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AAkasha -> Fun with Femdom Hot Buttons (5/1/2008 12:27:02 PM)
Another thread inspired a pseudo scientific experiment idea...so let me just toss this out there. Femdoms, read the following lines and imagine your favorite submissive (or fantasy sub, all you Johnny-Depp-lovers) saying these words to you, in whatever scenario or tone comes to mind. Rate on a scale from 1 to 10 which lines you find HOTTEST. And be honest. In a little bit I'll explain where I am going with this and maybe we can expand it and actually find some interesting information about our desires. I think most will figure out where I'm going with this. He says // This is how how hot it makes you on a scale from 1 - 10, with 10 being MOST TURNED ON! Can I massage your feet? What are you going to do to me? That hurts. Can I purchase that for you? I can't move. I'm so turned on. I'm afraid. Can I get you a drink? What are you going to do to me? What can I do for you now? May I give you an orgasm? I feel so helpless. Can I clean this up for you? Will you please allow me to cum? Would you me to prepare a bath for you? Where should I sit? You're scaring me. My knees hurt from kneeling. Akasha

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Fun with Femdom Hot Buttons (5/1/2008 12:33:00 PM)
[:D]Heh. This is funny. Edited to add: Can I massage your feet? 0 What are you going to do to me? 8 That hurts. 10 Can I purchase that for you? 0 I can't move. 7 I'm so turned on. 10 I'm afraid. 6 Can I get you a drink? 2 What are you going to do to me? 8 What can I do for you now? 4 May I give you an orgasm? 8 I feel so helpless. 0 Can I clean this up for you? 5 Will you please allow me to cum? 8 Would you me to prepare a bath for you? 4 Where should I sit? 2 You're scaring me. 8 My knees hurt from kneeling. 0

DominantJenny -> RE: Fun with Femdom Hot Buttons (5/1/2008 12:33:52 PM)
Can I massage your feet? 5 What are you going to do to me? 8 That hurts. 6 Can I purchase that for you? 2 I can't move. 4 I'm so turned on.6 I'm afraid. 5 Can I get you a drink? 5 What are you going to do to me? 8 What can I do for you now? 7 May I give you an orgasm? 6 I feel so helpless. 7 Can I clean this up for you? 6 Will you please allow me to cum? 7 Would you me to prepare a bath for you? 8 Where should I sit? 5 You're scaring me. 4 My knees hurt from kneeling. 1 Total first reaction without thinking about it too much.

DragonLady5 -> RE: Fun with Femdom Hot Buttons (5/1/2008 12:50:57 PM)
Can I massage your feet? - 0 What are you going to do to me? - 9 That hurts. - 10 Can I purchase that for you? - 3 I can't move. - 9 I'm so turned on. - 4 I'm afraid. - 10 Can I get you a drink? - 4 What are you going to do to me? - 9 What can I do for you now? - 6 May I give you an orgasm? - 3 I feel so helpless. - 10 Can I clean this up for you? - 7 Will you please allow me to cum? - 4 Would you me to prepare a bath for you? - 0 Where should I sit? - 6 You're scaring me. - 9 My knees hurt from kneeling. - 8 Had a good time imagining each, too.

