a human. He's attentive, stays out of the way for the most part and knows how to communicate his wants and needs (and sometimes tops from the bottom but in true Domme fashion I can just ignore it). Just for the record, none of this is sexual or s&m related (and I'm not looking to become more dominant myself), but I'm wondering if Dom/mes view their subs as I view my cat. I love him and take care of him because he is my responsibility, he in turn gives me companionship, obedience (most of the time) and quite literal praise. Is this a similar relationship a dominant person would have with their sub? I know people take literal pets in this lifestyle but I'm wondering on a more general basis.

I am honestly really curious about this, because it's the only experience I have with being in charge. I'm just trying to relate it to something I know. Also, it might be a good model for my relationship with my Alpha, as long as I don't start shredding the couch, right? thanks for any input.

-C

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ORIGINAL: Leatherist

I just pretend I'm chinese, and have em for lunch.

Man's best friend is also man's best meal. And I like the irony of beng the biter, rather than the bitee.