StormsSlave
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So, you're subjecting yourself to disobeying your own moral code to satisfy the sexual desires of another? That can't be a good thing. Avoiding the BDSM vs. religion debate, only you can decide what is right for you. If you believe that you will have to answer to a higher power for your actions, well..in the long run, who is really the dom in your life? I happen to know that there are christian men in the kinky lifestyle. It's probably like finding a needle in a haystack, but it's possible for you to do. That way, your situation is more biblically correct (man head of the house, you submitting to man, while he submits to God.) Your moral and ethical standards will line up more closely, and his domination of you will likely not include random sex acts with various men. It boils down to the same thing in all relationships. You have to start with the same core beliefs. You have to be up front about what you are or are not willing to do. You have to find someone who desires the same things you do, and will dominate you in a way that doesn't cause you to commit mortal sins. Otherwise, resentment will build as his needs are met and yours are trampled. Not a good start for any relationship. It may come down to not accepting the domination of just any dom so that you can be having sexual satisfaction. It might mean waiting until the right one is found, or at least, a more suitable one. This is why God made masturbation! (Which might actually violate your moral code, come to think of it.) Why jeopardize your eternal soul (since this is what you believe) for a few hours of kinky fun? It really comes down to: get your priorities straight before you expect someone else to do it for you.
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