Najakcharmer -> RE: Fun with Femdom Hot Buttons (5/1/2008 12:54:36 PM)
I can enjoy something without necessarily being turned on by it, so I'm only going to rate the ones that can actually get a sexual response from me when said in the right tone of voice by the right sub/bottom. Can I massage your feet? - Nope, I can enjoy a foot massage but it's not a turnon. What are you going to do to me? - Potential 10, fear, helplessness and apprehension is a turn-on. That hurts. - Probably not if it's whiny, complaints aren't sexy. Can I purchase that for you? - Naah, it's nice to be served but it's not a turn-on. I can't move. - Potential 5-8 if it's a helpless sort of surprise and fear, 0 if it's whiny. I'm so turned on. - Potential 10 depending on circumstance, or a 0 if it's whiny and demanding, like I'm expected to do something about it. If he's reluctant and frightened but his body is betraying him with slave-like responses, it's a 10. I'm afraid. - Potential 10. Fear is sexy. Can I get you a drink? - Nice but not a sexual turn-on. What are you going to do to me? - Potential 10 if it's said in real helplessness and apprehension, 0 if it's whiny and greedy, like he expects me to do something fetish-y for his gratification. What can I do for you now? - Nice and considerate, not an automatic turn-on. May I give you an orgasm? - Nice and considerate, but not a turn-on at all. I'll take it when I want it, thanks, or tell you what to do. I feel so helpless. - Potential 10 if said right. Can I clean this up for you? - Nice and considerate after a scene, not a turn-on. Will you please allow me to cum? - Potential turn-on, also potential turn-off if he's greedy and pushy about it. Would you me to prepare a bath for you? - Nice and considerate, not an instant turn-on. Where should I sit? - Potential 5-6 if he's apprehensive and submissive. You're scaring me. - Potential 10. Fear is sexy. My knees hurt from kneeling. - Whiners are not sexy. STFU or safeword if you have to. I'll definitely pay attention to your physical concerns especially if they are medical ones, but it's about safety and responsibility and it's a distraction, not a turn-on.

SylvereApLeanan -> RE: Fun with Femdom Hot Buttons (5/1/2008 1:25:50 PM)
~FR~ Can I massage your feet? 0 What are you going to do to me? 6 That hurts. 6 Can I purchase that for you? 3 I can't move. 3 I'm so turned on. 9 I'm afraid. 7 Can I get you a drink? 4 What are you going to do to me? 7 What can I do for you now? 6 May I give you an orgasm? 5 I feel so helpless. 7 Can I clean this up for you? 7 Will you please allow me to cum? 8 Would you me to prepare a bath for you? 6 Where should I sit? 4 You're scaring me. 9 My knees hurt from kneeling. 4 Edited for freaky computer glitches

MladyHathor -> RE: Fun with Femdom Hot Buttons (5/1/2008 1:39:18 PM)
Can I massage your feet? 6 What are you going to do to me? 23 That hurts. 45 Can I purchase that for you? 67 I can't move. 8 I'm so turned on. *1011* I'm afraid. 1213 Can I get you a drink? *1415* What are you going to do to me? 1617 What can I do for you now? 1819 May I give you an orgasm? *2021* I feel so helpless. *2223* Can I clean this up for you? *2425* Will you please allow me to cum? *2627* Would you me to prepare a bath for you? *2829* Where should I sit? *3031* You're scaring me. 3233 My knees hurt from kneeling. 3435

RumpusParable -> RE: Fun with Femdom Hot Buttons (5/1/2008 1:54:45 PM)
Am replying instead with 1-10 of which 1 is "puts me off " and 10 is "makes me happy", since none listed turn me on. Can I massage your feet? 8 That hurts. 1 or 7 depending on the meaning and if I intended it that way or not. Can I purchase that for you? 8 I can't move. 5 I'm so turned on. 3 I'm afraid. 5 Can I get you a drink? 9 What are you going to do to me? 1, 5, or 9 depending on the meaning and situation What can I do for you now? 6/7 May I give you an orgasm? 1 I feel so helpless. 2 Can I clean this up for you? 6 Will you please allow me to cum? 2 or 6, depending Would you me to prepare a bath for you? 9 Where should I sit? 8 You're scaring me. 5 My knees hurt from kneeling. 5

khem -> RE: Fun with Femdom Hot Buttons (5/1/2008 2:01:57 PM)
Can I massage your feet? 3 What are you going to do to me? 3 That hurts.5 Can I purchase that for you? 4 I can't move. 3 I'm so turned on. 6 I'm afraid.7 Can I get you a drink? 5 What are you going to do to me? 3 What can I do for you now? 8 May I give you an orgasm? 8 I feel so helpless. 3 Can I clean this up for you? 7 Will you please allow me to cum? 5 Would you me to prepare a bath for you? ??? Where should I sit? 3 You're scaring me. 8 My knees hurt from kneeling. 7

