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RE: Who in your family likes to be the emotional shit s... - 5/4/2008 4:05:17 PM

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How ironic, My dad's always been my champion against my moms cruelty, and in general. So when she starts shit I go to my Dad, and ask him to talk to her about not doing that what ever it was that made me go to him. Lately though he hates being in the middle, and sometimes will say I don't want to hear it, but most the time he'll sigh and say I'll talk to her. Which does help.

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i have three sisters, all of whom are capable of reducing my mother to tears in nothing flat, which of course sends my mom straight to me, all upset and bawling. i would almost swear they do it on purpose!
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RE: Who in your family likes to be the emotional shit s... - 5/4/2008 4:07:05 PM

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We find it laughable that someone started a drama thread to badmouth a family member for being a drama starting badmouther.

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RE: Who in your family likes to be the emotional shit s... - 5/4/2008 4:12:12 PM

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? oh ok....maybe it's the nipples talking?

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RE: Who in your family likes to be the emotional shit s... - 5/4/2008 4:14:56 PM

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? oh ok....maybe it's the nipples talking?

lmao..

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RE: Who in your family likes to be the emotional shit s... - 5/4/2008 4:15:39 PM

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We find it laughable that someone started a drama thread to badmouth a family member for being a drama starting badmouther.

or perhaps someone feeling frustration was looking for folks who could identify with what they were feeling?

i will never understand the need some have to stick their 2 cents in a thread only to put someone down.......and to find it laughable, given the emotion that has been displayed in this thread, by the op and several others, well, bless your heart.

shame on me......i stuck my 2 cents in only to say something not nice.

but wtf, todays my day to be hypocritical anyhow

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RE: Who in your family likes to be the emotional shit s... - 5/4/2008 4:16:47 PM

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? oh ok....maybe it's the nipples talking?

gawd there went the tea.......again

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RE: Who in your family likes to be the emotional shit s... - 5/4/2008 4:18:24 PM

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I am glad you enjoyed your little laugh, now if you have nothing on topic to contribute please wander along. don't hijack the thread. The mods do not allow hijacking threads and you can be warned at best for it and at worst put on moderation.

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We find it laughable that someone started a drama thread to badmouth a family member for being a drama starting badmouther.

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RE: Who in your family likes to be the emotional shit s... - 5/4/2008 4:27:24 PM

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My mom is the shit starter. It never fails. She bitches about a pair of pants that are comfy that I hang around my house in because the hems are ripped from walking on them. She bitches about the fact that my life isnt where SHE wants it to be. Hell, she bitched me out because my cousin has one kid, and twins on the way and doesnt have a home to live in (hows that my fault again?). I could talk all day long about the shit she starts, but I would need a lot of space...

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RE: Who in your family likes to be the emotional shit s... - 5/4/2008 4:47:35 PM

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My mom was always on me about not wearing things she thought I should or dressing as nice as she thought I should, one day she's like you're not wearing THAT are you and I said yes, butI could go get a dirty wrinkled stinking outfit out of the laundry hamper and wear that if you prefered, an she's never really said that again lol.

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My mom is the shit starter. It never fails. She bitches about a pair of pants that are comfy that I hang around my house in because the hems are ripped from walking on them.

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RE: Who in your family likes to be the emotional shit s... - 5/4/2008 5:45:39 PM

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Yea. My mom tends to be a bit of a fashion Nazi. If I am not dressed like someones Grandma Essie, shes not happy about how I look. Fuck, I am 21, been dressing myself since I was 3. I think I can dress myself for a day out to go to lunch and manicures with her. Sheesh!

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RE: Who in your family likes to be the emotional shit s... - 5/4/2008 6:18:28 PM

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For my mom, she just don't like that I don't dress fancy do up my hair put on make up, you know pull out the stops, simply for going to dinner with family. She herself will take like 30 mins to do hair and make up and preen just to go to her sons house.

To me if I have bathed before the outing an my clothes are clean I am as dressed up as I care to be. I also don't believe in wearing my nicest clothing out to eat, unless it's a date.

