FTopinMichigan
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ORIGINAL: xanderzzz To me one of the major draws to the lifestyle is the whole dynamic of confronting a problem, administering an appropiriate punishment, forgive and move on. Just my own opinion, but I think part of the issue, to reevaluate, might also be that the punishment dynamic is one of your "major draws to the lifestyle." quote:
ORIGINAL: RexLongBeach The punishment dynamic serves many purposes, including helping her get past feeling badly about having disappointed you. Without punishment, she is only accountable to herself for her actions. This means she must also be in charge of forgiving herself. And what about for him? What happens when he feels badly for disappointing her, or for disappointing himself? Are his actions then punishable also? Is he not only then accountable to himself? (Seriously not looking for those questions to be answered ) I just find it interesting how the shoes only fits on one person's feet, when it comes to "disappointments" and transgressions, that are suggested to ONLY be treated with corporal, or other "punishments." quote:
ORIGINAL: xanderzzz She has repeatedly stated she does not think discipline will be needed. Perhaps this negotiating sub has said that she "thinks discipline" won't be necessary, as it's her goal to completely comply with her Dom, and she feels her character and personality are quite disciplined to start. Also, in view of the OP interchanging the two terms (discipline and punishment), I think the confusion can be seen, by the way each term is being applied. I'm pleased to read Emerald Slave's response (as always). She's right on with my sentiments too. Thanks, ES. K
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