ShaktiSama -> RE: Fun with Femdom Hot Buttons (5/1/2008 2:16:30 PM)
Can I massage your feet? 4. Foot massage can be very pleasant if he's turned on by or during the act. I love receiving good service and I love to tease. But I don't have a fetish for my own feet per se. What are you going to do to me? 6. Opportunities for psychological torment are always fun. That hurts. 0-8. Completely dependent on the sub. Coming from a hot masochist, "that hurts" can be amazing. But I prefer a tone that captures the sense that it is amazing, rather than just painful. Can I purchase that for you? 0 Too many men try to control women with money. [:'(] I can't move. 5. "No, you can't, can you? Why....I could do anything to you, couldn't I?" I'm so turned on. 10 Just because I can see it doesn't mean I don't want to hear it. Gasp for me, you hot little slut--! I'm afraid. 5 slowly spreading smile "Smart boy." Can I get you a drink? 0. Again, being served makes me feel "loved" rather than "hot". It is good to be loved, but it is not sexplay per se for me. Just wonderful and joy-inducing. What are you going to do to me? 7. "Oh, what am I not going to do to you, my poor sweet helpless toy..." What can I do for you now? 0. Again, "loved" but not "hot" per se. May I give you an orgasm? 3. In the early stages of the relationship, it's good to ask when and how, although putting it this way would kinda turn me off. After a point, though, I just want him to know what I need and give it to me...well. I feel so helpless. 3. Jumps to an 8 if he isn't tied up or restrained at the time. Perhaps I take this one too much for granted. [;)] Can I clean this up for you? 0. Not automatically sexy. And he shouldn't have to ask. Messes are not to be left. Will you please allow me to cum? 7. Jumps to a 10 if I get to say "no" a few times along the way, with each successive request becoming more desperate and intense. [sm=evil.gif] Would you like me to prepare a bath for you? 3. Potentially sexy if all the good service is a precursor to a good sensual orgasmic shag. Where should I sit? 0. Deference is good, but not automatically sexy. You're scaring me. 4. Jumps to an 8 when he's completely clothed, not at all tied up, and out of arm's reach sitting across a table. Nothing is sexier than a man who knows what he wants--and that it's useless to run. My knees hurt from kneeling. Weird one. In scene it would be a 0--it means he has to move or change positions. Afterward, though, when we're having dinner or doing something more vanilla, sex-related aches and pains are somehow a lot hotter and can get me going again. 5-6.

submale4u2spank -> RE: Fun with Femdom Hot Buttons (5/1/2008 4:08:35 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ShaktiSama What are you going to do to me? 6. Opportunities for psychological torment are always fun. What are you going to do to me? 7. "Oh, what am I not going to do to you, my poor sweet helpless toy..." [sm=alien.gif]

aidan -> RE: Fun with Femdom Hot Buttons (5/1/2008 4:16:03 PM)
Mmmm, this thread has proved very informative and reassuring. Thanks for starting it, Akasha. [:D]

MissArtemida -> RE: Fun with Femdom Hot Buttons (5/1/2008 4:24:33 PM)
Can I massage your feet? 7 What are you going to do to me? 5 That hurts. 4 Can I purchase that for you? 7 I can't move. 8 I'm so turned on. 3 I'm afraid. 7 Can I get you a drink? 5 What are you going to do to me? 8 What can I do for you now? 6 May I give you an orgasm? 3 I feel so helpless. 9 Can I clean this up for you? 5 Will you please allow me to cum? 10 Would you me to prepare a bath for you? 4 Where should I sit? 7 You're scaring me. 8 My knees hurt from kneeling. 9

solia -> RE: Fun with Femdom Hot Buttons (5/1/2008 4:46:10 PM)
He says // This is how how hot it makes you on a scale from 1 - 10, with 10 being MOST TURNED ON! Can I massage your feet? 0 What are you going to do to me? 7 That hurts. 10 Can I purchase that for you? 10 I can't move. 8 I'm so turned on. 0 I'm afraid. 8 Can I get you a drink? 5 What are you going to do to me? What can I do for you now? 10 May I give you an orgasm? 7 I feel so helpless. 8 Can I clean this up for you? 8 Will you please allow me to cum? 8 Would you me to prepare a bath for you? 5 Where should I sit? 3 You're scaring me. 9 My knees hurt from kneeling. 8 Akasha [/quote]

submale4u2spank -> RE: Fun with Femdom Hot Buttons (5/1/2008 6:13:13 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MissArtemida What are you going to do to me? 5 What are you going to do to me? 8 [sm=alien.gif]

ShaktiSama -> RE: Fun with Femdom Hot Buttons (5/1/2008 6:17:57 PM)
Hee hee. It's hotter the second time he asks, silly!