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RE: Who in your family likes to be the emotional shit s... - 5/4/2008 7:55:28 PM

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my mother is a former model and would disown me if i had that frame of mind about my appearance.
but i dont, so she still loves me!

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RE: Who in your family likes to be the emotional shit s... - 5/4/2008 8:18:35 PM

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RE: Who in your family likes to be the emotional shit s... - 5/4/2008 8:19:35 PM

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That'd unquestionably be my cousin Dawn. She likes to tell stories, hear secrets so she can use them later, and make up stuff when she has no real dirt to spread.

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RE: Who in your family likes to be the emotional shit s... - 5/5/2008 2:21:05 AM

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My biological brother is a shit starter too but I refuse to be around him or talk to him, and since he's in the army and now married he's never around.

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RE: Who in your family likes to be the emotional shit s... - 5/5/2008 2:23:25 AM

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My big sister hates me, and has only recently let me see her kids... but the whole family knows shes a bitch, so its ok :)

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RE: Who in your family likes to be the emotional shit s... - 5/5/2008 2:34:20 AM

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It is not happening a lot but the "shit starter" at home must be my step father.
Always making comments on :

Why my loved one and myself are not getting married?
Why I did not already made him grand father?
Why I don't take my medecine against epilepsy? which I answered him Thursday that : If HE wanted to be a grand father soon, I Could not take these fuc..... medecine.

What is worse it is when he is drunk (not often hopefully)

But anyway He raised me, he did what my real father never did for me, he was there in health and in bad time and love him really much.

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RE: Who in your family likes to be the emotional shit s... - 5/5/2008 2:44:03 AM

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In my family, the person that tends to bring about most disagreements would be me. I am outspoken and opinionated, not to the point of being bloody-minded but I don't sugarcoat things although do try and be tactful. I prefer being treated the same way, however and hate when people pussy-foot around what they would like to say rather than what they do say. Having said all that though, while it doesn't induce favourable discourse initially, my family do thank me later on... I am no different with family members than I am with friends. One thing I have always refused to do is be someone else's 'whipping post'. I am also the one that will look at it from all sides and try to diffuse any kind of situation.

I have always been rebellious b/c I prefer to formulate my own opinions rather than have someone dictate how I should think. I could never envision life without my family and regardless of disagreements, which I have to say are few/far between, although life hasn't always been that way, I know they love me and want only the best for me. The only exception is my brother, we have little to do with one another. Money rules his life, people aren't anything if they haven't got it and by that, they have to have a 60k per annum salary minimum, career with achievements, etc... He's always looked own on me as I have other priorties and my mother once said to me that he was envious of me, which blew me away at the time... she explained he was envious b/c he knows money rules his world and he'd like to have the attitude where he can be 'carefree'. When we meet I greet him politely but refuse to allow his negativities to affect me or my life in any way.

The shit maker in my boy's family is his sister... she's a lovely girl but emotionally troubled and that stems from his family's divorce and affected her tremendously, she's always fighting her demons and is gradually learning that there are consequences for her behaviours, ie she cannot attack someone verbally and expect there to be no consequences.

My mother and I are more like sisters... She and I have such a lot of fun when together, although when living together drive one another demented!!! I love her dearly, for all she is including her 'eccentricities'.

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RE: Who in your family likes to be the emotional shit s... - 5/5/2008 3:08:11 AM

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no one really. petty stuff comes out here and there from everyone, but no one is out to truely tare into anyone else.

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RE: Who in your family likes to be the emotional shit s... - 5/5/2008 9:32:09 AM

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As i'm reading this it comes through my mind, what good examples of why we need to learn acceptance of our loved ones. Much of the pain stems from lack of acceptance of what is. We cannot change people, we can only change our perceptions. Accept what is, in them, and in yourself, and you remove the ammo from their guns effortlessly. Besides it drives them batty to not get a rise from you. They feed off that pain. Sadly many are conditioned to. You are not the emotions they spark in you, you are not the content of your past, you are the observer of these things. The inner core of you knows peace and love and joy and is not affected by other peoples issues unless you allow that.
Just a thought sequence. Something i'm working on in my own life.
So its monday....

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