MsStarlett -> RE: Fun with Femdom Hot Buttons (5/1/2008 6:24:17 PM)
Can I massage your feet? 9 - I loves a good foot rub. Don't forget to kiss my lil piggies. What are you going to do to me? 5 Shut it and wait a minute. That hurts. 7 - always good for grins Can I purchase that for you? 10 - but only if it's chocolate, shoes or corset making supplies I can't move. 10 if it's Subm4heruse... 5 anyone else. I'm so turned on. 3 I don't care what you like. I'm afraid. 9 - You should be. Can I get you a drink? 10 if it's WayofftheWall... 5 anyone else. What are you going to do to me? 1 I said Shut it the first time! What can I do for you now? 8 May I give you an orgasm? 10 if it's Gristle... 5 anyone else. I feel so helpless. 1 Helpless is Useless. Can I clean this up for you? 9! Love a useful man. Will you please allow me to cum? 2 It's not about you. Would you like me to prepare a bath for you? 8 That's one of my favorite things Where should I sit? 2 You should know the answer! The FLOOR! You're scaring me. 9 'Nuff said My knees hurt from kneeling. 1 That's my problem because? Buy some frelling knee pads!

AAkasha -> RE: Fun with Femdom Hot Buttons (5/1/2008 6:54:35 PM)
Fun answers to read! Any femdoms have new "hot lines from subs" to add? I will admit my little experiment failed. I had this idea that perhaps femdoms could be divided into (sort of) three types, and their reactions to lines might help identify this. For example, the three types could be: * Femdoms who love vulnerability I consider this my category - I like a lot of things, but submissive vulnerability really gets me hot. So lines like, "What are you going to do to me?" and "I can't move" really get me going. * Femdoms who like to make men suffer That's a big category for me too, but a little more second place. Lines like "That hurts" fit into that category. * Femdoms who like to tended to, taken care of The lines like "Can I massage your feet" or "Would you like an orgasm?" * Femdoms who like to be spoiled and treated like a princess Lines like "Can I buy that for you?" But I realize that so much depends on the way most of these things are said. Maybe this is too context-based to really be effective as a way to divide up the groups. I think people know where I am going with this... Anyway it's fun seeing reactions to the lines. We should add more lines and increase the list. Submissives should add some lines of their own.... Akasha

blackpearl81 -> RE: Fun with Femdom Hot Buttons (5/1/2008 6:54:58 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MsStarlett Can I massage your feet? 9 - I loves a good foot rub. Don't forget to kiss my lil piggies. What are you going to do to me? 5 Shut it and wait a minute. That hurts. 7 - always good for grins Can I purchase that for you? 10 - but only if it's chocolate, shoes or corset making supplies I can't move. 10 if it's Subm4heruse... 5 anyone else. I'm so turned on. 3 I don't care what you like. I'm afraid. 9 - You should be. Can I get you a drink? 10 if it's WayofftheWall... 5 anyone else. What are you going to do to me? 1 I said Shut it the first time! What can I do for you now? 8 May I give you an orgasm? 10 if it's Gristle... 5 anyone else. I feel so helpless. 1 Helpless is Useless. Can I clean this up for you? 9! Love a useful man. Will you please allow me to cum? 2 It's not about you. Would you like me to prepare a bath for you? 8 That's one of my favorite things Where should I sit? 2 You should know the answer! The FLOOR! You're scaring me. 9 'Nuff said My knees hurt from kneeling. 1 That's my problem because? Buy some frelling knee pads! /makes note I'm not listed once on her list. /emo poetry & suicide.

MsStarlett -> RE: Fun with Femdom Hot Buttons (5/1/2008 6:59:02 PM)
hmmmm.... Subm is my pain slut who likes to be immobilized. OfftheWall drinks urine. Gristle is my husband. Would you like to switch places with any of them?

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